i really really miss her........

banker · #1 29-11-2005, 07:29 PM

very sad, heart pain as she went back China to visit her BF.

she and her bf plan to get married,
but her parents seem not agree with it, can not accept him again.
he is searching house b4 marrying her.
( i know b'cos evertime they talk thru phone, i beside her )
later, her bf started to suspect her, and come to know abt me and her,
and treaten to commit suicide,
( small story abt them, many of her fren knew this too,
she should have marrying him, IF he didn't do stupid things in front of her parents,
i don't know the reason, he commit suicide together force her in front of her parents.
there are blood spread around her house, quite serious.
they break up after that, that's why she came to work in sg,
after 1 year, he came to sg to find her, they together again )

until recently, sometime around March, i started to date her,
we when Genting few time with another fren.
now only 2 of us when out together, stay in same room, sleep in same bed.
done what couple usually do. i feel happy with her, she is my Dream girl type.
even her name i like very much. have many sweet memories with her,
i think i luv her. very cute.

but, her bf will call her to sportcheck every offday, we went out every offday.
got few times he can not spot her (no autorooming), her bf will call all her frens
here to ask abt her. they quarrel, but end up.ok.

last week, we both took MC and when to Genting. as usual he can not contact her,
he become very upset, and treaten to commit suicide. worried and scare,
so she fly back to China on Sunday midnite. i feel very sad.

she said she is torn between both of us, she dunno what to do. we cried many time b4.
she said i too good to her, a very good man, a guai bao bao. ( she called me baobao)
( no man will have such patience, such "silly" and too honest to a girl )
she said, if really one day she really leave me, it is a sins.
she will bent and kowtou to me. ask for forgiveness.

but after she sacrify too much for him in the pass, now they can be together,
she feel can not give up also ( bu kan xin ).

i feel very fuckup, i know many PRC girls come to sg and try to settle down here.
why not her ?

in Changi Airport,
she again said i m a very good guy,
my earning around $2k+ is quite many, but she not willing/ bu ren xin spent it,
if we really together.
she repeat every single words i have confess to her last week,
and she said she will really seriously consider about it.

she manage to call me on the plane, and say she will miss me.
she is schedule to come back on 7/12/05. time pass very slow,
i dunno what will happen when she come back, i really miss her.

i dunno why i wrote this, i going to mad, dunno what to do,
nobody knows how i feel now, messy.
i hope time pass faster, i want her come back earlier....

i really really miss her....

i dun care what other people feel or say,

i love her...

PegasusBoy · #2 29-11-2005, 07:32 PM

Take it easy bro.... she's just a passing cloud in your life.

SingViet · #3 29-11-2005, 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by banker

i really really miss her....

i dun care what other people feel or say,

i love her...

If u don't care what other people feel or say, then why u post here? Providing after meals leisure reading for us?

Judging from the situation u have described, i think u really gone case liao. She cares more for her china guy than u.

Rof|maoxz · #4 29-11-2005, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by banker

very sad, heart pain as she went back China to visit her BF.

i really really miss her....

i dun care what other people feel or say,

i love her...

After reading your story, I finally blurped. Tks.

banker · #5 29-11-2005, 07:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SingViet

If u don't care what other people feel or say, then why u post here? Providing after meals leisure reading for us?

Judging from the situation u have described, i think u really gone case liao. She cares more for her china guy than u.

i know she care more for her bf,
her bf intend to commit suicide, she scare he reaaly do it. he has done it twice,,

but i still miss her......

jng1103 · #6 29-11-2005, 07:46 PM

a very sad story and hopefully a happy ending for both of U. why dun u fly over to show ur sincerity to her parents and hopefully get approval to marry her?

well, u may meet other china meimei when u r there... dun forget there are 1.3billion chinese... just kidding hor

jimbo

banker · #7 29-11-2005, 08:20 PM

she told me many time b4, if i early early tackle her,
she sure follow me, we maybe registed already.

