possible to make virgin cum/orgasm but...

[xxxcliffxxx]

... but without breaking her virginity? Is it possible?

It is about my current gf. She is a very good girl, and I think I am fortunate to be with her. We pet, we kiss. She is very decent girl and I can feel that when she blowed me the 1st time. She did not want sex though, only on our wedding night. I am glad that she is willing to do almost anything with me, heavy pet, licking, bj, except for sex.

However, I feel bad that, almost eveytime I finger or lick her, I was not able to make her cum. N I am afraid that I may break her virginity if I go in too much. So I am wondering, is it possible to do that but without breaking it?

I am with her for just more than 3 months...

[SammyHulk]

Bro, as long as she had no penetration sex, she's still considered a virgin. Virginity does not mean hymen still intact cos ter r ways a hymen can b teared such as riding a bicycle.

Since u oni noe her 3 mths, definitely got time to explore further n find out wat makes her tick, which part of her is more sensitive to touch or enjoy e most, not necessary fingering, clitoris stimulation, painting might oso help.

Masturbation is one great way to find out 4 oneself which part of e body one like being touch n got stimulated e most. If ur gf is into it, sure is lot more ez to obtain feedbacks n improve ur techniques in pleasing her. Hope helps a bit n cheers.

[N E R O]

Bro TS, I dont think you should feel bad if no sex and she dont cum. Alot of gers dont cum even if they have penetration anyway ...

And congrats to you for finding a GEM ...

[yang punk]

TS... noticed you've been here a long time... can't believe you still need to ask such a question ... unless you are underaged?

[Xgenre]

Er, how did u accumulate 129 points and 7 rep power in a sex forum with your knowledge ah? By now, you are a super senior samster... I'm not being sarcastic ah, just very shocked. By the way, are u a virgin too? If you aren't a virgin, I really respect that you can tahan and not take away her virginity in the heat of petting etc.

I suggest something ok? There are 2 ways of petting a girl to orgasm. You can finger her G-spot which is INSIDE her vagina. I guess you won't do that lar, since u want to protect the hymen. The 2nd method is to finger her clitoris. The clitoris is at a round knob like feature at the top of her vagina. If you rub this area, she will cum without u needing to put a finger inside her vagina.

If you still dunno what i mean, simple. Go google 'clitoris' or 'G-spot'. Personally, I will lick her clitoris instead of fingering her there. It's gentler and i think it's more shiok for her. Clear enough? Otherwise, pm me lar any questions you have.

Don't worry ah, i'm not a pervert trying to volunteer to show u how it's being done on your gf. If you still want to learn and dun wish to look stupid in front of her, I recommend you engage the services of a freelance. Don't need to make love. You pay the freelance to teach u how to masterbate a girl lar. Don't anyhow lick a freelance's vagina though.

[alphalaw]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Er, how did u accumulate 129 points and 7 rep power in a sex forum with your knowledge ah? By now, you are a super senior samster... I'm not being sarcastic ah, just very shocked. By the way, are u a virgin too?

No lah, rep power dun really meant sex power. Rep power 0 also can mean super cheongster.


And grats, finding a gem.

a man's meat can be another man's poison (i dunno why i typed that) and a hymen can break with much activities... Why mind that piece of meat?

Catholic? Oh well... enjoy.


with respect,
Alp.
ps: We are a virgin everyday. ^^

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by alphalaw

ps: We are a virgin everyday. ^^

That is until we go to work and kenna fucked by the boss everyday right? Or to wake up in the morning and get fucked by the OC for no apparent reason.

[AT-AT Walker]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

That is until we go to work and kenna fucked by the boss everyday right? Or to wake up in the morning and get fucked by the OC for no apparent reason.

Ouch! The painful truth... Nice one bro.

[tenggiri]

Originally Posted by xxxcliffxxx

However, I feel bad that, almost eveytime I finger or lick her, I was not able to make her cum. N I am afraid that I may break her virginity if I go in too much. So I am wondering, is it possible to do that but without breaking it?

K bro you sound like a decent guy if what you r telling us is truth. No matter yr sbf status - so i agree with most bros here about clitoris stimulation and also nipples suck lick if i may add, to achieve orgasm for yr girl. No need to penetrate.

But i strongly suggest yu give her a good cunnilingus with more focus on the clit while squeeze her breasts and twitch the Sundrop raisins.

But wait!If you succeed with the above; She will surely wanna you to screw her there and then cos she cannot tahan. Her below will be aching. So this part i leave it up to you. Cheers.

[pippo]

Hey bro, I understand how u feel. Me no sex also...haha. However, communication is important. Already 3 mths, I think you can be cheeky and direct with her, ask her if she likes to have a toy along. She say not sure, you go and buy a small vib and try on her. This will make cumming easier if both of you are on the same wavelength.

If she is the shy type, then listen to her moans during your normal make out. Must multi task bro, every part of your body must work, tongue and both hands i mean. If moaning gets louder, do not get excited, make sure your movements are constant and let her build up the feeling. Be focused and raring to please, don't lazy juz want her to make u cum only.

Lastly, assure you are not gonna f*** her, she trust you, she will cum without any stress, coz she knows if she loses control, you will not f*** her right there and then.

Ok bro sharing my experience, as many people said, guys feel the same no matter how they cum, but women, they savour every single orgasm.

[colins]

only 3 months, still long way to go before you 'know' how to make her cum. I always believe that these type of thing really depends on how you are familiar with her and her body, cos no 2 girls are alike, esp if you want to know such intimate body response, maybe even she herself is not aware of.

Just do it a few more times, use multiple stimulation on clits and nips at the same times, increase your tempo and she will cum. But my experience is, if the girl can cum without penetration, after cumming, she'll really want your dick in her. So you got to brace for that.

[uncensored]

you are quite a old bird here...
this questions sound like coming from a young boy....

if you are 17yo, and u actually come from 6 years ago, u are only 11yo when you first join this forum!!!

[mini_morris]

Originally Posted by colins

only 3 months, still long way to go before you 'know' how to make her cum. I always believe that these type of thing really depends on how you are familiar with her and her body, cos no 2 girls are alike, esp if you want to know such intimate body response, maybe even she herself is not aware of.

Just do it a few more times, use multiple stimulation on clits and nips at the same times, increase your tempo and she will cum. But my experience is, if the girl can cum without penetration, after cumming, she'll really want your dick in her. So you got to brace for that.

i agree with you "no girls are a like!
some girls like lick can cum many time, but some dun even can feel

[lsly]

With all the heavy petting and all, am sure the virginity going to be gone soon anyway ...

[xxxcliffxxx]

thx for all the replies.

Im not a cheongster, nor I fxxx often. I registered here long long time ago, and I enjoy this forum a lots. this 2 years, I will get FL numbers from brothers here and visit. If you notice, the FR I posted are not a lots also, coz I seldom visit as well, and I try not to do so when I am attached. As for my points and power, I did share quite a bit of those stuff that I found on net.

I shall try out what you guys suggested...