Why Do Guys Need A Mistress /Sugarbabe

[Wulin]

HI, Why do guys need a sugarbabe or little 3 or mistress, whatever u name it, it is pretty much the same.

I am speaking from my own experience.
During my grown up, I would never thought that I would fall into this, my family gene is decent family, well educated, all my siblings are degree holders (it might not seem anything nowadays, but during my time, a poly diploma was very respected, not to mention degree where it is probably 1 in 500 or 1000 got a degree, compare to now probably 1 in 20 was a diploma or degree). I always thought that I would be a good husband and responsible family man. I did not understand why a man would risk a chaos in the family for that excitement that last in less than 30min. But now I am deep into this.

The main reason why and most of the guys out there keep a sugarbabe is not purely for fucking. Yes, I fuck her, again and again. My special requirement is no condom, thought it took me some effort and quite long time to convince her. But I do that? will explain later.

The reason that I need a sugarbabe to do the normal couple things that I did not manage to do with my wife. Due to some hardship in life and circumstances, the love affair with my wife is gone long time ago. I could not sweet talk her anymore, she doesn't appreciate it anymore. My jokes are not funny to her anymore. before I finished the sentences, she already gave me the look that "please, do not continue, so that I do not need to pretend it is funny". Our conversation is about kids, what they did etc, they had grown up anyway.

But to a man, we also need romance. We also need some date, we need a girl to sweet talk to, we need a girl to appreciate us. But we are too old to pursue any sweet girl in real life. So we turn to sugarbabe, if we cant get a genuine one, we pay someone who would fake it together with us.

What we do with girl is just like what u do with your gf now. movie and dinner dates, shopping, cooking and every little moment counts, and make love is part of it. I really fall deep into it and I was young again. I have all the fantasy that I did not mange to do with my then gf, and my wife, i do it now. it is more like a therapy to me. And i never use condom with my then gf or wife, so requested her to allow me fuck her without condom, so that there is one thing less to remind me that is not real love. but of course I need to make sure that I am clean from STD and also i did not visit brothel and I make love with her and only her. This girl has left me few months ago, and seriously, I am a little depress now.

We can't just go to brothel for a fuck, that is for younger man to release their stress, what we need is a girl that fill the gap of our pass, that make us young again.

[loneyheart]

How old r u bro ?

[Pictionary]

It will be a very high possibility TS will get fallen into the love trap and get scammed one way or another.

Greedy and lazy girls like to target these serious and disillusional ppl.

Waste time okay, but waste money later on?

But up to TS and wrong thread.

[Wulin]

close to 50, bro

[Wulin]

Originally Posted by Pictionary

It will be a very high possibility TS will get fallen into the love trap and get scammed one way or another.

Greedy and lazy girls like to target these serious and disillusional ppl.

Waste time okay, but waste money later on?

But up to TS and wrong thread.

there is such high possibility, but as long as don't be too naive to believe that this is true love. enjoy each others accompany but at time of critical, save yourself.
BTW i do not think this is a scam, it is a trade.
at the moment, i am the one who needs her more than she needs me.

[Pictionary]

Then u ask for vietnam sugarbabes. Different league. U think u are smart, but got babes more smarter than u.

They can use their grandfather grandmother medical conditions to outsmart u. Then u know what is the common medical illness the old ppl are facing now? And expenditure wise?

Then got others. There is some ways of bluffing, it can be very deep underlying issues. The problem is how to uncover when u dun even go to hospital at all?

Then the grandfather grandmother hardships? This one can forget it. More easier to bluff.

Anyway, can a more better, qualified and neutral person answer this? This is an absolute waste of time communicating further.

[3Dragon]

Originally Posted by Wulin

What we do with girl is just like what u do with your gf now. movie and dinner dates, shopping, cooking and every little moment counts, and make love is part of it. I really fall deep into it and I was young again. I have all the fantasy that I did not mange to do with my then gf, and my wife, i do it now.

Fantasy fucking, YES. Other than that, I just wanna FUCK. No movies, no dates nothing. In sg, we just meet to FUCK. If wanna do couple stuff, I will take her overseas. Having said that, very very few sugar babes I have had meet with my standard n desire to wanna do couple stuff with them. Will not risk my marriage n social staus by gg for movies etc in Sg.

[ventusautumn]

No longer felt appreciate.
No longer felt connected and the distance make u feel very alone.
Feeling very tired of the daily life of going through it all just to get through it.
No more excitement.
No more urge of touches, u avoid it infact
Sweet words sound so awkward that it is wrong
No more true hearted gift
No more true act of service.
No more longer for each other, things are the way it is because changes take too much effort.
No longer looking up to each other with respect regarding something.

Of course there can be other factor like
Ego,
Just playful
Wanna try something different because you are bored


Is it there is no more love, that your heart is lonely

Or you still love her but bored?

If there is still love, take the first step, make changes, fix it. U can still go find your sb if you want, but try to find back the love and happiness u get being with each other,

If no, then ...

[Wulin]

Originally Posted by Pictionary

Then u ask for vietnam sugarbabes. Different league. U think u are smart, but got babes more smarter than u.

They can use their grandfather grandmother medical conditions to outsmart u. Then u know what is the common medical illness the old ppl are facing now? And expenditure wise?

Then got others. There is some ways of bluffing, it can be very deep underlying issues. The problem is how to uncover when u dun even go to hospital at all?

Then the grandfather grandmother hardships? This one can forget it. More easier to bluff.

Anyway, can a more better, qualified and neutral person answer this? This is an absolute waste of time communicating further.

