Wife Swapping/ Swinging

[benxmanda]

Just now went out lunch appointment with a Mat Salleh, first time met him even though few times spoken to him over the phone. About early forty or late thirty, blonde hair, 6’ 4” I think, very good looking and carried himself very well. I was very impressed and if I am a lady I doubt if I can resist him. Talked to him and his blue eyes could charm you, too bad he and I were not gay. I jokingly told him that why wouldn’t he became a Hollywood Star? He told me that if he did, they all have to go home.

This guy really spoke well and I was very impressed with his farsightedness on certain things as he tried to convince me about his business ideas.

Then half way, I got a call from my wife and he saw the screen saver of my handphone and when I finished on the line with my wife. He jokingly asked if the lady in my handphone screen saver was a film star.

I told him it’s my wife and he startled and commented that my wife very pretty and said how lucky I married such a pretty wife. I told him I couldn’t agree more with him.

He then went on to talk about his marriage, he told me that his wife also very pretty and sexy, he told me he took nude pictures of his wife even recorded their love making sessions. He then went on to ask me if I did that, I lied to him giving the excuse that my wife was too shy and we were from a very conservative society.

He then taught me how I supposed to talk my wife into posing nude for me…blah blah blah and I just listened, deep in side my heart, ha ha ha…

He then went on to show me his hand phone a video clip of his wife doing a strip tease for him to record into his handphone, my cock hardened when I saw the clip. Let me tell you, his wife was like those porno actress lah.

He even told me he could let me fuck his wife if I took and shared with him nude pictures of my wife. I said I cant do that.

He said that I shouldn’t be so narrow minded as should take this as some sort of “sexual enrichment” for both myself and my wife.

He boasted that he had never paid for sex as he could get any woman he wanted and I didn’t doubt him.

He and his wife used to webcam sex with other couples previously but now he said couldn’t get a good kick out of it.

He said he got turned on when he saw his wife fucked by another man and asked if I also like that. I said sorry not my cup of tea.

He commented that I might be surprised if he told me that here in Malaysia there are many into wife swapping as though not as common compared to his native country. He then went on to tell me about his wife swapping experience.

He then asked me if I could arrange my wife to have dinner with him, reassuring me that there will be no hanky panky just a normal dinner because he just wanted to meet my wife in real person and speak to her.

He said that by doing so would make him turn on when later he look at my wife’s nude pictures. Because he could then feel the life in the picture.

He offered me a fuck session with his wife if I allow him to have one dinner session with my wife and keep reassuring me that it is just a normal dinner in a public restaurant with nothing else.

He admitted to me that he love to shag other people wife especially he knew that the husband allowed him to do it to the wife. That’s why he also into wife swapping.

I scare if I arrange the dinner for him and my wife, my wife cannot tahan lah.

What do you think?

How many of us here tried wife swapping before?

He told me there is soft and hard swing.

Do share with us your swing experience and how you get into it?

[fenwick]

Maybe you can find out more on the other section. ' Orgies/swinging arrangements ' .

[Xfactor]

Bro, when u r mentally not convince on swinging, drop the idea. Even u allow him to do so, will your wife agree? I don't think its just a dinner session & i feel this friend of yours is very confident in talking to your wife into it.

You can only start exploring once your partner agree to try...so good luck bro

[Fowler09]

yeah bro if tings r goin fine between u n ur wife. wats the point of having a change. rem if u really agree to the meeting between them jus for a fuck with his wife u will be another Dh. DH2 haha just kidding la.
bt i believe he has nthing to lose from tis agreement cos he is game for ayting
bt u may nt be able to take it if the worse happen

[spinner_kl]

The Angmo Karchang so big, your wife sure peak if the game goes on.
For you to satisfy the Angmo wife, you better think twice, cos to her, she only get satisfaction AJ...hehe

It is all about size and strength.

[tungsten]

You only have one wife. If things are working well now, do not change anything.

If things are not working well, try to improve via other ways. Even visiting Geylang is better than wife swapping.

Man can separate sex and love. Woman usually cannot do that. Can you imagine if your wife becomes more attracted to have sex with the other man? Or thinks that you do not love her and thus agree to wife swapping?

If you are being made cuckold (no offense) behind your back, it is something that is beyond your control. If you choose to get involve into wife swapping, you make the conscious choice to share your wife with other man.

Bottom line... not worth the risk... If you want fresh meat, just find FL.

[benxmanda]

Never in my mind that i want to fuck his wife nor let him have a dinner date with my wife no matter how innocent he claims it will be.

I just want views from some of us here with regard to wife swapping/ swinging and share some experience with us.

[Bangster]

I find the idea intriguing, kinky even.

But I guess many of us are not ready for such daring adventures. It's hard to even think seriously about it, let alone broach the subject to the wife.

The westerners, they are game for anything. We are conservative Asians still, though I can't speak for the next generation. True, there are already people who are into this game in our countries, but I think it is wrong to treat the wife as a piece of meat to be passed around.

The angmoh said he was into it, but how can you be sure that was the wife? For all you know, it could be just some loose whore he picked up at a bar and somehow things got to the point where she agreed to be filmed on phone. And next up was the story expertly spun by him.

I think this subject should never be brought up to wife. Unless your wife is very liberal, else once you mention it, she will be suspicious of you ... and all of you know, they may pretend to say one thing just to trap you into saying something ... so avoid totally. Unless maybe your wife is SPG kind

[chinacat]

Better dun...later yout wife think you want to fuck ppl wife n agree to let other to fuck her too...

[Malaysian Datuk]

The fact you are asking questions here means you have reservations.....do not go ahead if you dun feel 100% comfortable......you might want to fuck the angmo's wife and might have similar fantasies of other fucking your wife but any idea what is your wife's stand? Dun go jeopardisng your marriage over this....just my 2 cents

[donnieboi]

With a smooth talker and a looker!! Man its a recipe for trouble if you leave any woman with him for dinner!!

You DON'T want to see your wife coming home with a huge smile on her face after that dinner!!

[yang punk]

Wife swapping / swinging can only happen when both husband and wife have reached the level of maturity to be able to detach sex from love.

You must be able to parade your wife in the nude and be proud to allow other men to view and enjoy her nudity...ie like at nudist beach. If men take second look at your wife and you are already jealous forget it.

You must love and trust your wife (and vice versa) to the extent that if she enjoys a fuck with some other men it is nothing more then just a physical momentary pleasure like a sharing a good conversation or a meal or a game of mahjong...

In this way you have an open relationship, you can enjoy sex with more then just your partner withour having to taochak or have feeling of guilt or betrayal. We asian societies are far from this level of maturity...

[Bangster]

agreed...

must learn more from Bro Peterpan....he is the King lah.

Hahha

[imaginative]

Bros, TS already stated this:

"Never in my mind that i want to fuck his wife nor let him have a dinner date with my wife no matter how innocent he claims it will be."