"Feelings about you is complicated" - What's the meaning?

lancelim · #1 03-08-2008, 04:02 PM

I recently revealed my feelings to a friend and she told me that her feelings for me is complicated. Can anyone please enlighten me what does this "complicated" could mean?

I thank all bros and sisters who are replying first.. Thanks alot!

sammyboyfor · #2 03-08-2008, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by lancelim

I recently revealed my feelings to a friend and she told me that her feelings for me is complicated. Can anyone please enlighten me what does this "complicated" could mean?

I thank all bros and sisters who are replying first.. Thanks alot!

It's a polite way of saying "fuck off and leave me alone!".

lancelim · #3 03-08-2008, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

It's a polite way of saying "fuck off and leave me alone!".

Oh ok.. Thanks for enlightening me...

Silver5 · #4 03-08-2008, 05:18 PM

here's on my take on 'my feelings for u are complicated':
u seems to be nice, so i'll keep u(confused) aside in case shit happen
this means that i must never find out that u'll have any kind
of romance beside me and i'll end it mercilessly without looking too stupid

what u have do now is to declared ur undying love to me, buy me presents
doing things that no normal male guys would do for me for entertainment be there whenever i call for you within half an hour and listen to my crying and whining for at least mininium 2hrs give in to my every demands and request.

all these in just 'my feelings for you are complicated'

p.s. Dun worry you're not the only one guy that i've been telling 'my feelings for you are complicated'

JGoo · #5 03-08-2008, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by lancelim

I recently revealed my feelings to a friend and she told me that her feelings for me is complicated. Can anyone please enlighten me what does this "complicated" could mean?

I thank all bros and sisters who are replying first.. Thanks alot!

She is comfortable with you but she do not wish to further nature this relationship. At the same time, she is cruising for more option to find any other better guys. Her heart is not settled down yet...

Megatronzombie · #6 03-08-2008, 05:48 PM

When a girl says that to you, run like shit as quick as you can and as far as you can. Coz u will never see the light of day and its more worth it to spend all those money u saved up to buy her stuff on FLs where they will treat u like kings instead of you treating her like queen.

steamer · #7 03-08-2008, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by lancelim

I recently revealed my feelings to a friend and she told me that her feelings for me is complicated. Can anyone please enlighten me what does this "complicated" could mean?

I thank all bros and sisters who are replying first.. Thanks alot!

she is rejecting you nicely. move on bro.
all the best.

XEye · #8 03-08-2008, 06:44 PM

Want to know what it means ?

Ask her lah ....

That is the problem we man have... we know female are complicated and that we from Mars can never know their Venus thoughts.

Go ask and stop all the guessing and questioning.

There is none of us can get into her brain to tell you what it is.

By the way, what do you want to hear anyway ?

Star Destroyer · #9 03-08-2008, 08:07 PM

Translated: You are more like a jiemei to me.

Alucard_x · #10 03-08-2008, 08:33 PM

Bro, it means she doesn't dislike you but she also don't love you. Its 50-50, so you can wait and see or find someone else. Its not clear on your situation, but suggest you probe her further (if possbile) or observe her behaviour from now when you try to date her out.

lancelim · #11 03-08-2008, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by XEye

Want to know what it means ?

Ask her lah ....

That is the problem we man have... we know female are complicated and that we from Mars can never know their Venus thoughts.

Go ask and stop all the guessing and questioning.

There is none of us can get into her brain to tell you what it is.

By the way, what do you want to hear anyway ?

I asked her but she refused to say... So I'm "prepared for the worst"...

cupid128 · #12 04-08-2008, 09:46 AM

Agree, there is no such thing as a fix meaning to what she said to you ... only she knows what she mean ..... so ask her for more , else just move on ..

Steadyman1 · #13 04-08-2008, 09:55 AM

At time not knowing the truth answer is a blessing. Stay where you are and let the friendship going. Both of you will find it more comfortably in this manner. Enjoy what you have and don't crave or cling on it.

N E R O · #14 04-08-2008, 09:57 AM

Matters of the heart is always difficult to fathom. Whatever it is if you really keen on her, just perservere ... else dont waste your time

natsuki · #15 04-08-2008, 10:33 AM

Erm... Time will tell bah? Meanwhile... Move on bah...

She might still be looking for the right one, and u might not be the right one... Maybe she's still putting u in 'reserve' list...