How to get him in the mood

[kinderbueno1]

How do I get my husband to be in the mood?
I am always the one taking the first move for sex,it makes me feel like I am the only one wanting it. He likes a good bj before sex,and I always does it when we progressed to sex. However,he doesn't do the same to me. He doesn't do any foreplay be it frenching or whatsoever to me,so whenever we have sex, it's just plain sex intercourse. He always manages to cum when we have sex but not me.
I want more from him
How do I tell him about it ?

[skybandit]

How about watching a porn movie with him?

[acidicavex]

Wah hmmm.....

I think have a good talk n discussion in the right ambient and right mood.

[Blackenrose]

Originally Posted by kinderbueno1

How do I get my husband to be in the mood?
I am always the one taking the first move for sex,it makes me feel like I am the only one wanting it. He likes a good bj before sex,and I always does it when we progressed to sex. However,he doesn't do the same to me. He doesn't do any foreplay be it frenching or whatsoever to me,so whenever we have sex, it's just plain sex intercourse. He always manages to cum when we have sex but not me.
I want more from him
How do I tell him about it ?

Hi Gal, it's really tough sometimes.. it's hard to know what some men really want..

Some men complain that they are tired after working whole day, then they are not into sex and they would be snoring like a pig after bathing, some men would take all the initiative to find secluded places to have sex with you in a cramp little car after a long day's work.. contradicting right..

Errmm, I think it is better to slowly initiate to make him want you for sex, maybe by touching his inner thigh while he is driving or slowly rub his didi while he is watching TV or something.. Sometimes, also need to act a bit slutty.. but don't over do it he might sometimes be surprised and shocked... Anyway, high chance he will jump on to you and start pumping like a machine gun..

It's not so easy to cum sometimes for us gals...truly speaking, sometimes it is already quite satisfied with the feeling of him going in and out the feeling is shiok already... having an orgasm is a bonus It takes a while to find out which position that would really make you feel the big O, you have to try out with your man..

Oh, and one last thing.. don't over do your blowjob on him wor..., might not be true, but from my gal friends chit chats, we conclude that men tends to have limit wan.. you do too much blowjob, his intercourse period will be shorter, you do shorter blowjob, his intercourse period would be longer

Hope these helps!

[clapton]

I suggest u just openly discuss with him, but with remember progress slowly and not to hurt him.

But I doubt if it works.. Bcz I had this problem with my wife too and we discussed openly. But end up there is small improvement but not much...

Another thing maybe when u BJ him, do DIY to helpself a bit. Then slowly borrow his hand

But remember don't BJ too long or else he will just CIM and sleep.

I know this from some of my married friend guy, quite selfish kind, like they all have BJ from wife but never BJ their wife. Some just CIM and went sleep. Me no such luck.... ask BJ from wife don't want, want BJ wife also don't want... die fish type...

[clapton]

Originally Posted by Blackenrose

Oh, and one last thing.. don't over do your blowjob on him wor..., might not be true, but from my gal friends chit chats, we conclude that men tends to have limit wan.. you do too much blowjob, his intercourse period will be shorter, you do shorter blowjob, his intercourse period would be longer

Hope these helps!

True but some of my exp.. if no BJ or not enough BJ, I will easily get soft when chg postition...

[Onzo]

Watch porn works and also wear loose and sexy will work.

[ah rat]

Sis kinderbueno1,have a nice talk with yr husband.I too have this problem on my partner After talking to her ,there is a improvement on her.

[lostlilvirg]

I'm not sure how your relationship with your hubby is, or how old you are, so I hope what i write can still be applied

Personally, if I'm not in the mood for sex (rare), as long as i'm not actually angry about something, the best way to get me back into the mood is if the girl manja manja a bit (er, te te, if you get what i mean? my pingyin not good sorry) with me, and hug and be playful.

A quick massage can also help, especially if i've been stressed out from the day, just knead the shoulders (basic moves) and kiss the neck. Maybe offer to bath together?

Good luck!

[bearbear7822]

Dear Sister Kinder, at least u still initiate sex. Most of the time is i Initiate to my wife. and She doesnt really like BJ on me. BJ sometimes only less than a minute. She doesnt like me to PHP. Looks like we are in opp scenario

[BiRd13]

Well... Is he like that before you both got married?

In a marriage or rs, it's still communication which lead to success.

Will suggest to have a talk with him. Nothing more beat than having open conversation.

[twinseeker]

women say they can't figure out what men want, men also say they can't figure out what women want... so how?

if its just a quickie, its not even called making out... its more like a hit & run.

there r plenty of articles that say that all day sexy raunchy text msgs can get the mood going for both gender. otherwise, some naughty sexting selfies can also get the game on.

but so far, there hasn't been any sexual experience more gratifying than going on a staycation or vacation. when all the daily distractions r out the window, i'm not kidding, the bunny action can literally go on for hours.

i get my vacation/ staycation lobangs via my friend... so far so good

[Oldmanliao]

Why not make him jealous ? Change your dressing? Maybe tease him?

[Falicia]

perhaps u can dress sexily and seduced him but forbid him to touch u initially and let him lust after you.

[safeskin]

Always thought its easier for woman to make the first move and guys would just follow up
As for a guy wanting to make love to a lady is hard.