probing into the past?

soothHerOnlyIf · #1 13-12-2012, 08:33 AM

After seeking FLs for a while, one thing came into mind.

There're girls who come and go as FL but because it's discreet so we wouldn't know who they are. Say you meet one girl and she became your gf. after par tor for a while, you started having sex with her and found out she's damn good in (or damn tired of) sex..probably cos f**ked by too many bros so she's damn experienced (she can also act innocent) or as a result of f**king too much her body is damn sian of sex?

my question is, will you think that she's once a FL or will you ask her? just like the underaged limelight pro, no one knows or believes as long as she denies it all (but we chiongsters know the truth). but if she's really damn good in sex, wouldn't it occur to you she might have been FL before? or Love conquers all and past should be left behind?

micmac888 · #2 13-12-2012, 09:00 AM

Had encountered this several times to-date.

Was pleasantly surprised by her(their) sexual prowess. No coaching needed. Knew which buttons (and when) to press to make me forget my surname too.

Too curious and just had to ask - but not the way you put it so bluntly.

Told her how amazing it was , out-of-this-world etc . Then asked her abt her prior experiences. She went into denial (and I was none wiser of course).

Eventually guilt took over during the course of time and she told me.

Dumped her there and then. Reason : integrity issue.

Told her it was better for her to have said "dun ask" than to give a flat-out denial. "Dun ask" leaves room for understanding and quiet acceptance. Denial is a straight lie to the face.

Trust is and will always be one of the most precious human commodity to another.

onlyhuman · #3 13-12-2012, 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by soothHerOnlyIf

After seeking FLs for a while, one thing came into mind.

There're girls who come and go as FL but because it's discreet so we wouldn't know who they are. Say you meet one girl and she became your gf. after par tor for a while, you started having sex with her and found out she's damn good in (or damn tired of) sex..probably cos f**ked by too many bros so she's damn experienced (she can also act innocent) or as a result of f**king too much her body is damn sian of sex?

my question is, will you think that she's once a FL or will you ask her? just like the underaged limelight pro, no one knows or believes as long as she denies it all (but we chiongsters know the truth). but if she's really damn good in sex, wouldn't it occur to you she might have been FL before? or Love conquers all and past should be left behind?

I only looks at the present and future...
What has past had past...

soothHerOnlyIf · #4 13-12-2012, 11:28 AM

though my ex told me I am the one who took her virginity, her actions doesn't look like she's a virgin. well not that it matters as long as she's free of STDs. I didn't ask and agree that past should be past.

FBInsp · #5 13-12-2012, 03:16 PM

Well I guess its not healthy to probe too much into the past... like 1 bro said we look at the present n future... u dun wan ur gf or wife to start saying my ex dick is longer or he last longer give better sex rite... so I wud say let bygones be bygones n start afresh with her... if she is a FL b4, den u oso tan dio cos u will be having great sex the rest of ur life... no need waste money buy gfe or great sex liao...

well TS, y dun u give ur gf the benefit of a doubt... mayb she could have watch more porn than u did... thus she knows how to do it...

2 cents

FBInsp

vonnieleung · #6 13-12-2012, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by FBInsp

Well I guess its not healthy to probe too much into the past... like 1 bro said we look at the present n future... u dun wan ur gf or wife to start saying my ex dick is longer or he last longer give better sex rite... so I wud say let bygones be bygones n start afresh with her... if she is a FL b4, den u oso tan dio cos u will be having great sex the rest of ur life... no need waste money buy gfe or great sex liao...

well TS, y dun u give ur gf the benefit of a doubt... mayb she could have watch more porn than u did... thus she knows how to do it...

2 cents

FBInsp

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FBInsp · #7 13-12-2012, 03:46 PM

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AlphaRomeoo · #8 13-12-2012, 03:53 PM

I think whether she is a FL before or not it doesn't matter. The past is the past. What is most important is the present. Well that is my perspective anyways..

notti4u · #9 13-12-2012, 03:55 PM

I guess we should look forward and not bother by the past. Everyone have their own past and if you are bother by the past, that means you are not really love her / him and accept their past.

Just switch yourself in the situation, you have not so good past and your recently new found loved one left you due to this, how do you feel?

soothHerOnlyIf · #10 13-12-2012, 04:11 PM

hey bros, am I right to say what's past is past only if she didn't pass any STD to you? I'm thinking, all's well and doesn't matter if she's FL before. geez even better if she's FL before cos I can have great sex

cos she knows how to press my buttons so perfectly but what if when all's well until the day you and her go for a body check up before walking down the aisle to get married and you found out she's got virus? will you still say past is past? personally, I don't really know what I will do..most probably walk out if my love is not strong enough? there're cases in ang moh countries the spouse stayed with their HIV partner but I dont think I see that in Asian societies..

alexander81 · #11 13-12-2012, 04:15 PM

seriously bros ,

would you guys be serious with a girl who used to be a FL ? I am fucking fucked up now as i met one i really like.

She is outright frank about everything . why she did it.

Fairgame · #12 13-12-2012, 04:25 PM

The truths hurt.......

It is better not to know rather than always trying to seek an answer.Life is already complicated enough as it is so why try to find more problems to add to your life?

Some may says must find out blah lah blah but after finding out can you handle the truth?Sometime ignorance really is bliss.

This is only my personal opinion and many will disagree.

FBInsp · #13 13-12-2012, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by alexander81

seriously bros ,

would you guys be serious with a girl who used to be a FL ? I am fucking fucked up now as i met one i really like.

She is outright frank about everything . why she did it.

Only u urself have the answer to dat question... its doesn't matter wat others have to say... she wans to tell u upfront cos she wans u to accept her for who she is...

Forsyth · #14 13-12-2012, 04:46 PM

B4 girls become fl they also have bfs, so they learn from what their bfs want.
Once I meet a fl who was very very good at deepthroat, best I tried.
I asked her how she learnt that and she just told me her bf liked that way so she learned.

notti4u · #15 13-12-2012, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by soothHerOnlyIf

hey bros, am I right to say what's past is past only if she didn't pass any STD to you? I'm thinking, all's well and doesn't matter if she's FL before. geez even better if she's FL before cos I can have great sex

cos she knows how to press my buttons so perfectly but what if when all's well until the day you and her go for a body check up before walking down the aisle to get married and you found out she's got virus? will you still say past is past? personally, I don't really know what I will do..most probably walk out if my love is not strong enough? there're cases in ang moh countries the spouse stayed with their HIV partner but I dont think I see that in Asian societies..

Bro, I know of someone that married a man who is HIV infected and she indeed still stick with him till date.