Is there something going on

[white30x]

Hi bros just wanted an opinon. My wife and I have a common couple friend in their 40s and we are in our early 30s. We were close in terms of supper and a couple of overseaa trips.

Recently i notice my wife had been super bz texting and on a couple of occasions i had managed to sneak a peek and see she was texting him ~ D .... i waived it off as just chatter
But my gut feel started to get the better of me, esp one night her phone went off when she was sleeping. I saw the text from D that his wife is back and he will go dowstairs to reply her.

Din managed to get any intimate text cos she locks her phone.

Then i started realizing each time she goes to the bath or toilet her whatsapp status will be online and so will be his. Either early in the morning or late in the night.

Ive asked her whats going on between them she tells me nothing and shes not texting him wgen i show her the time stamps of her and D going online and offline almost together

Am i over suspicious or should i take it a step further by trailing. Gettimg access to her phone os impossible

[3Dragon]

You are definitely not over suspicious. You should be prepared that theres something going on.

[FatSpider]

santa elfs come with 2 hat vartieties

sadly i think yours is the green
better start getting PI

[white30x]

Its how to nail it so i don't have to keep thinking about it. She doesn't ask him to buy her anything coz all her wants comes thru me. Theres no dates coz she's bz with her own biz except for mabbe an hour on Sundays when she send the kids for classes. My car is super obvious so i cant trail her without her realizing its me ...

Sigh ... i mean im ok with paid sex but anything thay drives a r|s thats e end for me

[nitecrawllerr]

Signs written all over the wall.

[steventan85]

Someone aiming ur wife pussy and gonna dig further in with his stick..remember to check ur wife pussy frequently

[noobie77]

Bro,

How was her reaction to your accusations? What did she say? Has she been cold towards sex lately? Ask her to show phone msg and you show her yours. Don't talk about trust, what trust is there if she locks the phone from you.

Or perhaps you haven't been showing enough love and concern for her? Once become husband and wife, many take their partners for granted. Flirting then becomes an excitement. Human always like new stuff. Like the iphone. Try courting her again to reignite the flame.

In my opinion it all boils down to the end result you want. Do you love your wife and want to salvage the marriage or you want the truth and file for divorce in the event things turn sour with wifey. If there are kids involved then you should consider salvaging.

1) Sound out to your male friend of your suspicion, but do not mention your suspicion of him. Hopefully he will back off, and you show more tlc to your wife and try to make her guilty hopefully she will stop the flirt which hopefully has not turned out to be an affair. Most women are sentimental type. Like I say most. Maybe these days women are different.

2) Hire PI, show them the evidence file for divorce and give them your blessings. There are still many women out there. You are still young. Better do it before having kids.

3) She play hers you play yours... Years to come do you think you will still be making passionate love? It will just be companionship.

If I were you, and there are no kids. Find out the truth secretly, and if there is an affair file for divorce and move on. Thats just me...

[Brunt]

Tell tale signs everywhere. Be on constant look out like if she carry exceptional perfumes, new clothes or accessories or even conscious of outlook features..check on how she respond to text msgs if she carry smiles or eyes glistened

[white30x]

We ve got 3 kids and that joker has a kid too.

I dont think a PI can get anything easily coz shes really cautious over the phone.

Ive tried walking in on her when both r online and u can see she's quickly trying to delete the chat by how she pressess e screen

Yup prob true on e taking for granted part.

She prob oso knows ive been suspicious and she's been sending me screenshots of her chat with her gfs like see wanna buy this or that.

So ya i dunno which way to take this. Suck it up n try to be nice n loving or i dunno how to catch her.

[acidicavex]

Look like Both is cooking a pot of soup........

Ts bro time to be on guard.

[noobie77]

Show some appreciation, after all she bore you 3 kids. Bring her out for dinner this xmas, get her a xmas present (phone with spyware, joking). Hold hands see xmas lightings... Or do something you know she will enjoy. Tell her how much you love her and thank her for giving you 3 wonderful kids. Everyone wants to feel appreciated. Wouldn't you? Praise her for the wonderful love making session. How it gets you excited to hear her moaning. Praise her outfit. How sexy she is... Flirt with her over msg.

Talk no need $$$... Won't die right... Be it to salvage or destroy, just don't do something you will regret for the rest of your live. Think twice, thrice before doing something drastic.

Btw, how is your sex life? Do you spend enough time on foreplay?

[noobie77]

http://www.americanrhetoric.com/Movi...raveheart.html

One of my fav movie. Duty honour country. Steady bo. Just don't do something or in this case do nothing and regret in your deathbed. Do not wait till its too late. Its now or never...

Oh and don't get me wrong, I am not trying to tell you to annihilate your enemy, well at least not in the manner of the movie.

And I am not trying to tell bros here to fxxk like there is no tmr

[jazp]

bro, one question.

do you feel hurt (1) becos of your love for her or (2) becos of your ego that she may be giving you the green hat to wear?

there is certainly a mixture of (1) and (2) but if (2) is more than (1), then its hard to solve things as ego is at play. in the event if you do find some concrete evidence, the consequence will be dire.

all the best, bro.

[Grumbler]

Start getting close with the wife of other couple on the pretext of ur suspicion.

[white30x]

When we were much younger we ve been together 10yrs ya we wanna get it on anywhere n everywhere... after marriage sex was ok coz we were trying for our first ger ... basically after the 1st ger we were mainly just petting till she cums coz she doesn't like penetration much. Till we were trying for no 2 & no 3 back to same routine n then its back to petting till she cums n the occasional sex when shes into it ... i knoe its her to be low on the sex drive so i dont complain much ... just suck it up like most of e married bros here

Yup i haven't been extremely romantic coz shes bz with her biz n me with work

I wonder if its e stress or lack of sex thats getting to me