these words keep haunting me, i scare it is too late now.
then i will really regret it.

really didn't notice her even thought we are in the same process.
wtf i do when she just arrived in sg ?
shit, football betting, only betting, the rest i dun care that time.
shit........really fuckup that time.

bernie · #8 29-11-2005, 08:33 PM

+++ so much no use. if she realy wana b wif u , she will do it no matter wat hapens.......... but at times its realy fate cums 2 late.........

take it easy bro........

ballack99 · #9 29-11-2005, 09:26 PM

[QUOTE=banker]she told me many time b4, if i early early tackle her,
she sure follow me, we maybe registed already. /QUOTE]

So long as you are a banker, she will follow you.

usmjordan2 · #10 29-11-2005, 10:02 PM

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jojo123 · #11 29-11-2005, 10:32 PM

how's sex with her?

siambee · #12 29-11-2005, 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by jojo123

how's sex with her?

idiot!! pls know when to ask correct question.

Shounan · #13 29-11-2005, 11:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by banker

i know she care more for her bf,
her bf intend to commit suicide, she scare he reaaly do it. he has done it twice,,

but i still miss her......

nabei suicide twice also dnt die, this guy's life is damn hard man...

since her bf like to threaten her wif suicide, why nt give him a hand or advise sm ways to committ suicide effective? such man who scared gf leave him n threaten her wif suicide should go to hell straight away...

if this loser die, then she will cm bk to u...

to those pple out tere, i m nt talking cock... tat loser bf of her should die since he love using suicide as a threat to keep gf... fuck! useless man!

banker · #14 30-11-2005, 12:29 AM

yes, i really think her Bf very fuckup, threaten to commit suicide.
but, until now, i didn't said any bad things abt him to her,
hope she can realise one day.....
she told me, she can not help, but have to believe it, b'cos he do it b4.
no joke,
she said, if he really die, how can she live on ?
feel guilty....can not be so heartless.

she told me long time b4, she worried also if she really marry him,
b'cos this fucker do things on his own, nobody can control him, even his parents, she worried what might happen to her if one day this fucker die and leave her alone...i think she feel insecure with him, but due to pass memories, experiences and responsibility, she still choose to stay with him.

Nismo · #15 30-11-2005, 01:26 AM

hey there,

I'm sorry to hear about your plight.

However, I hope you'll be able to see the bigger picture. As others may have mentioned it, ... if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Thou it's very much easier said than done.

That being said, it hardly surprises me to learn that, in spite of all the apparent flaws in that chap, she nonetheless goes back to him.

In my most humble opinion, ladies are emotional creatures. They rule by the heart. Which is precisely why we can see many instances of females, after undergoing spousal abuse, returns to the very man who introduces her his fist. Just like a lady sticking by her good-for-nothing-confirmed-no-future-ah-beng boyfriend. No matter how much her parents, friends, loved ones nag and advise her, ... it'll be to no avail. What matters MOST is for her to REALISE for ,nobody but, HERSELF that the guy is indeed a vermin in her life. One that needs to be exterminated asap. Only then will she be able to act rationally. Else, she'll forever be delusional - hopelessly lost in her own world of false hopes and expectations.

However, just as steadfast as ladies are to their men, ... when they actually do have a change of heart, ... WOAH!!! It's a one way super-duper-express train. No matter how hard a man pleads with them, ... NO means NO! (have witnessed many of such scenes). Usually when a girl pleads tearily, a gentleman's heart will inevitably (mine at least) soften ... and accede to a reconcillation.

Tears from a girl implores forgiveness, while tears from a guy implies weakness on his part. Anyway, i really do not think much highly of guys who employ 'suicide-tactics/threats' to retain their GFs (no offence intended. Just my opinion). And i strongly feel that such threats, ... can only work for a no. of ocassions. Overtime, excessive usage would generate null (or even adversive) results.

Anyway, hope all's well ... will end well.

Take care!

- Nismo -