Am I being cuckolded?

[TheArtist]

I think my wife is cheating on me. A couple of months ago, I noticed a change in her behaviour. Normally a homely person, she suddenly start messaging pple on her hp. When I walk near, I can see that she quickly close the program.

Initially I did not suspect much, until one incident where I got off work and want to meet her. She says she was in bugis shopping, if want to meet can find her there. When I reach, she did not pick up my call any more. I bombed her hp and waited there for 1.5 hr. I fed up and went home. Then she msg me she went to her cousin place. Im like wtf?

I started to grow suspicious and checked her whatsapp online timings. But seem normal. Then suddenly I came across wechat, which doesnt have online times. At night, when all is asleep, I sneak beside her and took her hp to check. Sure enough, there is wechat but no msg inside. Got a couple of friends though, nothing more.

Then she went 3 days chalet with her 2 girl friends which I know too. Nothing suspicious.

These few weeks, there are msgs inside her wechat. It seems that at night before she sleeps, she will delete the msgs. Got a few nights never delete, and here are some msgs I saw. Summaries only.

Incident 1:
Guy 1: Sorry, my fengshui friend say I cannot have another woman in my life else I have trouble blah blah.

Wife: I trusted you, the disappointment is in the lost of trust. Blah blah.

Incident 2:
Wife: Angry with that pig today (me). Make me angry yadda yadda (I did not really make her angry, why call me pig?)

Guy 2: Wah you fierce leh, you know how to handle him. (Ya right)

Incident 3:
Guy 2: Free on 26?

Wife: 26 thur I work til 9pm so only after 9pm.

Guy 2: Oh ok I off on thur and fri. But night time I hard to come out.

Wife: Ok fri then.


Msg ends, no update since. The 26 is actually this thur, but since there is a meeting on this coming fri instead. Thur and fri I also off, if I tell my wife now, surely she will cancel the appointment and I will not find out anything.

I will check her hp again see if got msgs she forget to delete. Not sure if I am going to pretend going to work, then hide somewhere and stalk her when she leaves the house. Or what.

Is this consider cheating on me? And it seems like 2 guys somemore. Wtf. Am I being cuckolded? I always read stories about wives being a slut and it is so damn hot, but now like happening to me I so damn fucking angry. I did not tell anyone about this, not something nice to tell pple about. But I can really help with some advice man.

Is there anyway to capture her wechat msgs and send to my hp to read? I now only spy on her hp and took pictures of the msgs in my own hp. I also install a samsung account on her s4 to track her location, but when I track her hp will get a tracking msg so i used it sparingly.

What can I do? Any bros can advise? Totally no mood now, cannot concentrate at work too. fml.

[Hardstick15by5]

I feel for you.

If your worst fears turned out to be true,

All I can say is,


Realize this woman doesn't treasure


Life is like that, there are millions out there who went trough the same as you



If it really is true, protect yourself financially, gather evidence. Think for yourself..


It is still a big forest out there.

[thebigdick]

WECHAT VERY EASY TO KNOW GIRLS MAN.... LOTSA MARRIED WOMAN HANGING AROUND THERE LOOKING.... EASY TARGET FOR HANDSUM GUYS ACTUALLY.... BETTER BEWARE ok

[TheOneAtWork]

Bro, I feel for u. But I also agree with a lot of bros here, is to gather the evidence first and protect your financial future. The worse case is u may have to divorce her, but at least u have the prove that she betrayed you. No point keeping a person who have changed heart.

If really proved she is a slut, put her to shame here for all bros to know. But of course I hope things still turn out fine for you. Good luck...

[archer69]

Now they know as you already post it here. (Might cancel appt)
Good luck.

[gobal100]

Bro,

There is a law in Singapore called woman chapter. It is a very powerful law. Every man that is married regardless happy or so so also scared. Woman know how to use this law to protect the self. Even she give you green hat. Chapter law can also asked you money to pay for your kids.