Bro, I am not smart la. But I am smart enough to know that they are aftering money only. of course they will use plenty excuses to get money from you, if u are ok with it, u just give, dont need to care it is real or fake (99% is fake, take it) if u are not happy, just tell them, no.
if it is your ego problem to reject them, doesn't look "cool" enough in front of them, then it is your own problem, do not blame it on the girls. I saw many cases like that, the girl dont even bother to polish the lies, and the guy just give, knowingly that was a lie, then I conclude that was the guy's ego problem.

[sequence79]

Originally Posted by Wulin

HI, Why do guys need a sugarbabe or little 3 or mistress, whatever u name it, it is pretty much the same.

I am speaking from my own experience.
During my grown up, I would never thought that I would fall into this, my family gene is decent family, well educated, all my siblings are degree holders (it might not seem anything nowadays, but during my time, a poly diploma was very respected, not to mention degree where it is probably 1 in 500 or 1000 got a degree, compare to now probably 1 in 20 was a diploma or degree). I always thought that I would be a good husband and responsible family man. I did not understand why a man would risk a chaos in the family for that excitement that last in less than 30min. But now I am deep into this.

The main reason why and most of the guys out there keep a sugarbabe is not purely for fucking. Yes, I fuck her, again and again. My special requirement is no condom, thought it took me some effort and quite long time to convince her. But I do that? will explain later.

The reason that I need a sugarbabe to do the normal couple things that I did not manage to do with my wife. Due to some hardship in life and circumstances, the love affair with my wife is gone long time ago. I could not sweet talk her anymore, she doesn't appreciate it anymore. My jokes are not funny to her anymore. before I finished the sentences, she already gave me the look that "please, do not continue, so that I do not need to pretend it is funny". Our conversation is about kids, what they did etc, they had grown up anyway.

But to a man, we also need romance. We also need some date, we need a girl to sweet talk to, we need a girl to appreciate us. But we are too old to pursue any sweet girl in real life. So we turn to sugarbabe, if we cant get a genuine one, we pay someone who would fake it together with us.

What we do with girl is just like what u do with your gf now. movie and dinner dates, shopping, cooking and every little moment counts, and make love is part of it. I really fall deep into it and I was young again. I have all the fantasy that I did not mange to do with my then gf, and my wife, i do it now. it is more like a therapy to me. And i never use condom with my then gf or wife, so requested her to allow me fuck her without condom, so that there is one thing less to remind me that is not real love. but of course I need to make sure that I am clean from STD and also i did not visit brothel and I make love with her and only her. This girl has left me few months ago, and seriously, I am a little depress now.

We can't just go to brothel for a fuck, that is for younger man to release their stress, what we need is a girl that fill the gap of our pass, that make us young again.

Well said bro. U explained it very well. and i agree with you. 👍👍👍

[larue]

Originally Posted by Wulin

HI, Why do guys need a sugarbabe or little 3 or mistress, whatever u name it, it is pretty much the same.

I am speaking from my own experience.
During my grown up, I would never thought that I would fall into this, my family gene is decent family, well educated, all my siblings are degree holders (it might not seem anything nowadays, but during my time, a poly diploma was very respected, not to mention degree where it is probably 1 in 500 or 1000 got a degree, compare to now probably 1 in 20 was a diploma or degree). I always thought that I would be a good husband and responsible family man. I did not understand why a man would risk a chaos in the family for that excitement that last in less than 30min. But now I am deep into this.

The main reason why and most of the guys out there keep a sugarbabe is not purely for fucking. Yes, I fuck her, again and again. My special requirement is no condom, thought it took me some effort and quite long time to convince her. But I do that? will explain later.

The reason that I need a sugarbabe to do the normal couple things that I did not manage to do with my wife. Due to some hardship in life and circumstances, the love affair with my wife is gone long time ago. I could not sweet talk her anymore, she doesn't appreciate it anymore. My jokes are not funny to her anymore. before I finished the sentences, she already gave me the look that "please, do not continue, so that I do not need to pretend it is funny". Our conversation is about kids, what they did etc, they had grown up anyway.

But to a man, we also need romance. We also need some date, we need a girl to sweet talk to, we need a girl to appreciate us. But we are too old to pursue any sweet girl in real life. So we turn to sugarbabe, if we cant get a genuine one, we pay someone who would fake it together with us.

What we do with girl is just like what u do with your gf now. movie and dinner dates, shopping, cooking and every little moment counts, and make love is part of it. I really fall deep into it and I was young again. I have all the fantasy that I did not mange to do with my then gf, and my wife, i do it now. it is more like a therapy to me. And i never use condom with my then gf or wife, so requested her to allow me fuck her without condom, so that there is one thing less to remind me that is not real love. but of course I need to make sure that I am clean from STD and also i did not visit brothel and I make love with her and only her. This girl has left me few months ago, and seriously, I am a little depress now.

We can't just go to brothel for a fuck, that is for younger man to release their stress, what we need is a girl that fill the gap of our pass, that make us young again.

You can’t get a woman to let you fuck her without paying her money? Call it what it is.

[hock19]

Originally Posted by larue

You can’t get a woman to let you fuck her without paying her money? Call it what it is.

Very simple. You need them for whatever reasons, romance, loss love, intimacy etc. The China gal(if form China) is here to earn a living. If both gets what they want, then both are happy and they live happily ever after.!! The exchange of money need not be given at the end of every f***!!

Even if you are married, you will still give your wife money for expenses etc. anyway.