Long-time single average guy

[baybrayan]

Hi ladies and fellow samsters.. pls dun zap me..

Im looking for female friends for companionship, movie dates, makan session, karaoke etc.. whatever happens after will be a bonus to me..

About me
34
Lookable and slightly meaty build, 1.66m
Single for awhile. Not rushing. Fate will lead us there someday
Loves sport, soccer and diving basically..
Loves singing in a KTV Pub too.. hence up for a few small drinks.
ride a bike, so ladies who are keen for a spin, especially tis time of the year under the rain, you got me.
Jovial, joker when ice is broken..

Reason for this?
Wanna widen my social circle and who knows what it might lead to..

You?
Age: 22-34
Height: <1.70m


You can pm me..

[Cuntworth]

Got pic to show???

[larue]

Why are you talking yourself down???

Talk yourself up!! What’s good about you? What are your good qualities?

Lose the negativity! The way you look for a date, sounds like you don’t really think you will succeed, or care. Who wants to go out with someone like that?

[Siriusam]

Originally Posted by larue

Why are you talking yourself down???

Talk yourself up!! What’s good about you? What are your good qualities?

Lose the negativity! The way you look for a date, sounds like you don’t really think you will succeed, or care. Who wants to go out with someone like that?

quoted for truth. no wonder u still single..

[unsung80]

Bro u dun need to own a ride to get woman at all. Am afraid even if you found a companionship you won't be happy still. How about your own strength to share with the ladies here? Who knows a nice sis here will be interested.

[baybrayan]

Thanks all for the guidance.. well.. im typically low on self-esteem.. i wont show it out:: but well.. i edited..

Thanks!

[baybrayan]

Anybodieessssss

[larue]

I only noticed your bike spiel, that one is good. If you’re passionate about your bike, don’t hesitate to show it. Talk about what you’re passionate about.

Don’t describe yourself as average looking, you are pleasant looking. Average looking is very easily pleasant looking. Just make sure you put some effort in before going. Dressing well can almost compensate for being fugly. Like how a magician distracts the audience with mini explosions and what not while the assistant is climbing out of the box or something. Almost being the operative word lol.

Don’t just give facts. Nobody cares that most of your friends are married or busy with their own lives. It’s the same for most people which is sad, cos it simply means we aren’t priorities to these friends.

Assuming you have actually made an effort to reach out to them, rather than simply saying they’re busy cos you just can’t be bothered either to try and reach out to them.

I digress. No need to state stable job. If they find you interesting enough, they will find out from you eventually whether or not you have a stable job,if it matters to them, and it probably will.

The first thing is to be interesting to them. Always remember that life is already mundane as it is for almost everyone, and if that’s all you’re offering again, why would women even give you the time of day?

Your self esteem doesn’t need to be low. For many people it is low because you are always only looking at the things you aren’t good, or good enough at. Look at the things that you are.

[baybrayan]

Originally Posted by larue

I only noticed your bike spiel, that one is good. If you’re passionate about your bike, don’t hesitate to show it. Talk about what you’re passionate about.

Don’t describe yourself as average looking, you are pleasant looking. Average looking is very easily pleasant looking. Just make sure you put some effort in before going. Dressing well can almost compensate for being fugly. Like how a magician distracts the audience with mini explosions and what not while the assistant is climbing out of the box or something. Almost being the operative word lol.

Don’t just give facts. Nobody cares that most of your friends are married or busy with their own lives. It’s the same for most people which is sad, cos it simply means we aren’t priorities to these friends.

Assuming you have actually made an effort to reach out to them, rather than simply saying they’re busy cos you just can’t be bothered either to try and reach out to them.

I digress. No need to state stable job. If they find you interesting enough, they will find out from you eventually whether or not you have a stable job,if it matters to them, and it probably will.

The first thing is to be interesting to them. Always remember that life is already mundane as it is for almost everyone, and if that’s all you’re offering again, why would women even give you the time of day?

Your self esteem doesn’t need to be low. For many people it is low because you are always only looking at the things you aren’t good, or good enough at. Look at the things that you are.

Thanks alot for the encouragement! Will read theu again n improve from there.. i doubt i can change the header already or can i? You are right.. no one knows me, i could be another me, not meaning to lie, but to boost my confidence here.. and slowly lead to real life..

Thanks a load!