To all bros and sis. Please take awhile to read this

[SerpantKing]

Hi fellow brothers and sisters.
I'm not an active member here, as i just used to log on to this forum to find Same Room Sex for me and my gf.

We managed to find a couple, and then did it twice and we stopped as it satisfied out curiosity.

Allow me a little of your time to explain my story.

I've been attached to my gf for 4 years now. We've applied a flat together, even about to get married. I was gonna propose to her this year on our anniversary which falls on October.

But two weeks ago, i found out that she slept with another guy behind my back. Twice. And she lied and hid it from me for god knows how long. When i found out, i went thru tremendous heartbreak. She called me an apologized, saying that she wants to come back to me, that she realised her mistake. That she didnt want to throw away our relationship we had for four years, for a guy she barely knew for four months.

I thought of the big picture, we're getting a flat tgt, we're getting married, our parents even met before, and most importantly, i loved her too much. I was ready to forgive her as long as she really knew her mistake.

I went to her house the next morning and i told her i love her and was willing to take her back. She was happy.

However within a few days, she called me again and said she wanted to break up with me. Apparently she and the guy had made up, and she wants to officially be with him now. It took alot out of me to get over the fact tt she cheated on me, it took me more to forgive her, but she stomped on my heart again and again, and now she finally broke it.

We've ended for about a week, and i'm still in bad state.

To all the sisters out there reading this, if u can feel what i feel, please drop me a pm. I would like to have a companion. Or in a way a long term fling. Im not in this for a one night stand or what. I really need someone to help me get thru this. Something more than a friendship, but less than a relationship. I just miss the feeling of having someone care for me.

To the brothers out there, if you have any activites, do try to count me in too..i would like to keep myself busy so i wont think abt her.

To brother Shuang Jie Gun, if u see this, please msg me. I lost ur number.

Thanks everyone for reading this.
Hope you guys understand what i'm going thru and help me in some way.
And i hope this never happens to anyone else.

Hope to see replies soon..

[SerpantKing]

Hi fellow brothers and sisters.
I'm not an active member here, as i just used to log on to this forum to find Same Room Sex for me and my gf.

We managed to find a couple, and then did it twice and we stopped as it satisfied out curiosity.

Allow me a little of your time to explain my story.

I've been attached to my gf for 4 years now. We've applied a flat together, even about to get married. I was gonna propose to her this year on our anniversary which falls on October.

But two weeks ago, i found out that she slept with another guy behind my back. Twice. And she lied and hid it from me for god knows how long. When i found out, i went thru tremendous heartbreak. She called me an apologized, saying that she wants to come back to me, that she realised her mistake. That she didnt want to throw away our relationship we had for four years, for a guy she barely knew for four months.

I thought of the big picture, we're getting a flat tgt, we're getting married, our parents even met before, and most importantly, i loved her too much. I was ready to forgive her as long as she really knew her mistake.

I went to her house the next morning and i told her i love her and was willing to take her back. She was happy.

However within a few days, she called me again and said she wanted to break up with me. Apparently she and the guy had made up, and she wants to officially be with him now. It took alot out of me to get over the fact tt she cheated on me, it took me more to forgive her, but she stomped on my heart again and again, and now she finally broke it.

We've ended for about a week, and i'm still in bad state.

To all the sisters out there reading this, if u can feel what i feel, please drop me a pm. I would like to have a companion. Or in a way a long term fling. Im not in this for a one night stand or what. I really need someone to help me get thru this. Something more than a friendship, but less than a relationship. I just miss the feeling of having someone care for me.

To the brothers out there, if you have any activites, do try to count me in too..i would like to keep myself busy so i wont think abt her.

To brother Shuang Jie Gun, if u see this, please msg me. I lost ur number.

Thanks everyone for reading this.
Hope you guys understand what i'm going thru and help me in some way.
And i hope this never happens to anyone else.

Hope to see replies soon..

[Snah]

Whoa bro..sad to hear your story. But what goes around comes around. Maybe it's a sign she ain't the one for you. Everything happens for a reason bro. Glad you have moved on...but sorry I can't help you with yur request here. All I can say is u will find your true companion someday.. If that girl is meant to b yours she will b. So keep yur heads up bro! Take care!

[Ben102806]

Hi there,

pls take care and forget about her.

Time will wash away all the bad memories, u never know, it could be a blessing in disguise.

Cheer up !

[issen_gorin27]

bro!! jia you!!! its not the end of the world!!! why bother with someone who is toying your love!! be brave!! lots of gals out there who are nice and available... take your time to choose the next right one and enjoy your singlehood for the moment ba.... who knows... maybe tmr a new one will come and bloom to even better than the previous one??

When the door shut behind you, the next door in front of you is waiting to be open!!

