Need advice!!

enzer88 · #1 12-02-2005, 11:40 AM

Gd day and happy CNY to all bros,siao di now facing a serious problem.i get to know a prc KTV hostess few months back when cheonging.Now we are in a very gd relationship,and been receiving foc bonking whenever i need her.....can said we are couple......however lastnite,she said her social visit pass going to expire soon,she want me to help her to extend......is it safe to help her-i really like her.if she is caught working in ktv,will i be affected too???or is there other way to help her to extend????pls advice thank a million!!

thaivisitor · #2 12-02-2005, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by enzer88

Gd day and happy CNY to all bros,siao di now facing a serious problem.i get to know a prc KTV hostess few months back when cheonging.Now we are in a very gd relationship,and been receiving foc bonking whenever i need her.....can said we are couple......however lastnite,she said her social visit pass going to expire soon,she want me to help her to extend......is it safe to help her-i really like her.if she is caught working in ktv,will i be affected too???or is there other way to help her to extend????pls advice thank a million!!

If you are her guarantor and she is caught working in KTV, you will of course be affected. I think you will have to pay $5,000, which is the amount you guarantee.

But why worry over such a small amount? or whether you will be affected or not? You had a very good time with her, FOC bonks, now like couple... and now when she needs your help, you got to have considerations?

I feel considering your relationship with her, you should help her and if situation comes, face it like a man.

diesel · #3 12-02-2005, 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by thaivisitor

But why worry over such a small amount? or whether you will be affected or not? You had a very good time with her, FOC bonks, now like couple... and now when she needs your help, you got to have considerations?I feel considering your relationship with her, you should help her and if situation comes, face it like a man.

Two thumbs up for thaivisitor! If people give you something or help you before, you better return their favour.

thaivisitor · #4 12-02-2005, 03:26 PM

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Bro Enzer,
In the event you decides to help for whatever reasons..... be prepare to lose yr deposit if she is caught. if you are mentally ready to lose it.....its OK then. no point cry over spill milk if something happens later.

If not, next time don't take advantage of them and when time comes, hide with tail between the legs.

cbjuiceyumseng · #5 12-02-2005, 04:09 PM

If u still want her in Singapore, and if u dun wanna any problems with the authority if shit happens u can ask a friend to be the guarantor for u and u must prepare 5000 to pay if anything happens.

asknot3 · #6 12-02-2005, 04:56 PM

how come when started getting free bonks never ask for advice ah?.....

hey bro..u know her personally, we don't! u decide what u want to do and whatever u decide u gonna live with it. If u are unsure of the consequences, if any, go ask the immigration ppl if u decide to help & go ask yourself if u decide against....

BTW, are you a member of Fair Weather Friends Aplenty?

enzer88 · #7 13-02-2005, 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by cbjuiceyumseng

If u still want her in Singapore, and if u dun wanna any problems with the authority if shit happens u can ask a friend to be the guarantor for u and u must prepare 5000 to pay if anything happens.

bro,any one can be her gurantor izzit???i heard there is someone in this market who can help ppl to to extend passport,must prepare to pay few hundreds...i hope any bros got this kinda kangtao can intro to me,thank

octopuffy · #8 13-02-2005, 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by enzer88

i hope any bros got this kinda kangtao can intro to me,thank

enzer88, pls see ur pm box...

thaivisitor · #9 13-02-2005, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by enzer88

bro,any one can be her gurantor izzit???i heard there is someone in this market who can help ppl to to extend passport,must prepare to pay few hundreds...i hope any bros got this kinda kangtao can intro to me,thank

If you want kangtao to get your PRC "visa" for one year, PM me.

peterfish · #10 13-02-2005, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by enzer88

Gd day and happy CNY to all bros,siao di now facing a serious problem.i get to know a prc KTV hostess few months back when cheonging.Now we are in a very gd relationship,and been receiving foc bonking whenever i need her.....can said we are couple......however lastnite,she said her social visit pass going to expire soon,she want me to help her to extend......is it safe to help her-i really like her.if she is caught working in ktv,will i be affected too???or is there other way to help her to extend????pls advice thank a million!!

Hai. Think you better don't help her. How old are you? Think you still young. Does your parents know about her? If they don't, better don't be her "dan bao". If she kena caught, your parents sure know, then you sure die.

Give her some excuses and said you can't help her. I am sure that there are other means and ways for her to get others to do so. I may sound ruthless but the most important thing is that you must protect yourself first. Unless of course, you intend to marry her. Then you should help her.

If not, then don't do it. So what if you extend her stay in SG. If you only wanna to get the FOC bonks and help her, then not worth it. Once she kena caught, you will be in trouble and your parents will know. Then next time how will you face up to your parents and relatives? Cantonese saying : 1. Never be banker 2. Never be matchmaker 3. Never be guarantor. Old people saying sure right, must listen.

Shutruk Nahunte · #11 13-02-2005, 02:07 PM

Brudder : It really depends how you feel about her. If you have some strong feeling about her then help her and don't look back depending what happens.

sdfr · #12 14-02-2005, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by enzer88

Gd day and happy CNY to all bros,siao di now facing a serious problem.i get to know a prc KTV hostess few months back when cheonging.Now we are in a very gd relationship,and been receiving foc bonking whenever i need her.....can said we are couple......however lastnite,she said her social visit pass going to expire soon,she want me to help her to extend......is it safe to help her-i really like her.if she is caught working in ktv,will i be affected too???or is there other way to help her to extend????pls advice thank a million!!

DON"T DO IT

DNAT · #13 14-02-2005, 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by peterfish

Give her some excuses and said you can't help her.

ya... eg. pretend that you got such criminal records as molest ..

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Originally Posted by peterfish

Cantonese saying : 1. Never be banker 2. Never be matchmaker 3. Never be guarantor. Old people saying sure right, must listen.

similiary to chinese saying .. 不作官, 不作保, 不作媒人三代好 - 切记切记

santaizi · #14 14-02-2005, 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by enzer88

bro,any one can be her gurantor izzit???i heard there is someone in this market who can help ppl to to extend passport,must prepare to pay few hundreds...i hope any bros got this kinda kangtao can intro to me,thank

why not make her a gold cc and get a 2 yr multi trip visa???

Spanish Fly · #15 14-02-2005, 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by enzer88

Gd day and happy CNY to all bros,siao di now facing a serious problem.i get to know a prc KTV hostess few months back when cheonging.Now we are in a very gd relationship,and been receiving foc bonking whenever i need her.....can said we are couple......however lastnite,she said her social visit pass going to expire soon,she want me to help her to extend......is it safe to help her-i really like her.if she is caught working in ktv,will i be affected too???or is there other way to help her to extend????pls advice thank a million!!

Bro, my advice is simple. RETREAT AND FORGET. Believe me.