Approaching FB contact given by other Bros

[lightning]

Hi Guys was wondering how u approach FB contacts given by other brothers. My bro start off by introducing that he happened to scroll his HP contact and saw her contact and gotten from website. (Can't remember which one) seems a bit lame to me but u guys got better lines and got experinerences can share here. Thks!

Have approach 2 gals presently, one chinese and one malay... the 2nd one seems harder...

BTW i was adviced to give morning and evening greetings to give nice impressions. Any better suggestions???

[lightning]

Apologise if i may have asked something seems bo liao and ask for spoon feeds. But just really out of wits and kindly share ur experinces here

[tryherout]

Will be great to meet up and discuss over coffee. From there, build up communication and ready to standby firers...

You cant avoid open directed questions, and be brave about it since she has responded with your sms...

I have asked questions e.g.:
"When is the last time you did it with your bf?"
"Which hotel do you prefer?"
"What do you think of me?"
"Should we go now?"

[lightning]

Originally Posted by tryherout

Will be great to meet up and discuss over coffee. From there, build up communication and ready to standby firers...

You cant avoid open directed questions, and be brave about it since she has responded with your sms...

I have asked questions e.g.:
"When is the last time you did it with your bf?"
"Which hotel do you prefer?"
"What do you think of me?"
"Should we go now?"

I was chickened out a bit saying that i need to work during the 1st time. Later i asked her if she's free later but she say meeting her bf later...after work, i talked to her. But later i called her again as i wished to know her more but she seems to pissed off and hanged up

Dun think that she is that direct type and dun wants ppl to think that she is easy type?

[Bangster]

"Harlo, ai sio gan mai?"

Hahah.

Just joking.

Maybe you can try to get a bit of background info on her first from the person who passed the contact to you, eg. what she work as, where she usually hangs out etc. Thereafter it'll be easier to cook up an excuse or a lie, like

"Oh so-and-so intro your services to me, so I thought I could use them today" (if she's providing some kind of professional services such as designing, write-ups, etc)

"Hi I saw you with your group of friends at ________ the other night. Kinda shy to approach you but I believe we have a mutual friend in so-and-so"

or the daring approach
"Hi Lollipop, wanna be sucked?" hehe

[ChuiTaLan]

Well, for my case, i usually start out casually by asking them normal stuffs like how is she, how's work, life, etc etc
treat them like frens 1st.
my 1st FB (from AFF), we did chat over the hp for quite sometime b4 we meet up n went straight to hotel. Wat i did was to chat wif them as frens 1st. then slowly into the topic of sex. well, its easier for me to start the topic of sex cos i know her thru AFF.
my 2nd FB (oso from AFF), chat wif her in AFF chatroom for ard 1wk or so, then when we meet up is a grp date. Well, as usual, start talking abt non-sexual related stuffs 1st. once she's comfortable wif u, then sexual topics.
I did ask both of them why they choose me (but im not their only FBs), they say cos i dun 'look or sound' desperate, like straight ask them abt sexual stuffs. even though we know each other thru AFF, for ladies, they prefer to have that 'chemistry' 1st, then they're more open (pun intented )
So TS, u can start chatting them up like a normal frens 1st. once they're comfortable abt the sex topic, then BINGO!
Gd luck!

[lightning]

Originally Posted by ChuiTaLan

Well, for my case, i usually start out casually by asking them normal stuffs like how is she, how's work, life, etc etc
treat them like frens 1st.
my 1st FB (from AFF), we did chat over the hp for quite sometime b4 we meet up n went straight to hotel. Wat i did was to chat wif them as frens 1st. then slowly into the topic of sex. well, its easier for me to start the topic of sex cos i know her thru AFF.
my 2nd FB (oso from AFF), chat wif her in AFF chatroom for ard 1wk or so, then when we meet up is a grp date. Well, as usual, start talking abt non-sexual related stuffs 1st. once she's comfortable wif u, then sexual topics.
I did ask both of them why they choose me (but im not their only FBs), they say cos i dun 'look or sound' desperate, like straight ask them abt sexual stuffs. even though we know each other thru AFF, for ladies, they prefer to have that 'chemistry' 1st, then they're more open (pun intented )
So TS, u can start chatting them up like a normal frens 1st. once they're comfortable abt the sex topic, then BINGO!
Gd luck!

