What will you do if u found out your partner is a swinger?

[chubi2004]

Last year, I found out he is a swinger, I saw her recently post in sbf saying he is looking for a noon session for swinger couple but there's a swinger named colourblind reply that last time his partner is too shy so she doesn't want to meet up again.. I asked him, he quote that he just want to disturb her because colorblind meet up alot of partners, she forgotten which swing partners already. Is it true??? I'm only 24 this year and We have 2 very young kids, I don't want to divorce cause that will hurt them in their childhood days. But wat can I do now? Endure??? Till my kids grow up?

[F-boy]

You can join in the fun and explore a whole new world. What is your hubby's nick?

[hugs]

TS,

sorry r u the wife or the husband? u dont know what to do about what? is it about ur husband swinging without u( if u r the wife)?

cos u joined sbf since march 2004...............

[MakybeDiva]

You n ur hub join sbf together? Or u met him from here?

[boyzilian]

have a heart to heart talk with your hubby or wife . you are trying to conceal your identity but name a nick in the forum . well good luck .

[digby]

Sadly but true, mens always are looking for fresh stuff in the big sea. Eating shark fin will one make him feel like it does not taste good anymore. Speak to him, ask him what he wants. If you want to make this work, be patient with him and understand what are his needs.

Ask him whether he has given up on the marriage. If he really wants to give up, my advice to you is be strong let bygone be bygone. Move on and never look back. you are so young, don't be too sad. I'm from a broken family so i understand how a child will feel with step mother and step father. Its better if you guys can sort things out.

[see see only]

Originally Posted by digby

Sadly but true, mens always are looking for fresh stuff in the big sea. Eating shark fin will one make him feel like it does not taste good anymore.

Women does the same but more discreetly OR turn to dresses, food, handbags, shoes or etc etc ....


Human as we are, so TS since you found out that he a swinger, accept it or reject him.


By the way a tactful way is to buy him a big packet of condom and remind him to use it .... if he still dont get it and cant stop what he is doing AND you cant take it anymore ...... then this untold story of marriage could have a early ending instead of what we are always told when young - "happily ever after".

[Xgenre]

Looking at the history of posts, it's likely that the wife found out about the husband's SBF habits and used his nick to start this thread.

[Striker79]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Looking at the history of posts, it's likely that the wife found out about the husband's SBF habits and used his nick to start this thread.

Thats a stupid move.

Wont the husband knows that his wife use his nick to post this by checking his past postings ???

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by Striker79

Thats a stupid move.

Wont the husband knows that his wife use his nick to post this by checking his past postings ???

Maybe that's what she wants. Imagine your wife lets you know that she is monitoring your nick. Will you still dare to do anything with this nick? You will either quit or restart a new nick (which won't be easy to get contacts.)

[sean99]

So far no reply from thread starter,we are all in the suspence.....

[ck1961]

delete post

[LowGimChong]

TS, no replies at all?

[actblur1]

TS MIA already