Do you tell your partner?

[sixpack]

Hi. my first time was with a thai escort. And have visited them a few times. I'm worried in the future when I get a girlfriend or a wife for that matter. Will this affect anything? i need advise from bros with experience. Do you tell your partners? Are they normally ok if a guy visits/visited them before or is there any stereotyping or judging. Or should you just shut up about it and act blur? Please share

[ol'coyote]

shut up...

[maybe_maybe.not]

dont tell.

[Alf1977]

Better dont tell coz if you tell the girl, it will be just downgrading yourself to be associated with paid sex..!!! So desperate to pay for sex is what comes to the woman's mind!!! Like disgusting!

[will88]

Will telling others you went for paid sex make them feel that you are a better person? The ans is for you to decide.

[Spud_Boy]

dun tell cuz no matter what they say, they just can't handle the truth...

[savf001]

I don't even confess all my secret

[sixpack]

quite honestly, i'd preferred if it didn't happen at all so i'm guessing it would be unacceptable for the as well. but would it come out eventually and make things worse?

[Lauhuu]

Are u dumb or are u stupid???

Shut up and bring to your grave, if she remains your wife till you die!

[sixpack]

alright chill. thanks for the input

[jasdude]

The truth hurts. Simple as that. Are you ready to face the consequences and judgements of your past even thou you are not doing now?

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by sixpack

Hi. my first time was with a thai escort. And have visited them a few times. I'm worried in the future when I get a girlfriend or a wife for that matter. Will this affect anything? i need advise from bros with experience. Do you tell your partners? Are they normally ok if a guy visits/visited them before or is there any stereotyping or judging. Or should you just shut up about it and act blur? Please share

do u prefer to be labelled as a chao tiko? perhaps u can try telling yr future gf next time n rem to update us of the outcome. will be interesting to knw.

[DemonicSS]

Well, I would vote on you saying it. It was your past and you do need to talk about them for her to know you right?

If you do meet someone and thru such conversations she gets anal about it, then truth to tell, not much point being with her right? She being upset about such things only means she may try to dominate you. Like the bros who said: " they can't handle the truth". So find one who can.

I have a friend, he's married, and with that, he is barred from mentioning anyone who he ever dated. Even girls that he was attracted to or fond of is banned too. So to live with a partner who cannot handle the truth is to live in misery.

[justl00king]

Do you also request your partner do the same and disclose how many men she had slept with before?

Maybe provide you with a detailed FR for each rendezvous?

[Longitude]

Never share such things with them. They don't take such things lightly.