First Love

silk_magic · #1 03-06-2005, 04:57 PM

Hello bros, lets talk about first love. For some of us it is memorable, for some it is downright heart wrenching. But it happens to everyone. Lets share our stories together for it can only happen once in a lifetime.

t123 · #2 03-06-2005, 05:02 PM

my repeated story.

My puppy love, we knew each other for 3 years before commiting to bfgf in Sec sch. I was sec 5 when she asked me if I want to be her bf. I was very inferior complex of myself. But, relationship lasted for 3 days and 6 months later another 3 days. She broke up the 1st time after she got run out of my school idol competition then only known as talent time. She was in the choir as a soprano, not the mafia tv drama, she sang " End of the world", I didn't expect that was how I gonna feel after she lost to my classmate. I was shell-shocked then because a fat bloke like me got dumped for the 1st time. DUn know wat to do, no counsellor like sch kids have nowadays.

6 months later she opened her golden mouth and decide to resume the abruptly suspended bgr. I obliged and she took me for a ride again. This time my shell shock last for 2 years. Later found out she is actually seeing someone in church and she looked down on my family background because my parents are not christians. Heart wrenched, because these facts were only told to me by another schoolmate and confirmed by her best friend. SHe didn't bother to tell me how she felt. SHe wore specs I like girls who wear specs. I actually started out liking her as a schoolmate only but only got emotional feelings for her after 3 years. She knew that.

After all, I am just her transit airport not destination. After 3 years we left I hear she went on to engaged and married a 29 christian from her church when she turned 21.

MMM88 · #3 03-06-2005, 05:13 PM

Bro T123.....it is for t best tat tis relation did not last....from wat u hav posted , she sounded like a b*[email protected] m sure u will have a HELL of a time if tis relationship turned into marriage...u know wat i mean....sometimes things sad things happened for t better......lighten up..u were young n naive then.......

CHEERS

jinrenhe · #4 03-06-2005, 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by t123

my repeated story.
After all, I am just her transit airport not destination. After 3 years we left I hear she went on to engaged and married a 29 christian from her church when she turned 21.

Bro T123... ur story are always so moving & dramatic, quite an exciting life u have
Anyway, thats life i guess... few ppl are that lucky to have a 1st love encounter that has fairytale ending.

Doenitz79 · #5 03-06-2005, 06:28 PM

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Originally Posted by silk_magic

Hello bros, lets talk about first love. For some of us it is memorable, for some it is downright heart wrenching. But it happens to everyone. Lets share our stories together for it can only happen once in a lifetime.

hey i was just about to post this topic but you beat me to it! Heh.

jinrenhe · #6 03-06-2005, 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Doenitz79

hey i was just about to post this topic but you beat me to it! Heh.

give others a chance ... all the love-related threads opened by u already

But seriously, all these threads has invoke much old emotions in me... reading the stories of others has brought me back in time. I really miss her

I really miss her

ryanlim · #7 03-06-2005, 10:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Doenitz79

hey i was just about to post this topic but you beat me to it! Heh.

how many more threads are you planning to start??????

silk_magic · #8 06-06-2005, 02:44 PM

I had my first love when I was sixteen. She is from one of the top girls school in Singapore. The irony is that the thing that attracted her was also the cause of the break up after 9 months. I was heavily involved in the NCC and spent a lot of time on it. She did not mind because in the first place, she is attracted to me because of my commitment and enthusiasm in NCC. She saw me as a dependable bloke who is serious yet fun loving.

Being an immature prick who did not know what is going through his mind, I placed too much priority on NCC and neglected her. The last straw was when she was hospitalised due to high fever while I was at a NCC camp, which I could, have missed. Well we did have happy moments together except the break up left a sour taste in the mouth. Who knows what will happen if we did not break up because she is quite a pretty girl and yet smart.