"KUMCHENG SEX"

geylangbonker · #1 26-02-2005, 09:39 PM

Hi,
bros......do you believe in "kumcheng" after having sex with a woman who is just an ordinary friend to you....not fls... not.... ons .....but a female friend of your who you know for a long time..........if you encounter this kind of situation....how would you reciprocate?????any comments!

OceanEleven · #2 26-02-2005, 11:09 PM

What tye of Kumcheng are you talking about? Since known each other long time then it is mutual understanding where each other stand after the sex. Do you expect things to change?

diesel · #3 26-02-2005, 11:18 PM

Very hard to have 'kumcheng' sex, though it may be possible among friends.

spider_j · #4 27-02-2005, 12:51 AM

Hmmm I dun believe that most women are capable of doing this thing you call "kumcheng sex" lah. For women, sex connotes emotional attachment and for men, it dun have to mean anything. Like it or not, sex is a means where women employ to get you into a relationship.

I dun believe any woman fren you have is gonna 'song song' let you free fuck and not expect anything to come from it. But if you dun care abt the frenship and just wanna fuck her, then OK lor. But I personally feel it's impossible to have 'kumcheng sex' lah.

I will believe that this kinda sex is possible on the day where women are so open and free abt sex that prozzies all no business liao. But I think that day will never come.

Microsoft · #5 27-02-2005, 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by spider_j

I will believe that this kinda sex is possible on the day where women are so open and free abt sex that prozzies all no business liao. But I think that day will never come.

They do exist. Friends ended up having ONS though not common... Wat scary is ONS later turn into something else... like "Fatal Attraction"...

So me always avoid such temptation. Rather bonk n forget a WL instead. No hand leg. Hehe

geylangbonker · #6 27-02-2005, 02:42 PM

thks bro..

some of the guidelines here posted by you guys are good advises but if let say i happened to encounter a friend (female) of mine ....and i somehow by accident have sex with her but do not want any commited relationship with her .....like tat can or not! MEANING THAT SHE IS NOT MY GALFRIEND BUT JUST AN ORDINARY FRIEND AND I DO NOT HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER..IS THERE SUCH THING SUCH AS HAVING SEX WITH THE OTHER PARTY WITH NO KUMCHENG WITH EACH OTHER......

I DON'T KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN LAH!!!

TooFast · #7 27-02-2005, 02:46 PM

I understand la geylang bonker.....

Hmm.......

Go with the flow

OceanEleven · #8 27-02-2005, 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by geylangbonker

thks bro..
MEANING THAT SHE IS NOT MY GALFRIEND BUT JUST AN ORDINARY FRIEND AND I DO NOT HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER..IS THERE SUCH THING SUCH AS HAVING SEX WITH THE OTHER PARTY WITH NO KUMCHENG WITH EACH OTHER......
I DON'T KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN LAH!!!

No need to shout. No feelings for her yet have sex, then likely is lust at its best. You lust for that physical contact with her for some time already, that's why you will have sex with her. As for her, I dont know what's her stand. Maybe she'll take it easy as a ONS, or she hold the torch for you quite a while now.

Snuber · #9 27-02-2005, 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by geylangbonker

I DON'T KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN LAH!!!

Hey, cool down. There's no need for you to type in CAPS even if you feel frustrated in trying to explain what you want to say.

The answer actually lies with yourself.

If you dun want any strings attached, just pretend that nothing happen. Simple as that. As for your friend, if she understands, then she will also pretend that nothing has happened. Else, she will just think that you are just another axxhole.

But if you still feel uneasy about the whole thing or she starts to get more touchy feely with you, just sit down & have a proper talk with her to achieve a common understanding.

Either way, you will just break the r/s or just maintain as it is.

#10 27-02-2005, 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by geylangbonker

MEANING THAT SHE IS NOT MY GALFRIEND BUT JUST AN ORDINARY FRIEND AND I DO NOT HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER..IS THERE SUCH THING SUCH AS HAVING SEX WITH THE OTHER PARTY WITH NO KUMCHENG WITH EACH OTHER......

sir take it easy, u r not alone...me oso got like that
some more this girl works in the same company as i do

quite nice actually, till now we're still friends only

don't sweat it, no need to frus over it lor

cheers!!!

warmnites · #11 27-02-2005, 03:21 PM

Sex with frens ---- yes happens & luv it cause end of day still can sit at cafe like a buddy .... sooo nice ....
expecially when she just breaks off another relationship great time for sex cause she will be using you to get all her depression away after that get on with her life & new BF ... that's what frens are for rite! help each other .... sex is sex ..... love is love - guys & gals can tell the difference rite! unless you're very emotional thinking sex with PRC is = love then you must be very young like a kid!

asdfghjkl · #12 27-02-2005, 03:33 PM

she feels u can make her orgasm?

geylangbonker · #13 27-02-2005, 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

she feels u can make her orgasm?

Hope so....she only wants orgasm but don't come and bother about me in a relationship with her after that ....i and her are still friends..
but that does that mean we are sex partners and we can do it again and again ...without kumcheng"

owen10 · #14 27-02-2005, 08:44 PM

i thk maybe rare to find in SG as ppl too conservative. perhaps more common amongst westerners overseas. reminds me of d sitcom BH 90210 where frens F ard with ea other n exchg partners freely

95-emperor · #15 28-02-2005, 11:49 AM

Think not advisable
especially if you seeing others gals
then maybe she get jealousy and try to spolit your new relationship

I believe nothing is "Free" in this world although
"Free" things always taste best.

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