Heart breaking

ken24 · #1 01-10-2011, 09:43 AM

Hi guys need some advice.... If u guys found out ur wife unfaithful to u what will u guys do!!! I'm a married man with 2 kids. I'm totally lost now!!!

sammyboyfor · #2 01-10-2011, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by ken24

Hi guys need some advice.... If u guys found out ur wife unfaithful to u what will u guys do!!! I'm a married man with 2 kids. I'm totally lost now!!!

Simple... do the same many times over!

MonteCristo · #3 01-10-2011, 11:56 AM

I can't really advise since it seems like a mutual sort of thing. (See your previous posts)

sammyboyfor · #4 01-10-2011, 12:00 PM

Yeah that 23 year old Malay that blew you to heaven and swallowed... if you can track down a few more like her you'll soon forget your wife even existed!

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #5 01-10-2011, 12:15 PM

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alan0338 · #6 01-10-2011, 12:38 PM

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RealEstateGuy · #7 02-10-2011, 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by ken24

Hi guys need some advice.... If u guys found out ur wife unfaithful to u what will u guys do!!! I'm a married man with 2 kids. I'm totally lost now!!!

Braddah, clearly you were betrayed as where your kids. If you were not cheating yourself, then my recommedation is you need hold your head up high and keep your esteem intact. Braddah, I would file for divorce.

sgjoey · #8 02-10-2011, 04:56 PM

Don't rush into a divorce.

First, you need to really absorb the bottomline truth that humans are apt to be non-monogamous.

Next, you need to talk to your spouse in a non-judgmental way about your mutual future as a couple. What does she want, what do you want, and what is best for the kids.

If you can conquer your feeling of partner exclusivity, you will maximise your chances of happiness and coming to a workable arrangment with her.

Good luck.

For more helpful information, you may just wish to study this site carefully.

RealEstateGuy · #9 03-10-2011, 07:35 AM

Braddah, you lose all self-esteem if you take her back. Seem like a beggar.

ken24 · #10 03-10-2011, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Braddah, you lose all self-esteem if you take her back. Seem like a beggar.

Tats wat I'm thinking as this not the first time. Thanks for all brothers advice I think I'm going to divorce her. Coz I found out something even more daring coz she kiss the guy. Kids I will let her have it and it's time for me to play this time.

etct88 · #11 03-10-2011, 10:53 AM

No need to look for excuses.

Kettle calling the pot, black

She closed one eye, closed 2 eyes, you never learn.

Woman are not stupid.

But good luck to you, in whatever you do. Learn from this.

RealEstateGuy · #12 04-10-2011, 01:37 AM

Braddah, you are making the right decision. She is as good as gone herself anyway with all the cheating and promiscuity outside of her household especially with kids. Braddah, that's just not right in any society not just SG. Braddah, find yourself a better woman.

TheHornyDevilz · #13 04-10-2011, 10:02 PM

Dear Bro,

Sorry to hear about the wife. But you need to understand. Is she cheating on you? If she is, did she admit it? If she deny, then you will have to ask yourself.

Do you still love her?

Cause if you do, there are other options to pursue.

1. Can you forgive her indiscretion this one time? Or has this thing gone on for a very long time?

2. What is the cause of this? Was it something you did? If it was, you may want to reflect and see if there is a remedy.

3. Does she still love you. This is tied to 2. She may need comfort and feelings which you may have overlooked in the hectic times of the day. If this is the case, you may have to seriously consider changing lifestyles to fit her more into your life, make time for her.

It takes 2 hands to clap.

On the other hand, if the other party is the one who started this, and is forcing your wife into a relationship (it's been known to happen), then I suggest a baseball bat, an aluminium one, for starters. I am mostly a man of peace, but there are some things I will not tolerate. A man has got to draw the line. Protecting family is a core fundamental. If the situation is thus, I would probably beat the guys skull into so much mush and splinters, in the extreme.

Or I could just file a police report and get the press involved, so that the whole bloody world knows him for the scum he is.

JOHNBONG · #14 04-10-2011, 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by ken24

Tats wat I'm thinking as this not the first time. Thanks for all brothers advice I think I'm going to divorce her. Coz I found out something even more daring coz she kiss the guy. Kids I will let her have it and it's time for me to play this time.

You will start to PLAY...

She can have the kids...

So what are you as a father?? Just because she betrayed you..you can even wash ur hands off as a father of two children???

goodpartner · #15 04-10-2011, 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by ken24

...it's time for me to play this time.

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Originally Posted by ken24

Hi guys need some advice.... If u guys found out ur wife unfaithful to u what will u guys do!!! I'm a married man with 2 kids. I'm totally lost now!!!

Yeah right...

Another one seemingly looking for advice when he already knew what he wanted to do.