Sex with the ex

Icecreamsoda · #1 26-02-2014, 12:51 PM

Hey bros & sis,

I got out of my last relationship around last June, right after I started discovering that my ex was cheating on me. It took a while before I decided to call it quits because we really been through a lot over our 2.5 years together. I am pretty sure I am over her emotionally but I have to admit, she's the best sex I had to date because we really know what each other like & want in bed.

For some reason, the thoughts of looking her up for sex only has been lingering in my head lately but I don't wanna risk whipping up any emotional aspect from her, because I won't give it another thought, especially when I gave her a number of chances to change, despite knowing her cheating nature with her previous ex. She has been constantly telling me she is sorry and all that but honestly, I don't buy it anymore.

I been single since but have gone out with my ex and our common friends a couple of times. Am hoping to hear ur thoughts on is it a good idea or even possible to remain purely as FB in this scenario.

demonhunter · #2 26-02-2014, 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Icecreamsoda

Hey bros & sis,

I got out of my last relationship around last June, right after I started discovering that my ex was cheating on me. It took a while before I decided to call it quits because we really been through a lot over our 2.5 years together. I am pretty sure I am over her emotionally but I have to admit, she's the best sex I had to date because we really know what each other like & want in bed.

For some reason, the thoughts of looking her up for sex only has been lingering in my head lately but I don't wanna risk whipping up any emotional aspect from her, because I won't give it another thought, especially when I gave her a number of chances to change, despite knowing her cheating nature with her previous ex. She has been constantly telling me she is sorry and all that but honestly, I don't buy it anymore.

I been single since but have gone out with my ex and our common friends a couple of times. Am hoping to hear ur thoughts on is it a good idea or even possible to remain purely as FB in this scenario.

Since she likes to cheat and is skillful in bed , the only position for her to fill is a FUCK BUDDY .

You must not let your emotions overcome your mind , or else its back to square one again .... then you can sing wheels on the bus goes round and round ...

If you cannot handle , you may direct her to me .

TY .

MrPimp · #3 26-02-2014, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by demonhunter

Since she likes to cheat and is skillful in bed , the only position for her to fill is a FUCK BUDDY .

You must not let your emotions overcome your mind , or else its back to square one again .... then you can sing wheels on the bus goes round and round ...

If you cannot handle , you may direct her to me .

TY .

nice try!

Icecreamsoda · #4 26-02-2014, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by demonhunter

Since she likes to cheat and is skillful in bed , the only position for her to fill is a FUCK BUDDY .

You must not let your emotions overcome your mind , or else its back to square one again .... then you can sing wheels on the bus goes round and round ...

If you cannot handle , you may direct her to me .

TY .

Hahaha !! I did consider that bro, but her parents are very kind to me, which is why I am hesitating because I don't want her to use this chance to get me to commit, and when I refused, her parents will definitely have a roller-coaster ride with all her tantrum throwing. She's an only child.

demonhunter · #5 26-02-2014, 04:49 PM

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Hahaha !! I did consider that bro, but her parents are very kind to me, which is why I am hesitating because I don't want her to use this chance to get me to commit, and when I refused, her parents will definitely have a roller-coaster ride with all her tantrum throwing. She's an only child.

Why would she want to make you commit , when she has her freedom as a F buddy to cheat ?

Icecreamsoda · #6 26-02-2014, 04:57 PM

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Why would she want to make you commit , when she has her freedom as a F buddy to cheat ?

Simple. Because she enjoys the pampering I showered on her, plus I gave her more than 3 chances before, so perhaps she still think that if I go back now, I am still somewhat not over her.

Some ppl just like to have a D24 (bao jiak) and have the option to explore other samples now & then. By the way, we were engaged. She's kind of ashamed now that all her friends know why we splitted, so she hopes to win me back, for whatever reason and I don't really wanna care.

I am sure emotionally it's over, no trust means no relationship. But I really miss the thrust part between me and her

ah rat · #7 26-02-2014, 05:07 PM

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But I really miss the thrust part between me and her

Can u able to endure it

Icecreamsoda · #8 26-02-2014, 05:10 PM

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Can u endure it

Difficult lah bro, seriously she's good, plus She is one hell of a squirter

demonhunter · #9 26-02-2014, 08:07 PM

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Difficult lah bro, seriously she's good, plus She is one hell of a squirter

You intro to me , i take away your burden and stress ....

End of story ....Sui Bo ?

Stewardess · #10 26-02-2014, 08:28 PM

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You intro to me , i take away your burden and stress ....

End of story ....Sui Bo ?

Champion. Well done.

demonhunter · #11 26-02-2014, 08:32 PM

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Champion. Well done.

I hide down here , also let you catch ah !!!

You will make a good wife .....

Icecreamsoda · #12 27-02-2014, 11:54 AM

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I hide down here , also let you catch ah !!!

You will make a good wife .....

Hahahahahahha !!! if fling or FL I can intro, FB & ex I am sorry I can't bro. Privacy issues, apologies

Kimchi1001 · #13 04-03-2014, 08:49 PM

I say dump her. You've given her enough chances. I think part of the reason why you say sex with her was great is because you love her. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing that you still have the hots for her. If possible, distance yourself from her. The more you see her, the more you'll be tempted to have sex with her and you'll be under her spell again. I'm sure you'll find another person who deserves you with whom you can have meaningful sex with.

Icecreamsoda · #14 05-03-2014, 03:15 PM

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I say dump her. You've given her enough chances. I think part of the reason why you say sex with her was great is because you love her. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing that you still have the hots for her. If possible, distance yourself from her. The more you see her, the more you'll be tempted to have sex with her and you'll be under her spell again. I'm sure you'll find another person who deserves you with whom you can have meaningful sex with.

THanks babe !! It's good to hear from a lady's point of view. And yup, she recently admitted that she's attached but the bf is a physical abuser and she showed me all her wounds. But knowing that she can move on so quickly and only come back for sympathy kills off the drive suddenly. So I would say it's definitely easier to move on completely now

Sandunes · #15 05-03-2014, 04:46 PM

guess it quite hard, as sometimes, the head on top tries to be rational and try logical, but the one below thinks likewise.

Which guy doesn't want a free bonk rather than to waste the money on GL or FL?