Anyone Of You Afraid Of Contracting Aids?

I went to the CDC today to visit a fren who was diagnosed with Aids,or Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome. It was such a sorry sight.

There are several blocks of wards which look like chalets,and one of them houses only HIV-positive or Aids patients.I was at that block to visit my fren.

Along the corridor of the single-storey block,I could see a couple of doors ajar,and in one of the rooms lies a female patient in her 30s I guess,staring and gazing into space,looking half-dead. At that moment,I figured out : It must be her husband who did this to her.Imagine she can no longer take care of her kids & do her housework,or send her kids to school.How tragic!

Then I came to a 4-bedded ward,in it were my fren and two other male patients. The 2 men look 2b in their 40s and were so emaciated you thought they came from a refugee camp in Ethiopia!! Oh my,the thought of this deadly virus slowly devouring these patients really churned my stomach, and for once I was stunned into thinking : will I end up like them one day?

I think each & everyone of us in this forum should always be warned that this virus can hit anyone - me,you,anyone who has an active commercial sex life. So dun ever think it'll never happen to you,coz it's the most fearsome timebomb we've implanted in ourselves,and the bomb could set off when you least expect it.

Hope this is a useful reminder to all,me included.

[CumKing]

Originally posted by b00byTraP
I went to the CDC today to visit a fren who was diagnosed with Aids,or Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome. It was such a sorry sight.

There are several blocks of wards which look like chalets,and one of them houses only HIV-positive or Aids patients.I was at that block to visit my fren.

Along the corridor of the single-storey block,I could see a couple of doors ajar,and in one of the rooms lies a female patient in her 30s I guess,staring and gazing into space,looking half-dead. At that moment,I figured out : It must be her husband who did this to her.Imagine she can no longer take care of her kids & do her housework,or send her kids to school.How tragic!

Then I came to a 4-bedded ward,in it were my fren and two other male patients. The 2 men look 2b in their 40s and were so emaciated you thought they came from a refugee camp in Ethiopia!! Oh my,the thought of this deadly virus slowly devouring these patients really churned my stomach, and for once I was stunned into thinking : will I end up like them one day?

I think each & everyone of us in this forum should always be warned that this virus can hit anyone - me,you,anyone who has an active commercial sex life. So dun ever think it'll never happen to you,coz it's the most fearsome timebomb we've implanted in ourselves,and the bomb could set off when you least expect it.

Hope this is a useful reminder to all,me included.

Yes a timely reminder.

Especially when we are SO tempted to throw caution to the wind when we r with our so called tiraks and go raw, better think again.

There is NO defusion for this bomb!!

Sheathed,

CK

So sorry to hear that. How is your fren doing?

When for a checkup recently, no words can describle all thoses mins of waiting for the result....


I've decided to end my days at Geylang and HCs before is too late.

One moment is all it takes.....so pls be careful

[wildehavanas]

You know how many people in this world have cancer and other kind of deadly illness.
It’s you this kind of people makes those Aids victims into someone scary disease that the society ignore.
Who knows you maybe have cancer or some stupid disease that know one heard off.
Come on Aids is one of many killer disease of our generation, dun make those victims worst by making it sound so pathetic.
We have only 1 time to live if you scare of this scare of that then might as well die.
All healthy normal human may it be male of female needs sex.
Just take the necessary precaution.
Dun go stereotype HIV and Aids victims and make them so shameful.
Guess what maybe tomorrow some stupid terrorist release some germs into our island and everyone dies.
Its education and awareness about the HIV, Aids and safe sex and live our life.

[MitMit]

I always welcome such postings. With so many juicy FRs all over this forum, we need some truth to take us back to earth....as long it does not has a hidden agendar.
To someone who starting to cheong, this will serve as an warning.....it can happen to anyone even with caps, so leave it if you cannot take the risk. Looking for a girlfriend instead.
To season cheongsters, play safe, know your risk....you wont know till it is years later. Never accept raw....
Mit17

[JaguarLuv]

Thank you bro bobbytrap. Timely reminder indeed. Once again, I am brought back from lust heaven down to homely earth.

[SigmaPhi406]

To all Bro and Sis.... ehh if there's any sis here.

This social issues will never end. Period! We hv to be more possitive towards all thought. We r all entitle to our opinion, but douch take it out-of context! Say, what can we learn from this & that and what I can or will do next.

Remember this: Prevention rather than curing!

Cheers

[The_Hustler]

This may be corny but just my views:

The elements, aiding and harming each other. The Ying & Yang, balancing good & evil... all symmetries of life.

In failure...there's success. In marriages...there's divorces. In friends...there's enemies. In happiness...there's sadness...the list goes on.

With reference to sex, dear bros who are reading this...always remember to be level headed when engaging commercial sex or even with strangers, there's no certainty in AIDS free assurance. Call it a punishment from the Gods upon humans, be responsive to this call for safe sex.

