Honey, can u tell me honestly..... ?

[kingcon]

Hi all SBF followers. Please bear with me as I am an inexperience writer. The story is for sharing and i will find time to complete the story with my C6 grade lousy english.

I'm getting married this coming sept and my fiancee like to asked me questions like....

Honey can u tell me honestly do u have sex with another girl behind my back before? Promise i will not get angry.

Honey can u tell me abt ur sex life with ur ex gf? I wanna do better than them.

Any brothers here encounter these questions from their wife or gf? Any advise for me to tackle these questions? Hope there's ladies feedback too.

Lucky for me, my fiancee will not force me to answers these questions whenever i dismiss the talk. I don't believe that being honest with her about these questions will do any benefits for our relationship. Everybody have their past and i have it too. I decide to confess it here.

Some of the girls in my life include

1. Zhen (Secondary clasmate)

2. Janice (workplace friend)

3. Hebe (Polytechnic schoolmate)

4. Ice & Ivy (1st ever 3some attempt)

5. Anna (The actress)

Pls note that the above mentions name is a make up. I got to change it to protect them. As wat i've said earlier, i will be taking quite long period of time to finish this story (target before my wedding in sept) or i might even halfway dropout due to busy work schedule. Follow me ONLY if u wont fall asleep with my stories. Pls understand and the 1st chapter start tomolo.

[Sirrus]

cant really give an answer lar bro as we dont know her well enough...
only you should know how to answer as u know her....

but if u really need advise i would say never tell her u cheated on her before.

abt sharing the sex thingy cant help you also have 2 see how she is like as a person.

[koites]

It's a bait! If a girl asks you these kind of questions, that means she minds!

[mmhunter]

You'll be a fool if you tell her the truth...

[Evianalps]

If u confess to her eventhough she said she wont be angry and will forgive u
remember they wont forget.
The meaning of forgive and forget for them is nt the same as ours..gd luck bro

[Komuso]

Originally Posted by koites

It's a bait! If a girl asks you these kind of questions, that means she minds!

Couldn't agree more. Experienced it myself, although fortunately it wasn't on this kind of touchy subject

Even if she maintains objectivity and doesn't appear to be affected by what you reveal to her on this subject, it may boomerang back and hit you square in the arse when you quarrel with her about a totally unrelated topic in future. *Shudder*.

[digby]

never say the truth, you need to tell her sex with her is the best already. Enough said

[Doitornever]

don't ever tell the true. if she don't mind now, but i can say it will always in her mind.

[arsenal_84]

some ladies can't handle the truth.
maybe you can tell her some half truths ?

do think long and hard before deciding what is best to say and what's best not to say.

[Bangster]

Exactly. They can never handle the truth.

Either will go ballistic after that, and give you a bloody hard(difficult, not 'hard' as in 'erection type of hard') time or silent treatment for months, in which case will probably render the relationship pointless to be continued

To answer this type of question, just tell them WHAT THEY WANT TO HEAR, which is never the real story because we are all men here. hahaha. Just let them revel in their own conjured fantasy dreamland with the things they WANT to hear. And in fact they dont even realise that it is what they WANT to hear, and they'll think it is what is real.

Eg. Honey have you ever had sex with another girl without me knowing, when you are already with me? Promise I'll not get angry.

Truth: Yes, you bloody had.
Tell: Of course not! How can you think of me like that?? There is only you and no one else in my life after we were together! I love you!

Eg. Honey am I fat?
Truth: She's outgrowing a bloody pig at a rate you cannot imagine
Tell: Nah, don't be silly. Dont listen to other people. I love you the way you are and no you are not FAT at all. *give her a smack on that fat ass if you want

Eg. Dear, do you think Christina(her best fren) is sexier than me? Have you ever thought about doing her?
Truth: Oh my god her breasts are at least twice of yours lor, you stupid runway. And damn yeah I want to fuck her every bloody chance I have and in every hole
Tell: No one is sexier than you in my eyes. AND THAT IS WHAT MATTERS. I have no interest in having sex with anybody else cos my heart is with you only.

Hope you get the idea. Dont bloody fall into that stupid trap

[jj583]

bro, dun fall for it.... many a time, it will came back to haunt you in the future....

[Chanelfingers]

Haha bangster is quite rite
But girls also bery curious of wat was done in the past
To do gd in ur marriage life, just play down parts say things like no la she is very boring/ conversative...just don tell her abt ur sex with ex

Originally Posted by Bangster

Exactly. They can never handle the truth.

Either will go ballistic after that, and give you a bloody hard(difficult, not 'hard' as in 'erection type of hard') time or silent treatment for months, in which case will probably render the relationship pointless to be continued

To answer this type of question, just tell them WHAT THEY WANT TO HEAR, which is never the real story because we are all men here. hahaha. Just let them revel in their own conjured fantasy dreamland with the things they WANT to hear. And in fact they dont even realise that it is what they WANT to hear, and they'll think it is what is real.

Eg. Honey have you ever had sex with another girl without me knowing, when you are already with me? Promise I'll not get angry.

Truth: Yes, you bloody had.
Tell: Of course not! How can you think of me like that?? There is only you and no one else in my life after we were together! I love you!