[SerpantKing]

Thanks bros for all your wellwishes!
It made me feel better.

I havent moved on yet, but i hope i can soon.
I of course hope that the real girl of my dreams will appear soon.

[AllisFake]

Time will heal all wounds . Take care bro.

[synyster]

The real world is always harsh. You've got to brave through. Men are like wine, don't worry. We won't depreciate unless you've given up on yourself. Don't let this setback be an obstacle to your future bro.

All the best in your plea for a companion.

[SerpantKing]

So far still havent get a companion or any msgs at all yet. Hope this story reaches more people, especially Bro Shuang Jie Gun

[ironman73]

Originally Posted by SerpantKing

Hi fellow brothers and sisters.
I'm not an active member here, as i just used to log on to this forum to find Same Room Sex for me and my gf.

We managed to find a couple, and then did it twice and we stopped as it satisfied out curiosity.

Allow me a little of your time to explain my story.

I've been attached to my gf for 4 years now. We've applied a flat together, even about to get married. I was gonna propose to her this year on our anniversary which falls on October.

But two weeks ago, i found out that she slept with another guy behind my back. Twice. And she lied and hid it from me for god knows how long. When i found out, i went thru tremendous heartbreak. She called me an apologized, saying that she wants to come back to me, that she realised her mistake. That she didnt want to throw away our relationship we had for four years, for a guy she barely knew for four months.

I thought of the big picture, we're getting a flat tgt, we're getting married, our parents even met before, and most importantly, i loved her too much. I was ready to forgive her as long as she really knew her mistake.

I went to her house the next morning and i told her i love her and was willing to take her back. She was happy.

However within a few days, she called me again and said she wanted to break up with me. Apparently she and the guy had made up, and she wants to officially be with him now. It took alot out of me to get over the fact tt she cheated on me, it took me more to forgive her, but she stomped on my heart again and again, and now she finally broke it.

We've ended for about a week, and i'm still in bad state.

To all the sisters out there reading this, if u can feel what i feel, please drop me a pm. I would like to have a companion. Or in a way a long term fling. Im not in this for a one night stand or what. I really need someone to help me get thru this. Something more than a friendship, but less than a relationship. I just miss the feeling of having someone care for me.

To the brothers out there, if you have any activites, do try to count me in too..i would like to keep myself busy so i wont think abt her.

To brother Shuang Jie Gun, if u see this, please msg me. I lost ur number.

Thanks everyone for reading this.
Hope you guys understand what i'm going thru and help me in some way.
And i hope this never happens to anyone else.

Hope to see replies soon..

Thanks god you found this out now then after your ROM. Is really a blessing in disguise. Just imagine after marry for a few years with kids then she run away.....Sometime in life something may look or appear badly now but turn out alright after awhile.

A word of advice from someone who survived a 9 years marriage before divorce 2 years ago. Hold on to whatever beautiful memories you have on her...keep it as a memory in a box. Even if your relationship ended, you don't need to hate her...it take up alot of bad energy to hate someone. You will most likely hurt yourself more when u kept dwelling on it.

Never jump into another relationship any sooner, mostly likely you will end up getting yourself hurt or hurting others..

When a relationship fail, there are only losers on both side.

What i did normally when i am feeling extremelly depressed, i will visit Singapore General Hospital. I will walk into one of those wards, stroll for awhile. You will be suprise how lucky we were compare to those lying on the sick bed in all sizes..

[SerpantKing]

Wow bro tts really nice..im sorry to hear abt ur marriage..
I know tt i'll get over it. im just looking for a companion to get thru this with me.

[Redviolet]

Not to rub in further.

But would like to ask in that 4yrs have you stay truthful and loyal to her and bed no one else but her only?

[simple2kee]

Originally Posted by SerpantKing

I havent moved on yet, but i hope i can soon.

bro, MOVE ON!

[iujt]

dear threadstarter .

i totally understand how you feel , i had an ex girlfriend of 3 years as well.
we were planning to get engaged & stuff as well , but apparently as were entering our fourth year of relationship , she mixed around with bad company & started clubbing almost every night.

on one occasion , i waited for her outside her house & my guesses turned into reality. a guy was actually with her & i confronted them .
as i was in a really foul mood at that point of them , i just scolded her & ignored the guy, until he told me something .

he said : we just gave her 6 hours of pleasure , how many hours can you give her ?

i was stunned. i mean , we? i stood there in a daze for a few seconds.
and it came to my mind ..

i told myself to give up on that relationship, it was useless to mull over it.

i hope that you can pull through this stage of life , girls ? if you lose one, simply get one more.

[SerpantKing]

Redviolet, i dare say for four years i slept with her only. Never cheated.