Help Needed: Cant Cum with CD on

tfk333 · #1 08-10-2005, 01:59 AM

Hi, does anyone here experience the same problem as me i.e. difficulty or cannot cum at all when having sex with CD on? Doing raw is fine but not without CD. Can some bro here advise me what can be done?

emperor · #2 08-10-2005, 10:21 AM

It's mainly mental.

Fucking with a condom on feels to you like fucking with your clothes on. The oddness triggers a mental image not conducive for release.

3 things that may help:

- start thinking of the condom as an organic part of your body and not something that you are wearing.

- abstain from sex or mastrubation to give your cock a chance to resensitize.

- start taking more vitamin C and zinc. They help in cell repair and rejuvenation.

tfk333 · #3 08-10-2005, 04:28 PM

Thanks for the advice.

Sorin^^ · #4 08-10-2005, 06:15 PM

Hi Bro,

Well u can always try a new condom brand, like Okamoto, as mentioned in the other thread? Cos its relli thin n strong, it relli stick to ur didi like a skin.

Cheers

free · #5 08-10-2005, 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted by tfk333

Hi, does anyone here experience the same problem as me i.e. difficulty or cannot cum at all when having sex with CD on? Doing raw is fine but not without CD. Can some bro here advise me what can be done?

555, same here. That is why I need raw... but only with my tirak of course. Think it is all in the mind. But I can't get the better of it. Anyone who got such a habit can overcome that?

dt3305 · #6 10-10-2005, 08:54 AM

I discovered that if you always PCC or BJ...you will have problem sustaining erection during FJ...it's a mental thing...thats why sex experts(I read some where) advise that PCC and BJ will affect your sex life...your brain will be attuned to this 2 acts as "natural" and the act of FJ as "unnatural"...but rest assured studies has also show that after a while, your brain will get used to it...for CD, try Okamnoto, I tried it recently and must admit it has a feeling of nothing on as what the box says but I find the lubricant less than that of Durex...

tfk333 · #7 10-10-2005, 05:24 PM

A big thanks to all bros for the advices. Hopefully it will help. Cheers

#8 10-10-2005, 06:05 PM

Standard bro, no worries, because I tried PCC with my pants on, after half an hour it's still the same.

That's why you see Jap AV, wondering how those male AV actor can tahan so long, that's the trick, when they want to shoot, they pull out and ask the female to do a BJ for them

#9 11-10-2005, 04:30 PM

The other thing to do is to prolong foreplay, so both you and your lady friend are near cumming already. Also if you increase your physical fitness, it improves your ability to enjoy FJs, which can be quite strenuous, and helps you control and reach climax better, with or without CD.

DipItLow · #10 11-10-2005, 04:48 PM

to be honest,i really prefer not to use cd but since this is about life and death,ive no choice but to use my shield.basd on my own exp,i usually ask my girl to suck real hard which is the next best thing to feeling it.at least for me.

thamkngw · #11 14-10-2005, 10:37 PM

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Originally Posted by tfk333

Hi, does anyone here experience the same problem as me i.e. difficulty or cannot cum at all when having sex with CD on? Doing raw is fine but not without CD. Can some bro here advise me what can be done?

well, i don't know where else to post... i recently did it with a wl, and heck, she had 3 orgasms but I just can't cum. This is my 3rd time having sex, the last time was 2 years back. and previously i was so nervous, but this time i take it slow, tasted abalone, six-nine, doggy, had a great bj but, after 1.5 hrs later. she too shack to continue and as for me still hard and nowhere near cumming. she told me she never had such a great time before, and i was like wat-the-fuck and damn frustated.

Help!!!