is it wrong for a girl to be horny?

[angelababy]

hello brothers


I am 28 this year. b cup, waist:24.5,44.5 kg.

I had my sexual awakening 3 years ago, began to enjoy sex tremendously especially after my first squirt.

I am with my partner for 2 years now and we Bonk abt 2-3 times a week.but it's not enough, at least for me.


I don't think I am bad in bed. I can make my partner 'burn ' when I give him a bj. I am not too sure if you brother know What it means for a man to burn. Apparently it's that intense feeling of like electricity and hotness surging you through your cock and you.


I wear sexy lingerie. I tie him up. He ties me up. We play kinky games.


But it's always still me coming on to him. First. Fondling him, sucking him


I wish he will give me some tender loving care. I played with toys but will always prefer the real thing

We spoke abt this. He says I give him the best sex compared to his exes but I m too horny .

We fought abt this before and it's sad Co's I always thought men are the hornier ones in the relationship.


Am I in the wrong for wanting too much sex?

Or is he really just unable to meet my needs?
I will not never want to cheat on him but I do not know how to control these needs.

(

What should I do?

[Weiwei88]

Hey sister , I am same situation as you , I have high sex drive . But my gf only want it once or twice in 1 month ! I am in the worst situation as u. I am with her for 8 years . Since 16 years old . And she is my only sex partner. I talk her about this . She is worry I might find Fl or what . Alway quarrel about this . 1 or twice in a month sis . But no choice . There is nothing I can do now . Just hope that next time she will feel more horny .

For me , most if the time I service myself . Since u don't want to find other guys , then I think that is your only choice too. You have try to talk to him and u mention that u are good in bed . What more can he still ask for .

[SammyNewbie]

I find it so amusing that so many ladies are fessing up on the same topic. I think school holiday coming again.

[Lindblum]

Honestly years ago my ex gf and I wanted it everyday because she moved in with me . My parents were fine with it because they liked her a lot . Well after daily sex that persisted for 4 months, our sex drive died down to about 3 times a week which we were comfortable . Just saying that maybe if you have daily sex continuously for a few months, you end up like how I was before . As a matter of fact , Towards the end , I wasn't even looking forward to bed time because I need to perform again , which can be sickening especially if I'm the one banging all the time since her cowgirl was beyond horrible ; she basically just sat down with her full body weight on my hips which kinda got me a little uncomfortable.

[Distorted]

It is normal to have high sex drive. Many of us here have it including me. There are other ways to cope with high sex drive beside doing it with your partner. Like some bros have shared above, 'service' yourself is on way. Play sports and keep yourself occupied with other activities also help in exerting the energy and attention before each day ends too.

[singlicious]

I think you should tell him what you really want. trust comes first, but communication is still the second most important thing amongst a couple. be it sex or anything else.

[hello1891]

I haf read tat it's normal for a girl to suddenly haf high sex drive
Normally last from a couple of weeks to months if not a year or 2
After which the drive will start to lower down

So it's perfectly normal

[marclove]

it perfectly normal, your sexuality is part of you and there is nothing wrong

[studdyme]

i hope all girls are horny

[acidicavex]

Where is the Q?? or A very certain bro will always ask any pics??

[angelababy]

Originally Posted by Weiwei88

Hey sister , I am same situation as you , I have high sex drive . But my gf only want it once or twice in 1 month ! I am in the worst situation as u. I am with her for 8 years . Since 16 years old . And she is my only sex partner. I talk her about this . She is worry I might find Fl or what . Alway quarrel about this . 1 or twice in a month sis . But no choice . There is nothing I can do now . Just hope that next time she will feel more horny .

For me , most if the time I service myself . Since u don't want to find other guys , then I think that is your only choice too. You have try to talk to him and u mention that u are good in bed . What more can he still ask for .

Hello weiwei, poor us!

there are times when I even serviced myself infront of him,lying beside him, moaning away, thinking that he will be turned on. But he will still sleep on. He will be totally non chalent and indifferent.

I guess that's part of the reason I want him more. He being hard to get and being such a bad boy.

But it's really sad from a woman's point of view. It deflates the self esteem. There are so many times that I considered a boob job and I discussed it with him too but he will always object to it. I mean I don't think mine are small but which man doesn't like a well endowed woman!

[angelababy]

Originally Posted by marclove

it perfectly normal, your sexuality is part of you and there is nothing wrong

True. It's hard to find a soul anyway these days that has sexual chemistry too!

I don't think a good marriage will work out if you end up with someone that's all ideal but you guys have no sexual chemistry.

This is probably why there are so many cheating spouses (in this forum).:

[angelababy]

Originally Posted by Lindblum

Honestly years ago my ex gf and I wanted it everyday because she moved in with me . My parents were fine with it because they liked her a lot . Well after daily sex that persisted for 4 months, our sex drive died down to about 3 times a week which we were comfortable . Just saying that maybe if you have daily sex continuously for a few months, you end up like how I was before . As a matter of fact , Towards the end , I wasn't even looking forward to bed time because I need to perform again , which can be sickening especially if I'm the one banging all the time since her cowgirl was beyond horrible ; she basically just sat down with her full body weight on my hips which kinda got me a little uncomfortable.

Same here. We are kinda cohabiting. But honestly everyday is too much la. I have got a buddy that bonked her gf 8 times a night and so often that she had urinary tract infection. It's hilarious. Haha.


Maybe that's how my partner feel too. But honestly other than cowgirl, there aren't many positions that a women. Alot of it is still on the onus of men.


Besides. Just curious. What makes a good cowboy.

Up and down or forward and backward.

[angelababy]

Originally Posted by Distorted

It is normal to have high sex drive. Many of us here have it including me. There are other ways to cope with high sex drive beside doing it with your partner. Like some bros have shared above, 'service' yourself is on way. Play sports and keep yourself occupied with other activities also help in exerting the energy and attention before each day ends too.

I used to gym everyday. Now I m doing alot of rollerblading, hiking and wakeboarding.


If I were to take you any more intense sports, it will have to be muay thai and haha I may just kick him to his untimely death with my frustrations.

[britishguy]

find a lover to fulfill your desires....sex can also be physical not just emotional and intimate