Need some sex advice from girls.

[futurama22]

I have 3 questions. Please only post serious and matured comments. Thanks!



1. My gf and I are exploring anal sex. For me, I find it quite disgusting but am curious to find out how its like. I tried to put my finger down her anus but despite using lub, its so tight. How can a dick go in? Wouldn't it be painful not only for me but her as well? Also, she said it felt like she was shitting. If I put my dick instead, would some of her shit residue get onto my dick even IF she shits 1 hour before?? Is anal actually pleasurable to both guys and girls?



2. When I lick her nipples, she moans alot.. but am I actually stimulating her? Or are her moans just for show. I understand that nipples harden and can arouse girls but wouldnt a legit moan only be at her pussy? To me, its like a girl licking my nipple and me moaning. No link?



3. Sometimes if we have sex for too long, her pussy swells a lil and it hurts a bit. We use lub. Any idea how to advoid swelling?

[adoe1]

to qn2.. your gal is great to u! She moans for u to stimulate u.. enjoy it bro. Even if it's faked, u can turn it to real moaning by making her very horny.

This leads to qn3.. avoid using lube. Try stimulating her all the way from foreplay, cunnilingus and fingering instead. Then her body will produce a constant flow of juices to lubricate her v.. then it won't swell and hurt after long sex.

It swells bcos imagine u r her.. no foreplay.. v dry.. get inserted with lube.. after long sex.. no juice the lube sure dry up and start hurting.

[DemonicSS]

Hi TS,

Its my personal opinion only, but hope it will help you

Regarding your question

1) To get rid of any residue, you might wanna consider flushing out the anus by using a douche. You can buy then online. It helps to remove any possible feces trapped in the anus.

You might also want to get an anal toy too. Look out for anal toys with the smallest size rather than the biggest. so maybe about 4 inch? if they dun say the size, I wouldn't recommend you buying it as it might be alot bigger. Photos are deceptive.

Use your fingers to let her get used to something in her anally first, Use a condom over your finger. Use lub too, be very generous with it. Slowly insert. If you do meet any resistance going in, just stop there, her anus will slowly adjust and you would be able to feel it opening. When it happens, slowly insert some more. You need patience for it. Too fast and she will hurt. Get her used to it first... Then use the toy after that.

You do not really need a toy. However, the toy makes it alot easier. If no toy is available, use your dick. Wear condom as it is alot cleaner this way. Remember that porn and reality is alot different. So don't copy them

I do not know if anal is good, but some do enjoy it.

2) Take things with a pinch of salt. Its like life. She moans, so it's not negative to her. Treat her moaning as an approval and move on.

3) Fuck less, lol

So hope this helps for you.

[futurama22]

Thanks for the advise.

I dont think i'll be doing anal anytime soon.. I just find it too troublesome.. gotta make her take laxatives and have her shit everything out.. (imagine if laxative is still in her system and she keeps shitting non stop after sex haha)..

and, worried abt the smell.. ew.

[curiouslala]

Originally Posted by futurama22

1. My gf and I are exploring anal sex. For me, I find it quite disgusting but am curious to find out how its like. I tried to put my finger down her anus but despite using lub, its so tight. How can a dick go in? Wouldn't it be painful not only for me but her as well? Also, she said it felt like she was shitting. If I put my dick instead, would some of her shit residue get onto my dick even IF she shits 1 hour before?? Is anal actually pleasurable to both guys and girls?

For this, you need to warm up her ass hole first.
And u should use a LOT of lube to reduce the friction so it'll feel less shitting..
If your dick is big (ard 2" wide), she'll feel the effects for maybe around 1 week..

For warm up, do foreplay like usual. Then when it's ur turn to eat her up, do ass rimming to her ass hole.. Lick it and poke your tongue to it.. Or if you feel disgusted, pokr it with your index finger..
To be able to make your finger in, once she felt it's good, she must push her rectum muscle like she's trying to shit.. And slowly your finger will come in..
This warming up might take a while.. Bcos you have to make at least 2 fingers in..
Its to make sure that her ass hole muscle stretch enough to be able to accept your dick..
Or, if you're into sex toy, you can buy butt plug.. Use from smaller size to medium size..
Maybe it'll take a day or less or even more to do it..

When you do it, I'll suggest you to use condom.. Even there probably no shit going to be in your dick, but its more for your hygiene..
And about hygiene, please take a bath tgt (before n after), and make sure, you dont put yourfingers that u use in her asshole to her vagina.. Because even there's no shit, there's still be bacterias and I'm sure that you don't want her get vaginal disease..
And please, use a LOT of lube..

PS: please do it gently as theres a possibility of bleeding and her ass hole felt scretches to the max and also feels like to shit when you do it. And the feeling probably lasted for a week or so..
Mine was ard 10days..

2. When I lick her nipples, she moans alot.. but am I actually stimulating her? Or are her moans just for show. I understand that nipples harden and can arouse girls but wouldnt a legit moan only be at her pussy? To me, its like a girl licking my nipple and me moaning. No link?
To know whether it felt good or not for her (despite of her moans), check for her wetness below. If no wet pussy = lie

3. Sometimes if we have sex for too long, her pussy swells a lil and it hurts a bit. We use lub. Any idea how to advoid swelling?
No need to use lub if you two still in productive age..
You just need to take your time to service her..
Boys n girls work in diff kind of way..
U see her sexy or naked, you already hard n ready.
She see you naked or when u two kiss/pet, she might be wet but not wet enough..
Take your time to make her VERY WET before inserting your dick into her..

To avoid swelling = avoid sex.

[owl888]

Wonder if your gf pretty or not

[futurama22]

Thanks for the advice. Was talking to her just now and she told me to try putting a cucumber up my anus and if i feel good..

Anw, i'll probably not do anal anytime soon as my gf doesnt enjoy it and i dont see how girls like it.. plus i like clean sex eg. cum in her mouth and either she swallow or go bathroom and spit out, if wanna use nuru oil, only in bathroom. So the idea of some residue going on my bed or even the smell is quite a turn off..

And owl888 yea shes quite pretty haha.. but only thing is shes not that tall and boobs only B.

[Rusbro]

My two bits from someone who has done anal and whose gal dries up at times.
Anal can hurt real bad if not properly lubed up. At first until the hole Dsnt loosen up a bit use lots of lube n go slow n make sure lots of foreplay is done n she is relaxed.
Breast n nipples of some women r so sensitive that by just sucking on them can give them an orgasm. But some women just do it for the act or to make the man feel good n to arouse him. Don't know what's the case here.
Swelling similar issue as anal make sure the gal is properly aroused n is comfortable n most importantly wants sex at that moment. If any of these not there chances r she will dry up n her vagina will hurt n end up swelling. Hope it helps.

[blurrie]

Y think so much....sex is to b enjoyed not stress over.... makes sex a job.... not right=)