what if u caught your wife

bonkers69 · #1 02-08-2008, 10:22 AM

we have seen lots of thread like relation with colleague's wife , neighbour's wife , good friend's wife ,etc .
What if u caught your wife having affair . How you gonna handle ?

I caught my wife and she admitted . She still deny no sex between them but is no longer imporant as it will end up on bed sooner or later.

I beat her up the moment she admitted , ending up warded to TTSH.
what should i do now?? i' confuse as i love my kids and i don't want them to leave without parents apart!

Now to the guy part.....knn !!! dun know whether you will be reading this thread or not . He admitted to me on the phone and i'm yet to meet u with him next few days.

How you gonna handle him ? beat him up ? seek compensate ? He will responsible for everything . That for sure as i know her wife number ? office nmber ? He has good carrer which i don't think he wants me to make trouble at his office.
I will not beat him up to punish him unless i cut off his little bro......cb!! exterer pain will recover after some time.

so bros here , how to handle this guy if you are in my position. I know lots bros here screw up ppl's wife but too bad , he was caught !......you can fuck anyone's wife but don't get caught.

lacoruna69 · #2 02-08-2008, 10:26 AM

Can someone please call the Police..........and IMH also.

Bigone65 · #3 02-08-2008, 10:31 AM

In your case, there is pretty nothing much you can do except seek for compensation. You can also bring it to his family's attention but as for their reaction, well it will depend on how close are their ties. Beating him up is definately not a solution as this can put you in a very disadvantage position. Dun let your heart rule your brain. Think it over very carefully before you act. Just my 2 cts.

ahben · #4 02-08-2008, 10:42 AM

Firstly now u have beaten up your wife and ended up in TTSH, do you think you want to beat the man up to be stacked with another police charged? Before you beat the man up, please re-consider for your children, things could be turned around.

imo I think just go and tell his wife about it.

benben888 · #5 02-08-2008, 10:45 AM

Agreed with bro Bigone65, but as a guy or as a husband it really hurt very much as such thing have happened. I will definately wack up that guy if met him in person even though I know I should not be doing it. My advise is to bring a friend along who is calm and able to control such situation if really happen. Please take care.

newbadass · #6 02-08-2008, 10:47 AM

No more violence, please. Beating up your wife was already a bad move and reflects badly on you. Of course, this is no excuse for a wife to cheat.

You can fuck up his career and reputation, that's worse than beating him up. You beat him up, he gets public sympathy. A punch in the face is reasonable, but please don't injure him seriously.

MikeInTheHole · #7 02-08-2008, 10:50 AM

Lets' be reasonable. You cannot control your wife, why beat up the opposite party. After all, the wife is yours. You did not fark and satisfy her on bed as well as her emotion, and you wanna blame the opposite party. Come, come. . . if you did your husband duties well, your wife will not resort to seek others attention. Look what happened, you even beat up your wife so badly that she is awarded in Hospital. Guess, you don't deserve to be married. What you need is to set her free and be single again. Being a husband is a responable duty for life.

cunt_eater · #8 02-08-2008, 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by MikeInTheHole

Lets' be reasonable. You cannot control your wife, why beat up the opposite party. After all, the wife is yours. You did not fark and satisfy her on bed as well as her emotion, and you wanna blame the opposite party. Come, come. . . if you did your husband duties well, your wife will not resort to seek others attention. Look what happened, you even beat up your wife so badly that she is awarded in Hospital. Guess, you don't deserve to be married. What you need is to set her free and be single again. Being a husband is a responable duty for life.

Doesn't mean can control the wife things will not happen. Communication or understanding of each other is also important issues here. Sometimes it take 2 hands to clap and both parties need to really sit down and trash out the whole thing as this involve the kids as well. Go meet up the guy and see what he have to say but need to control your yourself.

john99 · #9 02-08-2008, 11:04 AM

Better to use tr brains than yr brawn. For the guy just make sure his career is over in Singapore. Calmly let his bosses and HIS wife know this guy cannot be trusted with any female.

As for yr wife, you hold an ace over her; make sure the children are taken care off. You can then think of an exit plan.

scoobyhoo · #10 02-08-2008, 11:06 AM

if your wife's heart is no more with you, just leave her. do get yourself out of this, and do not hurt yourself again and again. there're many nice ladies, your wife is not the only one. you have your life, your career/job, and you must go on.

maxsee · #11 02-08-2008, 11:07 AM

Dun understand why u would beat up ur wife just becoz she sleep with someone else.....wtf....u are no diff than a beast urself...ur wife is not ur property....if she choose to leave u or commit adultery...so be it...take it like a man and move on with ur life...no need to resort to violence....wtf.....u should be locked up!!!

pokeman71 · #12 02-08-2008, 11:12 AM

Old people say, cut ppl hair will also kanna cut by other.

Think problem usually lie with the man. The man seduction to a lonely wife because the man got no more feeling for his wife.

Chain reaction.

Important, if your wife still got feel for you and kids, than close one eye. Make sure no more next time loh. Also you got a reason to fuck around next time loh.

Bro, remember one thing, if you with violence, you end up in jail and they end up in bed ok.

tanmikel · #13 02-08-2008, 11:17 AM

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Now to the guy part.....knn !!! dun know whether you will be reading this thread or not . He admitted to me on the phone and i'm yet to meet u with him next few days.

How you gonna handle him ? beat him up ? seek compensate ? He will responsible for everything . That for sure as i know her wife number ? office nmber ? He has good carrer which i don't think he wants me to make trouble at his office.
I will not beat him up to punish him unless i cut off his little bro......cb!! exterer pain will recover after some time.
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meet him , get an MP3 player that can record and put it in your pocket , record his admission , after that the world is yours to decide and play with . no need for physical violence , you can have revenge in other ways . with the recording , make him pay $$ . after collecting his money , show his wife and family the recording and destroy his life , just like he did to you .

BANANASKIN · #14 02-08-2008, 11:18 AM

BROZ, I think u better dun waste ur time go meet tat bugger lah.
Wat is done is alreadi done. The fact is ur wife had alreadi make u a green hat.
In marriage, the first thing is about trust. WILL U TRUST UR WIFE AGAIN?
Ur wife is the honey, those men outside is the bees.
Of course ur wife should be one controlling herself. CAUSE there r countless bees outside.
SO my advice to u is, THINK over ur marriage.
U may beat her once, the next time u may also kill her.
Good luck.

Frankiestine · #15 02-08-2008, 11:20 AM

Bro sorry to hear about that but never raise hand against wife becos end of the day you still end up loser which ever way whether you want to carry on or divorce....once she make report it goes against you...if she cuckold you then drag her name thru mud..

For the guy, I say no need to get mad just get even...he nearly destroyed your life and marriage...now you get even and screw him back by destroying his marriage and career...squeal on him to his wife and make a scene at his office..