Very worried and scared

kop999end · #1 12-09-2005, 12:50 PM

Dear all experienced samsters, please advise...

Met up this KTV girl (from Bencoleen) 2 days ago and brought her to hotel for bonk. Started with BJ without condom. Sex is with condom but didn't realized that she wear the condom for me only half-way through, i.e. condom covered from tip of dick-head to middle of my dick shaft. I didn't know until I come. Did not lick her pussy, only fingering her. Don't think I've taste her pussy juice. I'm drunk that night.

For my second round, also started with BJ without condom and followed by condom for sex. this time I ensure condom is fully covering my penis. Got a hard time coming, so asked her to BJ me again. she took out condom and put aside. BJ without condom about 1-2 mins, followed by HJ. After my penis harden again, I wear back the used condom (not from the first fuck) and start to bonk her again for 1-2 mins. Didn't manage to come and gave up altogether.

My status now (it has been 2 days since incident happened)
1. No growth on penis or gentials.
2. No pee pain
3. No other symptoms

My questions:
1. Is it too early for symptoms to show as it only been 2 days?
2. Am I at risk contracting STDs or HIV?
3. As a taker of BJ without condom, high risk of contracting STDs or HIV?
4. By which day, after the sex, can I go to see doctor for blood test to show an accurate results?
5. Shall I go to Dr. Cheok, GP or DSC?
6. Wife want to start family soon. What shall I do? If continue to use condom cannot have babies and also caused suspicious.
7. Anyone know if Bencolleen KTV girls well known for STDs or HIV carrier?
8. Shall I be very worried for contracting anything?

I know i should bonk her in first place, milk already spilled, please advise your advise and remedy...

thanks

kellogs · #2 12-09-2005, 01:54 PM

What you need to do now is to keep your cool.

wait for about 5 days and then go for STD + HIV blood test. (Most likely the HIV test result will not show anything but it will give you a piece of mind)

After that you could either go for another blood test on HIV in a month time or/and 3 months later.

To be really safe, do blood test HIV on the 6 months after the exposure.

As for the time being, stick with using condom with your wife.

good luck and keep your cool.

sammyboyfor · #3 12-09-2005, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by kop999end

Dear all experienced samsters, please advise...

You are at risk of Chlamydia, Gonorrhoea, Syphilis, Genital Warts, Genital Herpes, Pubic Lice, and Hepatitis B (if you have not been immunised).

Your list of catching HIV is very low. However, to be safe, you should get tested at 3 months and again at 6 months from the date of exposure.

Each STD has it's window period whereby tests will not reveal whether you have been infected. Do a google search to find out more about each STD.

Some STDs such as Genital Warts (caused by the HPV virus) can go undetected for years and there is no simple test that can confirm the presence of absence of the virus. Many men are asympotic.. ie they harbour the virus but show no symptoms whatsoever. However, they are capable of spreading the virus to their sexual partners.

The same goes with Genital Herpes. You could be infected but you may not show any symptoms of the disease. However, that doesn't mean that you cannot transmit the disease to your sexual partners during episodes of asymptotic shedding of the virus. I believe there is now a quick and easy blood test for Herpes. Check with your doctor.

ALL girls that provide commercial sex are potential sources of infection of a whole host of sexual diseases. That's because of the number of sexual partners that they have. If the girl that you had sex with was willing to give a blow job without a condom, it means that she indulges in high risk unprotected oral sex which puts her at risk of a whole spectrum of STDs as well as HIV.

I suggest you go to the DSC clinic as they have loads of experience and can also help answer any further questions you may have.

I suggest you refrain from having sex with your wife until you can be checked and cleared of the bacterial STDs (Chlamydia, Gonorrhoea, Syphilis etc). You'll probably have to wait at least 3 weeks before doing a blood test.

Dealing with viral STDs is a different ball game altogether as getting an accurate diagnosis can be a lot more difficult. Trying to explain things here would be too complicated. The best people to ask are the medical professionals who can council you face to face.

sammyboyfor · #4 12-09-2005, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by kellogs

wait for about 5 days and then go for STD + HIV blood test.

A blood test after 5 days is an absolute waste of time and money.

kellogs · #5 12-09-2005, 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

A blood test after 5 days is an absolute waste of time and money.

It is a waste of time even for STDs checking?

Thanks.

sammyboyfor · #6 12-09-2005, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by kellogs

It is a waste of time even for STDs checking?

Thanks.