I know is your kids but what if the money is allocated not to good use? Then is jialat, never let kids followed this kind of woman even the kids like them a lot. Bring them up yourself. You can do it man.

[karpo]

Gather all the info of ur wife and the man and stomp them.. make her lose face.. let the whole world know..

[B-free]

Bro, get professional help to gather info now. Once you have enough evidences, divorce will be faster. However, be prepared to part with 50% of your assets thou.

[Zangetsu]

If me, i will control my emotions and continue to spy on her hp. if you noted on certain dates that she is going out. Just pretend to go work normally but camp at one corner to stalk her. Best is to get concrete evidence before confronting her. if you want to catch , must make sure u checkmate her. if not then forget it. anyway, i feel for you. take care bro.

[sadfa]

Is this going to end up as a story where the guy ends up happy his wife is being fucked? Like the other stories like yours which start like this?

If not, seems like she's cheating on you. Sorry lo

Get a PI and take photos etc n decide want divorce or not.
PI report n photos stronger for divorce than you say on this n that date, see her go hotel with unknown guy etc.

Got kids? No kids easier 2 divorce.
And its hard for a guy 2 not divorce after he finds out what his wife did.
So sooner or later, the marriage will end or end up as a non marriage.

And if she is damn smug, tell her family n close frends what a whore she is and see how smug she is lor. If her 'bf' are married, then see how smug they can be lor if their wives know what they are up to. But don't get into trouble hor

But of cos make sure they sympathise with you cos she will make it seem its all your fault for her fucking around.

[TheArtist]

Not going to start a story here, but thanks for your advice, everyone. Much appreciated. We have a kid, that makes it harder.

Anyway, the msgs in her hp on the appointment all deleted liao, but after midnight got guy 2 and guy 3 (wtf) wishing her Merry Christmas. No further news on her outing this fri.

Financially may be hard to transfer my assets to myself, being that I transfer 1100 to her monthly. One month never transfer she'll notice.

Like the bros above said, need to checkmate her. I guess for nowI need to find concrete evidence first.

Thanks again everyone. Merry Xmas.

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by TheArtist

Not going to start a story here, but thanks for your advice, everyone. Much appreciated. We have a kid, that makes it harder.

Anyway, the msgs in her hp on the appointment all deleted liao, but after midnight got guy 2 and guy 3 (wtf) wishing her Merry Christmas. No further news on her outing this fri.

Financially may be hard to transfer my assets to myself, being that I transfer 1100 to her monthly. One month never transfer she'll notice.

Like the bros above said, need to checkmate her. I guess for nowI need to find concrete evidence first.

Thanks again everyone. Merry Xmas.

Sorry la.
My predictions for you in 2014 Is likely divorce la.

Very hard for guy 2 know wife fucked behind his back n stay together la.
Even if you stay together for kid, the trust is gone cos she betrayed you.
And its a matter of time she fucks again or you all quarrel big time.

And her calling you names is very very bad la.
If you call her fucking bitch behind her back, you think she happy meh?

And no assets, nothing 2 transfer la.
If you Got flat, will decide what 2 do.
Maybe sell n give back 2 CPF, or transfer whole lot 2 her n she pay the bill lor.

Messages, Telco can produce la.
So no issue. If whole thing come out, she will be damn malu.

Don't become 2 fixated on that.
She got fuck behind your back is more damaging than she say I love you to 10guys.

But important thing is PI la. Don't make your move, don't change your schedule, don't show black face. Better still, say go overseas for work n hide in Spore. Don't spy on her during this time n let PI do their work. She got free time n think u r not there 2 spy on her, may even brin him 2 your house 2 fuck. Or she more daring n fuck him even more. Sorry again 2 tell u that

[kenta]

TS if ur wife is on red telco check PM

[ah rat]

Ts,did u have sex with yr wife

[eddtan1]

TS...go to this web site - www.flexispy.com
Since you are able to get hold of her phone...the software will be able to help you for whatever you need to know.