So u must have a Credit card account in order to register the Gold membership rite?

[ChuiTaLan]

Originally Posted by lightning

So u must have a Credit card account in order to register the Gold membership rite?

Nope. I nvr sign up as a member, jus a non-paying standard member. The 1st FB was bcos AFF is still relatively new during that time, so even std member can sent 1 email/day. thats how i get to know my 1st FB.
by the time i get back to AFF, no more sending of email for std members liao, so goto chat room n fish. rather time consuming..cos gotta go there n chat till u can join in for conversation. thats how i got my 2nd FB.
now...no time to chat in there liao....
so...no more FB...

[hotdick69]

chemistry is the key thing...... even if your frds pas you the contact and both of u dont have chemistry also "No Go"..... thats y keep ur options open.... be frdly with them be the nice guy, funny guy,..... what kind of guy ur comfortable with (but not a desperate 1)

if most gals who have been FB or lovers before..... they are already in the open minded mentality..... so its a matter of how u approach..... do it using the subtle approach.... " hihi how's ur day today?" "Hi How's work?" simple but effective short to the point sentences


once u start the conversation going then treat her like any other normal gal u know ask her the normal stuff..... like hobbies.... movies last seen.... then move on from then...... once she starts to get comfortable with u.... drop her hints by smsing or calling her " hihi cutie..... how's ur day" "hihi sweetie.... had ur lunch?"

dont go all out after she starts getting comfortable with u..... small little non crude sexual jokes are okie.... but not hardcore ones.... or not she will sure run away... thinking ur a despo..... hahaha

FB are not really into just the sex..... but more of the everything..... feeling chemistry..... fondness.... so dont think after knowing her straight away jump into bed

most of my FBs started from just normal frds..... 1 thing lead to another.... everything is history now

Just my 2 Cents Bro

[tryherout]

Originally Posted by lightning

Dun think that she is that direct type and dun wants ppl to think that she is easy type?

Most gal wouldnt want to be perceived as easy meat. Everyone eats anything when they are famished. Perhaps the settings werent right, little alchohol do help build up tempo and courage.

Romance her...valentino style- sending some flowers to surprise her...sometimes good to purposely commit a mistake so that there is another opportunity to show how lovely you are.

[lightning]

Originally Posted by tryherout

Most gal wouldnt want to be perceived as easy meat. Everyone eats anything when they are famished. Perhaps the settings werent right, little alchohol do help build up tempo and courage.

Romance her...valentino style- sending some flowers to surprise her...sometimes good to purposely commit a mistake so that there is another opportunity to show how lovely you are.

I also dun want to make them think that way also. Just wanna maintain a steady and fun FB thats all

[maila]

Since all FBs are out for a good fling... hint to her all your GF scared of your sexual prowess ..... maybe something like, 'all my GF say I am too good in bed, they cannot tahan' ... short and sharp

[lightning]

Originally Posted by hotdick69

chemistry is the key thing...... even if your frds pas you the contact and both of u dont have chemistry also "No Go"..... thats y keep ur options open.... be frdly with them be the nice guy, funny guy,..... what kind of guy ur comfortable with (but not a desperate 1)
.....
most of my FBs started from just normal frds..... 1 thing lead to another.... everything is history now

Just my 2 Cents Bro

Thks and will try to a frd to her from start

[lightning]

Thks a lot guys for the ideas poured in and any better lines or suggestions??

[skirtchaser639]

yet to net a FB, had try AFF before but need lots of patient, like courting gf like that
met up a few girls, no chemistry
i give up and go straight for the FL, at least simple interaction
we meet, we bonk, i pay, we part

but will be great to net a FB, we court....then
we meet, we bonk, we part
we meet, we bonk, we part
we meet, we bonk, we part
we meet, we bonk, we part....

and save on all the "i pay"....lol
(my apology for sis or bro that get offended )