Some bacterial STDs require a culture to be taken from sores or discharge from the sexual organs. Chlamydia and Gonorrhea are not diagnosed with blood tests.

There is more info at http://www.indiana.edu/~health/labqa.html

kellogs · #7 12-09-2005, 03:08 PM

I had my tests blood + urine test after 7 days of high risk exposure (without CD and ejaculated inside).

The result came out negative. I am waiting for the 3 months mark before going for another test.

It has been a painful and scary process. There is nothing i could do other than keeping cool at this point.

Remember to everyone, RAW IS WAR.

kop999end · #8 12-09-2005, 03:54 PM

hey sammy, are you saying that Chlamydia and Gonorrhea needs culture from sore or discharge to cultivate? So does that means if one does not have any sore or discharge within 5-14 days, he is free from Chlamydia and Gonorrhea?

Anyway, I've called DSC counsellor for advice earlier. She says if one does not have any ulcer, discharge, pee pain after 5 days of exposure (i.e. sex exposure), it unlikely to contract Gonorrhea.

Yes, she also claimed that's nothing I can do except to take test on 1mth & 3mth from now for HIV.

Maybe, the quickest way to find out is to ask the girl I've sex with!

sammyboyfor · #9 12-09-2005, 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by kellogs

I had my tests blood + urine test after 7 days of high risk exposure (without CD and ejaculated inside).

Did you do a test for HSV1 and HSV2? Please advise.

kellogs · #10 12-09-2005, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Did you do a test for HSV1 and HSV2? Please advise.

I have requested the doctor to perform all available types of testing. I am not sure if HSV1 or HSV2 are included.

Thanks.

sammyboyfor · #11 12-09-2005, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by kellogs

I have requested the doctor to perform all available types of testing. I am not sure if HSV1 or HSV2 are included.

Thanks.

Could you find out as the tests for the Herpes virus are not widely available and even if they are available, they are not very accurate.

http://herpes-coldsores.com/accuracy_of_blood_tests.htm

kellogs · #12 12-09-2005, 04:47 PM

Thank you for the information. I guess right now all i could do is wait for 3 months mark before another test.

sammyboyfor · #13 12-09-2005, 06:01 PM

Chlamydia and Gonorrhea can both be asymptotic (no symptoms) so the absence of any discharge does not mean that you have not been infected. The best course of action is to test for Chlamydia after a couple of weeks even if no symptoms appear.

Anyone who tests positive for Chlamydia is usually treated for both Chlamydia and Gonorrhea as it is simpler to simply assume that the patient could have caught both bugs.

There is NO POINT asking the girl you had sex with about her condition. To start with, she could be symptom free even though she is infected with a host of STDs which may lead her to believe (erroneously of course) that she is absolutely healthy. Secondly, even if she had tested positive for anything, you'd be naive to believe she's going to be truthful about it. Why would she break her own ricebowl disclosing any news that might affect her livelyhood!!

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Originally Posted by kop999end

hey sammy, are you saying that Chlamydia and Gonorrhea needs culture from sore or discharge to cultivate? So does that means if one does not have any sore or discharge within 5-14 days, he is free from Chlamydia and Gonorrhea?

Anyway, I've called DSC counsellor for advice earlier. She says if one does not have any ulcer, discharge, pee pain after 5 days of exposure (i.e. sex exposure), it unlikely to contract Gonorrhea.

Yes, she also claimed that's nothing I can do except to take test on 1mth & 3mth from now for HIV.

Maybe, the quickest way to find out is to ask the girl I've sex with!

dt3305 · #14 12-09-2005, 06:23 PM

As I have been to DSC recently, I did request for a test on Herpes among others, even though I have no sores or blister to begin with. The doctor ok it and says a blood test will tell, so I guess DSC now has the test avaliable to test for Herpes and not till there is visible symptoms.

Read up on the DSC site. They will give you a host of STD incubation period. And yes, no unprotected sex with your wife until you are clear. Be safe rather than sorry. That's what I am going through now. I have negative NGU , HIV(1st month mark) and Gornorrea result, so awaiting result for Syphills and Herpes...just relax and go for the test when the time is right.

sammyboyfor · #15 13-09-2005, 04:24 AM

I always wonder why married men indulge in commercial sex and then end up in a state of panic at the possibility that they may have caught something nasty that could be passed on to their wives.

Surely the thought of catching yucky STDs must have crossed your mind BEFORE you stuck your dick in a commercial pussy.