I always think sex at these circumstances without a cap is as good as Russian roulette, first round of firing...safe...but ultimately, u will meet the bullet... by then, it's too late.

Be thankful there's an abundance of sex choices that we have, but be mindful of the circumstances that we may face.

Just like driving, who the hell likes to be strapped by the safety belt? So who the hell likes condom?

Believe in having a colorful mind, even when bonking with the cap, it's all up in your brains, how u percieve and imagine is the essence to an enjoying sex session.

Cavendo Tutus
The Hustler

[HorseD77]

The journey of one's life from birth to death is all about taking risk ... but it is those who choose to take calculated risks that would eventually truimph against those who choose not to.

By engaging in commerical sex, we cheongsters are taking a risk ... and is is those who choose to put on a CONDOM and not engaging in RAW sex, however tempting this is, that is taking a calculated risk!

We owe it not to ourselves, but also the working gals, our loved ones and family members to engage in SAFE sex!

Timely reminder indeed....I join all other brothers in applauding your efforts.

It has been said that sometimes the most troubling circumstances or problem can be overcome by the simplest of solutions.

To put it plainly, if you dont want to contract AIDS, you have a few choices:

1) Stay a virgin (I doubt many brothers fall in the cat.)
2)Dun fuck ANYBODY raw.
3)Dun fuck hookers RAW.
4) Dun fuck hookers PERIOD.

To me, its about just how paranoid you are in the end. I leave readers to draw their own conclusions lah.

[ParaParaSakura]

my contribution....also the motto I live by.......You can escape 1000 times, but the one time you fail to escape...you're DEAD!

[justl00king]

live life to the fullest but of course dont try to be a hero.

What a timely reminder for all!

I myself can verify the trauma and experience that i had which most ppl here could understand.

Recently, I have musher up enough courage to go for a HIV test, as i have been putting it off for a long time and really felt its' time to go for one having cheonging for a number of years like most ppl here.

So, off i went to kelantan lane clinic for the anonymous testing. Its a really simple procedure unlike what i had thought, just pay $20/- at a make-shift table there and they would issue a number ticket along with a questionair which they require me to fill up asking mainly abt the reason why i take the test. Its' in multiple choice, so i just tick the relevant. Chose a seat and waited for the number to be called to enter the testing room. I thought i would be feeling pai-seh here, but the environment there is quiet and nobody gives me a strange look as the staff are nice and the patient are all in the same boat. But my mind was actually quite tense as the ultimate test of my life is finally here. Many thoughts race thru my mind, what if i turn positive? My future would be over, how to tell my families?, how embarassing to all? how painful?

When my number was called, i entered the room, a consellor asked me why i came here, looking very tense, i really had no mood to answer him, but just carry on. He continued to assess my background asking some relavant questions like my sex history, do i use condom, how many times had i done, do i had sex with woman only.. etc.
After assesing my history, he concluded by saying that my risk is rather low, that was really heartening and reassuring. Maybe he was trying to calm me down, i thought.
Next comes the test, he proceed to prick my little finger with a needle and collect the blood sample. I was then told to wait outside for 20 mins as the results need time to conclude.
This is the worst time, as the waiting and trauma could kill me off. Many thoughts went thru' my mind as before, i could even feel that i am cold sweating, i even thought of running away.
Then, the ultimate finale came, i was called in for the results.

U are tested negative! i was told. How glad i am! The feeling is relief. Like a ton of rocks being removed from my shoulder.

Although i am tested negative, but the stress and trauma i went thru prior to the test and the courage it took me just to go for the test is traumatic. This experience and lesson learnt will remain in my mind forever and the worst part is i could never tell anyone, it would remain within me forever.
Thus, i have decided to quit all my 'immoral' activities from now on. I will retire from all vices, no more cheonging for me as i prepare for my next stage of life.

Originally posted by nickkwan

To put it plainly, if you dont want to contract AIDS, you have a few choices:

1) Stay a virgin (I doubt many brothers fall in the cat.)
2)Dun fuck ANYBODY raw.
3)Dun fuck hookers RAW.
4) Dun fuck hookers PERIOD.

The only fool-proof solution is :

stick to your spouse or steady girlfren,and make sure they're faithful to you too!! This is the BEST prevention,nothing else.

Do you know u still can get Aids,albeit less likely but not unlikely, even if u use a rubber on a hooker? Do u ever read the info on a condom pack? i'll leave it to you to digest the true meaning of the info.

Originally posted by HorseD77
The journey of one's life from birth to death is all about taking risk ... but it is those who choose to take calculated risks that would eventually truimph against those who choose not to.

By engaging in commerical sex, we cheongsters are taking a risk ... and is is those who choose to put on a CONDOM and not engaging in RAW sex, however tempting this is, that is taking a calculated risk!

We owe it not to ourselves, but also the working gals, our loved ones and family members to engage in SAFE sex!

put condom also no use if the condom breaks wah lau u can pray god liao.