Eg. Honey am I fat?
Truth: She's outgrowing a bloody pig at a rate you cannot imagine
Tell: Nah, don't be silly. Dont listen to other people. I love you the way you are and no you are not FAT at all. *give her a smack on that fat ass if you want

Eg. Dear, do you think Christina(her best fren) is sexier than me? Have you ever thought about doing her?
Truth: Oh my god her breasts are at least twice of yours lor, you stupid runway. And damn yeah I want to fuck her every bloody chance I have and in every hole
Tell: No one is sexier than you in my eyes. AND THAT IS WHAT MATTERS. I have no interest in having sex with anybody else cos my heart is with you only.

Hope you get the idea. Dont bloody fall into that stupid trap

[kingcon]

Hi all, thanks for ur kind response. Thanks for bangster giving great examples too. Totally agree that girls "may" forgive but surely they won't forget. Fair to the ladies, i feel for their pain. If this happen to the guy, i'm sure that not all the guys able to accept it and forgive too.

I'm happy to make friends and interact with u guys & ladies here.


Chapter 1. Zhen (Secondary classmate)


That's 1996 in a neighbourhood school i met Zhen. It is the 1st day of school in a totally new environment and I was assign to go Class 1F. Everyone in the class was making friends with one another and being shy my character, i was sitting alone at a corner. In front of me, I saw a group of pretty looking girls and there's this one girl name zhen that caught my attention. Zhen was pretty and her breasts was consider quite big at the age of 13! Boys in the class noticed that too and was saying "hey, that girl quite chio leh.. look at her boobs.. wow." Unfortunately, after the assembly, i found out that zhen was actually from sec 1D. She went into the wrong class. Zhen was like a hot property that have attacted so many attention.

Fast forward abit la... if not i dont need to go lunch liao.

Anyway, zhen always come to my class because her good friends are in my class. Soon, we got to know each other. Got once, during a combined class PE, i actually accidentally brush her boobs a few time when playing basketball with her. Two yrs later, we are finally in the same class.

One day, she come to my house to do a project.... my parents was in Genting.

Zhen - "hey... u got the titanic dvd arh?"

Me - " ya, pirated one... y? u never see b4 meh? the movie so popular in cinema for so long".

Zhen - " No never... i heard it is nice. can we watch it together?"

Me - "then the project how? i watch a few time liao leh......"

Zhen - " watch with me la. i never watch before... the project wait other group members then we do together la. today don't do"

Me - " ok la ok la.. u play lor.. i go shower."

Zhen - " Hey u got spare t-shirt mah?

Me - " why? u wanna shower together with me arh? hahaa.. "

Zhen - " siao la.. very hot, i only wanna change to something more relax. "

Me - " much better shower with me or dont wear anything? isn't more relax? hahaha "

Zhen - *pinched me* siao la u... got t-shirt mah?

Me - "okie.. i u go choose urself in my room and i go shower."



To be continue... Hungry liao.

[kingcon]

Chapter 1 - 2 . Zhen (Secondary classmate)


In the shower room, my heart was filled with excitment. My mind was thinking how zhen will look like if she really wearing nothing? what will zhen choose to wear? Fast hand Fast leg, i finish my shower faster than usual.

Come out from the shower room, zhen have choose a white color singlet with her PE shorts!!

Zhen - " hey... i think got some problem with ur vcd player.... "

Me - " oh.... u spolit my player ar? u got to meet my parents to explain to them when they r back. "

Me - " why u choose my singlet? wa lau a.... somemore u wearing black color X bra lor.... " (i can feel tat my penis was getting hard)

Zhen - (laughing) "cause all ur t shirt too big mah. then wear liao even more hot. So i choose singlet lor. Cannot ar? haha"

Me - " can lor.. as u like.. "


check on my vcd player, notice that my vcd player was not spolit at all! Zhen did not even switch on the power. What a chance i thought.


Me - " ya i think got some problem with the player.. nvm i don't know how to fix. why dun we use my computer in my room to watch? "

Zhen - " sure sure.. "


Zhen was sitting on my chair watching the movie and i was sitting on my bed beside her sometimes take a peep at her sexy body. My heart was beating fast and my penis just get real hard.

she start the movie from disc 2.. and there's this part of the movie, jack was drawing the naked body rose. In between that part of scene, she suddenly turn her head and caught me looking at her body.

Zhen - " arhh... where are u looking? " (with a shy looking face)

Me - " movie la.. haha.. " (trying to cover up)

Zhen - ' i saw u looking at me lor... dont act. you tiko (horny) king"

Since get caught liao, i move nearer to her..

Me - " ya la ya la.. im peeping at u la. "

silent filled the room for a while...

Me - " actually, i've notice u since the 1st time i saw u. I've like u for quite sometimes liao." (I dunno where i found my seeds to tell her so frankly)

Zhen - " huh... then y u tell me now? you know shihui (our friend) love u right? " Shihui always tell us that she love u lor... what u like abt me? "

Me - "I know abt shihui but then i like u "

Then zhen try to change the conversation back to the movie..

Zhen - " jack very handsome hor? "

Me - " zhen.. dun avoid it... do u like me? "

Zhen - (look away from me)

Me - (hold her left hand and kiss her lips... n we start frenching)....


TBC...

[bloopz]

hmm.. well, i did ask my husband the same questions b4 i got married to him.. to me, i need to be honest with him so i hope that he will be honest with me as well.

also, it is more to be mentally prepared in case someone said something they shouldnt n we got the shock of our life la.. to me, as long as the episodes r before my husband got together with me i'm ok with it. who doesnt have a past anyway?

of course, u need to gauge for urself how much ur wife can handle. but if u r her 1st love, then u better not risk it coz u will never know how she might react. :P