For dear brothers out there who find themselves lousy!!!

jerlin · #1 10-11-2006, 11:58 PM

Dear brothers,

i happen to come across some of my guy friends who have low confident abt themselves. But seems like after i show them this sickening chap...s**** l**...(those who like to go down town can sure recognise him) their confident level increases.

I apologise if i m gonna make some brothers here puke but do check out his website....

www.stevenlim.net i would advise u to see his friendster......
[email protected] if i got it right!

beingunknown200 · #2 11-11-2006, 12:18 AM

its strange that guys would want to benchmark themselves to this S guy. I mean, he is "good" in his own way but I am sure your guy friends have their own strengths as well, just need re-assurance (haha just like girls with their "am I fat" trick questions). I dunno, I always feel that if you aim high for yourself, you will reach to a better self, but that's just me. Anyway, I oso have friends like your friends, who are not confident and always say that they cannot attract girls (then they will suan me cos I have a lot of gal friends) haha

big dick · #3 11-11-2006, 02:24 AM

to me what important is that i am happy with my life.. no need to benchmark myself against others.. i dun have a degree, no condo, no car and my look suck.. BUT I AM STILL HAPPY... cos i dun compare myself with other.. jus live your life with a clear conscience.. dun cheat or bluff ppl esp female of their life or money or sex... live with a light heart.. that how i make myself happy..

bd

Garage1 · #4 11-11-2006, 02:36 AM

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Originally Posted by big dick

to me what important is that i am happy with my life.. no need to benchmark myself against others.. i dun have a degree, no condo, no car and my look suck.. BUT I AM STILL HAPPY... cos i dun compare myself with other.. jus live your life with a clear conscience.. dun cheat or bluff ppl esp female of their life or money or sex... live with a light heart.. that how i make myself happy..

bd

WELL SAID!

#5 11-11-2006, 03:29 AM

I m very impressed by his strong self-confidence this Steven LIm guy have...amazing!

jerlin · #6 12-11-2006, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by mummy11

I m very impressed by his strong self-confidence this Steven LIm guy have...amazing!

well bro....i do agree that his confidence are really strong but too much of it make it irritating.
did u c his friendster....."who do u wanna meet"--->his answer: nice sugar mummy to sponsor $100k to cut an album.
Faint!

jerlin · #7 12-11-2006, 08:28 AM

oops i missed out something....all bros i do agree wif u......here...

curiosityz · #8 12-11-2006, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by jerlin

well bro....i do agree that his confidence are really strong but too much of it make it irritating.
did u c his friendster....."who do u wanna meet"--->his answer: nice sugar mummy to sponsor $100k to cut an album.
Faint!

wtf!!! didn't know he wrote that in his friendster...

Shuang_Jie_Gun · #9 12-11-2006, 09:38 AM

Confidence to a certain extend is gd but overdosage of that may hv the reverse effect.u will tend to be arrogant.for me,i dont believe in comparing as i knw there is no need to comparing.u r what u r so live with it and be absolutely grateful abt it.

wind · #10 12-11-2006, 09:58 AM

This guy is really crazy, I no eyes to see

xianzation · #11 12-11-2006, 11:22 AM

Steven lim is hell of a crazy guy.
Either he is over-confident of himself or he got super thick skin.
Anyway it takes guts to do what he is doing as well so we gotta ''approve'' him in certain ways.
At least he is still way better than those other guys who cheat girls of their body/money.

bombersg · #12 12-11-2006, 12:11 PM

Well some guy's skin is just really thick hahahaha

Johnston · #13 12-11-2006, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by jerlin

Dear brothers,

i happen to come across some of my guy friends who have low confident abt themselves. But seems like after i show them this sickening chap...s**** l**...(those who like to go down town can sure recognise him) their confident level increases.

i prefer to always keep this in mind.

It Is only when things are being compared that distinctions of more or less and all the other variations come into being.

Or the simpler version, there's always a mountain higher.

Shuang_Jie_Gun · #14 12-11-2006, 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnston

i prefer to always keep this in mind.

It Is only when things are being compared that distinctions of more or less and all the other variations come into being.

Or the simpler version, there's always a mountain higher.

lolz bro,ur 1st statement too profound for me to comprehend,2nd on much easier."yi shan hai you yi shan gao"

Johnston · #15 12-11-2006, 01:24 PM

Actually very simple.

for example, our definition of Big boob is C cup and above.
But for ang moh, C cup to them is like BORING.

And our singapore chiobu is the average japanese girl.
japanese chiobu is our superstar.

and so on.

So if you really want to compare big, small, or whatever, there is no end.