please please please help me. i am going nuts.

plshelpme · #1 13-09-2010, 01:30 AM

hi all. i have a girlfriend. she is currently studying overseas. so being lonely, i went to geylang to relieve on 10/09/10. It is my first time and i went to a fishtank at lor 18 house number 40. The girl gave me a bath and the bj was protected with condom on. so was the intercourse. to be very honest, i was very nervous so i wasn't very hard and infact i didn't ejaculate. But i did kiss the CSW. not french. but i did kiss her.

and like many other first timers, guilt and regret overcame me. i swore never to do this again and fear gripped me. thoughts of diseases and HIV are haunting me. i am very affected by this and my life becoming a tragedy is playing over and over again in my head. me losing my so precious girlfriend. my friends shunning me. me giving up on life.

i intend to go for a check up at the 1 month mark. and aft reading many other threads here i was certain my risk level is very low. right this moment, i am experiencing numbness in my hands and abit in my face. this is making me extremely worried. i am freaking out. can some one at AFA or some professional please help me. pls.

sammyboyfor · #2 13-09-2010, 04:07 AM

You need a psychiatrist.

RealEstateGuy · #3 13-09-2010, 05:25 AM

Brother, HIV and other STDs ie Herpes (oral and genital) are all transmitted by body fluids. While you did the sacred thing of not actually having intecouse with the provider you still exchanged body fluids in a high risk situation. High risk is defined on a relative basis as higher than if you had body fluids exchanged with a non promiscuious non commercial sex worker. Brother, the likelyhood is probably low but we are dealing with odds and statisctics. You can find those yourself online or ask your health care professional. I recommend you calm down, abstain from such behavior, and get retested in a few months. Brother, also remember skin to skin contact can also transmit STDs. Also do use a condom not house brand. Otherwise would be like direct injection. Brother, keep us up to date.

RealEstateGuy · #4 13-09-2010, 05:30 AM

http://pediatrics.about.com/od/stds/...d_symptoms.htm

Brother, this might help you. Numbness is a syphillus symptom. Not sure if your numbness is psychosomatic or from stress ie fear of STD rather than STD itself. I reccomend you contact a health care professional in person rather than use online assistance from people like us who are not academically trained to diagnose and care for you.

Big Sexy · #5 13-09-2010, 09:23 AM

there is little to worry..
go for the hiv pep treatment if u want..

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. this is making me extremely worried..

Big Sexy · #6 13-09-2010, 09:28 AM

What??? he is your brother???? lol
mate read your brother's post again..

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Brother, While you did the sacred thing of not actually having intecouse with the provider you still exchanged body fluids in a high risk situation.

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Originally Posted by plshelpme

The girl gave me a bath and the bj was protected with condom on. so was the intercourse.

plshelpme · #7 13-09-2010, 12:28 PM

is it possible for symtoms to develop so soon? or am i just paranoid? is it just a result of stress? what are some of the first symptoms i will experience if i am infected?

sammyboyfor · #8 13-09-2010, 01:37 PM

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is it possible for symtoms to develop so soon? or am i just paranoid? is it just a result of stress? what are some of the first symptoms i will experience if i am infected?

If you've caught something, the first symptoms you experience all depend on exactly what infection you have picked up.

Google "STD symptoms". There's loads of info on the web.

Big Sexy · #9 13-09-2010, 02:04 PM

you are unlikely to experience numbness at such a early stage..
if i am remember correctly....
numbness will only appear at a very late stage of syphilis and
numbness in G herpes is usually localised to certain area..

you are just paranoid!
pop a chill pill

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is it possible for symtoms to develop so soon? or am i just paranoid? is it just a result of stress? what are some of the first symptoms i will experience if i am infected?

Mike1972 · #10 13-09-2010, 02:05 PM

I think the houses one should be relatively safe?

RealEstateGuy · #11 13-09-2010, 03:23 PM

Brother, for you own sanity you really should consult with a health care professonal. None of the people here can give you the answer. We run no lab and cant see you over the Internet.

plshelpme · #12 14-09-2010, 12:44 AM

thx all bros. u guys really make me feel better. appreciated. i guess i'll need e test to be sure.

doomday123 · #13 14-09-2010, 08:44 AM

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thx all bros. u guys really make me feel better. appreciated. i guess i'll need e test to be sure.

I doubt there is a need unless you feel something wrong below.
Your chances of having HIV is closed to 0%.

Do note that those girls in Geylang House do go for regular checkup.

peanut123 · #14 14-09-2010, 12:30 PM

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thx all bros. u guys really make me feel better. appreciated. i guess i'll need e test to be sure.

bro, dun worry. if you had protected BJ and protected FJ, your chance of getting HIV is practically nil. Numbness is not caused by STDs ( or at least, not in the early stages ), so whatever you feel is probably caused by something else ( in your brain/nervous system,which will require a neurologist to diagnose ), or its just your mind playing tricks on you.

When I had my first go at WLs, I was worried sick too. I had a BBBJ by a girl in a bar ( in Bangkok, there are bars where the girls blow you right there in the bar. I was young and stupid ), and the very next morning I had a fever. I was worried sick, and I began to imagine symptoms that I didn't really have. After I was given the all clear by DSC, all my "symptoms" went away. It was all in my imagination.

To be safe, go for a full STD check up ( this is non-anonymous ) and an anonymous HIV checkup at the AFA clinic at DSC.

saintathome · #15 14-09-2010, 12:40 PM

I agree with the other bros y worry urself rite here? I understand tat u need some word of advice & assurance now but tat is all we can do rite here- talk about it. I reckon ur numbness may b due to ur overly worried about what that u may have. Thus best cure for ur worries now is to really go see a doc and have him diagnose for u. Dun stay by e com anymore, go see a doc.