An interesting qns from my colleague

[tohKiaBee]

Me and my 35 yrs old single and virgin male colleague chatted abt this during lunch break...

Colleague: all these news of younger generation making sex so early is not a gd sign...

Me: so, when u tink is the right age to have sex?

Colleague: after marriage, with ur wife of course!

Me: u have no gf and wife now, still a virgin u not scared meh?

Colleague: scared wat???

Me: if u nv meet the one in ur life, u'll die a virgin old man, u really wan tat???

Colleague: hmmmm.....

anyone here oso tink like this?

[KPOcucumber]

KPO a bit here. I think its you that thought all of this up? Are you a virgin and shy to disclose about it? If so, you can offer it away in the desker section for a price and learn the works about sex.

[arthurpatricia]

i would think that your colleague will not want to get any HIV from all those GL, and i believe your colleague will want to save his best for his wife. i think this is quite rare for a guy thinking...

for me, experience is important... but of cos not to extend to get disease from all sort of place, prefer to do it with gf. if not wedding 1st night, blur blur also not good right?

[LuckyStrikes]

Originally Posted by tohKiaBee

anyone here oso tink like this?

I don't think so

[Putin]

Originally Posted by LuckyStrikes

I don't think so

You will be surprised

[Max77]

ur colleague live in a good world, hope he can find girl(s) who live in a good world as well. my blessing to him plse

its totally not wrong to think positively; better than lying to urself until u thought its real

[tohKiaBee]

Originally Posted by KPOcucumber

KPO a bit here. I think its you that thought all of this up? Are you a virgin and shy to disclose about it? If so, you can offer it away in the desker section for a price and learn the works about sex.

Nope, i'm not...but i'm not tat experienced either.
Of course, i wouldnt go into that personal detail with this colleague of mine...haha

Originally Posted by arthurpatricia

i would think that your colleague will not want to get any HIV from all those GL, and i believe your colleague will want to save his best for his wife. i think this is quite rare for a guy thinking...

for me, experience is important... but of cos not to extend to get disease from all sort of place, prefer to do it with gf. if not wedding 1st night, blur blur also not good right?

Yea, i agree....catching any STD sucks big time and screw up ur life!
Not worth....

play safe

Originally Posted by Max77

ur colleague live in a good world, hope he can find girl(s) who live in a good world as well. my blessing to him plse

its totally not wrong to think positively; better than lying to urself until u thought its real

Yea, he is a typical homely guy....

[shiokpleasure]

Originally Posted by arthurpatricia

i would think that your colleague will not want to get any HIV from all those GL, and i believe your colleague will want to save his best for his wife. i think this is quite rare for a guy thinking...

for me, experience is important... but of cos not to extend to get disease from all sort of place, prefer to do it with gf. if not wedding 1st night, blur blur also not good right?

Seriously, i think it's not worth it. I used to think wait for marriage. Now i think otherwise.

[heavybackhand]

Originally Posted by tohKiaBee

Me and my 35 yrs old single and virgin male colleague chatted abt this during lunch break...

Colleague: all these news of younger generation making sex so early is not a gd sign...

Me: so, when u tink is the right age to have sex?

Colleague: after marriage, with ur wife of course!

Me: u have no gf and wife now, still a virgin u not scared meh?

Colleague: scared wat???

Me: if u nv meet the one in ur life, u'll die a virgin old man, u really wan tat???

Colleague: hmmmm.....

anyone here oso tink like this?

You know, there's a movie titled 40 years-old virgin, tell him to watch that, it'll change his perspective

[Stimsia]

big head think
small head jiak gagi

[superdogsg]

It is good for your colleague to wait till marriage, must not discourage him on that. If he cannot wait, advise him to play safe. Not good to get STD, very troublesome.

[hj6066]

Well personally, I was a virgin till 26, then 1 time engaging an FL and now i'm addicted to it, on and off.

Your question leads me to think about another 1, would the answer change from the perspective of a female? As in, if the girl was asked the question, I'm guessing the answer would be different.

A few years ago in my car, I spoke to a girl and somehow she started asking me the same question. I was adamant at that time to wait till after marriage but she questioned if it was really wrong to look for a FL. But she did warn me that should my future gf or wife asked me if I was sexually active before and with whom, how should I answer? Lie or tell the truth..neither seems appealing.

[Putin]

Originally Posted by shiokpleasure

Seriously, i think it's not worth it. I used to think wait for marriage. Now i think otherwise.

Same here as well

[robert333]

Virgin is good.

Keep it up. Can save a lot of money.

If i add up all my money spent on bonking for the past 20 years, maybe enough to buy a condo

[royalblood]

humans are sexual creatures. we're hardwired to survive and replicate. that's why humans search for traits in their partners that is deemed allow them to survive (for males: confidence, alpha male, etc. for females: boobs, butt, sexy figure for attraction). and sex is the way we replicate.

marriage is what people invented. i don't believe in marriage currently. its just a certificate of love. i don't need that. if you love someone, why do you need to get a certificate to prove it?



Me: "I don't believe in sex before marriage."
Her: "But you said you don't believe in marriage."
Me: "Exactly..."