Would you mind?

siamburox · #1 09-05-2011, 02:40 AM

Hey bros,

Just wanna hear your opinion with regards to this issue. I am together with my new girlfriend for about three months now, it seems that i can't seem to stop thinking about the ex bfs that she used to have. Even though she is completely loyal to me, but there is still a stint of jealousy whenever i think about how she isn't a virgin anymore and i am not the first person that has had her. I never used to have problems with any of my exs similar to this, what is going on with me? I really can't stop thinking about the fact that she isn't a virgin anymore. It's making me over suspicious over every little detail of our daily lives and to an extent that it is driving me crazy. Any advice?

Pilot Preceda · #2 09-05-2011, 02:58 AM

if you really love her, you don't really care if she's a virgin...
I bet you're not a virgin either...

sentsggirls · #3 09-05-2011, 05:35 AM

if really care and love her , then dun bother much about her downsouth , is what inside her heart is more important.

kyutake · #4 09-05-2011, 05:50 AM

Love is only physical to a certain extent but infinite when it comes from the heart. If you love her, what has happen in the past should be let gone. Never dwindle in the past for it only makes you more shallow =)

siamburox · #5 09-05-2011, 06:19 AM

thanks for the replies bros, but i really would like to know how to go along trying to not " mind ". it's really heart wrenching to see her ex around knowing that he has bedded her before.

MasP · #6 09-05-2011, 08:29 AM

It proved tht u may not really in love with her! Since it is only 3 months, stop the relationship or else, u wil b in greater pain once yr LOVE reduced. U will wonder more at tht time?????

alan0338 · #7 09-05-2011, 03:49 PM

then how u going to get married in the future,

dun think so easy to get a virgin liao

arsenal_84 · #8 09-05-2011, 05:44 PM

stop having double standards in your life...it will make life easier on yourself.

for example:
if i'm not a virgin myself, last thing i want is a virgin partner.

innuendo · #9 09-05-2011, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by siamburox

thanks for the replies bros, but i really would like to know how to go along trying to not " mind ". it's really heart wrenching to see her ex around knowing that he has bedded her before.

Wake the fuck up and stop being an idiot. You should feel lucky to have her now, and for the future, unless you keep thinking about retarded insignificant things like this. In fact, you should be thankful that she's been around, and has ended up choosing you (for now). I know what you mean; I had the same insecurities, but got over them once I grew a pair.

I used to think love was about being her first, but really, it's about being her last. Think about it.

Stud00 · #10 09-05-2011, 08:01 PM

Dear TS,

Wake the FUCK up.... i am writing this to u, firstly, i doubt u r a virgin..and since u r not, who are u to judge or even "condemn" her? the fact that she is open enuff to share with u all this things, is becos she trusts u and loves u. but u in turn, becos of ur puny male ego chose to judge her?

Wake the fuck up.. or dump her, she deserves much better then u..

see see only · #11 09-05-2011, 08:51 PM

Wah TS,

Let me guess she must be a very green & innocent girl but yet very obliging when come to sex si bo ...

So much so that you felt that she should only belong to you.

Nevertheless bro ... she is your girlfriend now, she belong with you not belong to you

.... soul search a bit, mate

flowerboy888 · #12 09-05-2011, 09:43 PM

It is good, that she tell you the truth.

johndoe8808 · #13 16-05-2011, 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Stud00

Dear TS,

Wake the FUCK up.... i am writing this to u, firstly, i doubt u r a virgin..and since u r not, who are u to judge or even "condemn" her? the fact that she is open enuff to share with u all this things, is becos she trusts u and loves u. but u in turn, becos of ur puny male ego chose to judge her?

Wake the fuck up.. or dump her, she deserves much better then u..

wonderful advice.
if only more people can be more straight up, the world will be a better place.

prccuntlover · #14 17-05-2011, 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by innuendo

Wake the fuck up and stop being an idiot. You should feel lucky to have her now, and for the future, unless you keep thinking about retarded insignificant things like this. In fact, you should be thankful that she's been around, and has ended up choosing you (for now). I know what you mean; I had the same insecurities, but got over them once I grew a pair.

I used to think love was about being her first, but really, it's about being her last. Think about it.

agreed about the "last" thing
i din last and its pretty sad
so treasure whatever or rather whoever is in front of you...

abchow · #15 17-05-2011, 09:17 AM

HI TS .

Now the issue is your insecurity . Lets face it . Its like a competition out there.
So now u have to compete against her ex bf . ( in your mind).

Learn how to accept it and deal with this insecurity issue. You should be telling yourself that you have this girl as your girl friend and proud to show her off.

Even if your girl and her ex do cross path one day. Just be a gentleman and act gracious.

No need to act hostile or uncomfortable . We are all adults . So if you can handle all this emotional well, then your girl friend will be impressed and her ex will be pissed off. ( if he still feel anything for your gal).

Emotions can be a issue when its out of control. So learn to deal with it and learn to love your girl friend well. In time she will only have you in her heart and mind.

good luck!!