The End of my sweet adventure with my PRC mei mei

[hunger_for_sex]

First of all like to say thank you to many bros who give me their support. After i write down my problem at another thread(quote below to share my story), have received a few pm offering my advise. Am touch by it. Many told me to keep a look for trick , they confirm will come up on if they have motive. N sure enough, today finally happen liao. Hai can say i pretty sad right now but at the same time pretty glad too to discover in time. Just hope to show my story with the bro here

Here go, as she is going back soon as i mention (end aug), she ask me to accompany her to go shopping today. Of cos i more then happy to do so, so take urgent leave n rush down to pick her up from gl. Fast forward , reach down at orchard, at first we r just doing some simple shopping like picking up small gift for her to give to her friend n relative . Then the big question pop up, she say she wanna go shop shop at the gucci shop. Big alert on my brain. As expect she wan a bag from there. Out come her tehness n all those rubbish like if u buy for me show me that u love me etc.

I remember a trick taught by Do_U_BJ bro. I counter it nicely saying ok lo. i buy for u the bag, u buy for this wallet too(almost same price) as a token of our love lo. Can c she pretty shock by it, but have to give her the credit she keep her cool say nvm lo n we leave the shop after that. Can sense the mood change liao, did not give me bad face but can sense she pretty sad n thing like that still holding on to my arms. In my heart , become heart-pain liao. Small head overcome big head. Wanna give in liao but hope to give her a surprise too. I cook up a reason that i need to go work urgently so i offer to sent her back first , at the back of my head intend to go buy that bag n give it later on when i meet her for dinner later on. She say ok lo. So i sent her back to gl(where she live) n take another cab back to orchard to get the bag

This is where the whole thing turn apart. Just when i was about to pay for the bag, guess who i saw. My PRC gf was holding onto the arm of some guy coming into the gucci shop. My whole heart sink, there she is promising that she is not working anymore. Not in contact with customer anymore n i saw this. Can c it in her face she is pretty shock too when she saw me at the counter about to pay for the same bag she fancy so much just now. All the care n concern she shower me with, all the sweet nothing that we talk, all the sweet mermory that we share all gone. Just blantly tell the salesgal forget about the sales, that guy there will pay for the bag. n i just walk out of the shop. In the end all of it is is also a show. I just dun get it wat she wan from me in the end. Will forever remember today 28/08/08 for the rest of my life. Lucky in my part i manage to find out earlier. It will be a very precious lesson for me.


MY previous post
"Not good at writing, so i just say in brief about my experiences. Like many cheongster, wat i seek is just lust and thrill from the commerical sex scene. My view is the same as all fuck n go so that y i should say i did not RTF til then. My first RTF was given to this FL, A. She is definately a charmer . I know i find something in her that i like then sex. I try to maintence i clear state of mind. That when i manage to spot all the trick n pattern that we all r know of. At that point of time i am so glad. Not bad i told myself. Manage to still keep a rational state of mind. Think with my big head then with small head.

Then it happen again. This time with another FL, B . Again i am drew to her char more then the sex she give. Again i try to rational with myself, they r just doing their jobs but this time after so long, (have been more then 3mth) , i feel myself growing more n more to her. i can sense she really like. I admit i like her alot too. Wat i feel is that i really something special to her. I dun mind her past as long as she stop working after that. (she going back soon). Wat i am confused right now is i am not sure of wat she feeling. Am i carrot or really there is something special between us? Like i mention, i alrdy try to keep a rational mind n try to spot trick n there but all i find is her care n concern for me. Will be visiting her in her homeland after she go back so get to know her better. Any advice or comment will be welcome thank
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[ekemono]

Originally Posted by hunger_for_sex

My PRC gf was holding onto the arm of some guy coming into the gucci shop.

Bro..., I also dun know what to say.
But OT abit, I salute you still have the mood to exppressively pen it down.
If it was me, I would have already down my 4th jug of beer in a very noisy pub. That is my weakness. I drown my sorrow.

Take care bro.

[colins]

The ultimate KC spell breaker! I reckon a lot of us need such awakening scene to see for ourselves who they are, and more importantly, who we were.

Nice sharing!

[hunger_for_sex]

Originally Posted by ekemono

Bro..., I also dun know what to say.
But OT abit, I salute you still have the mood to exppressively pen it down.
If it was me, I would have already down my 4th jug of beer in a very noisy pub. That is my weakness. I drown my sorrow.

Take care bro.

Alrdy drown 6can of beers with my buddy just now. Now still pretty sober, feeling pretty down , writing it down help me release some of the stress.

Thank bro for yr kind word. It really help me alot at this moment

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by hunger_for_sex

Alrdy drown 6can of beers with my buddy just now. Now still pretty sober, feeling pretty down , writing it down help me release some of the stress.

Thank bro for yr kind word. It really help me alot at this moment

7upz you bro,

Dun feel down, 2moro go find a SYT and bonk her hard.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

You are one lucky son of a gun.
How many who have gone thru, bot the bag and still live life thinking you found the ONE and at the same time wearing the largest green hat on the island.

Some, like me, had to go thru pains to find out the truth......yours just appeared like a gift from the almighty to show you the lite.

Welcum to the world of the awakened bro.........you were there, it all felt so real, cant be a lie, must be true feelings blah blah......now you have witnessed 1st hand their abilities that even today, many old timers with more than 10yrs cheonging experience still fall victim.

Well, after today, you'll never fall prey again (I HOPE) but do not stop your lifestyle.....else you lost!
If you need a drinking kaki this weekend, i'll be more than glad to celebrate salvation with you bro......
Notice i didnt say feel bad for you all that, cos to me, YOU'RE STILL ONE LUCKY SON OF A GUN! Think about it, how many is as lucky as you????? Then you'll appreciate the entire outcome of your story more!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by ekemono

Bro..., I also dun know what to say.
But OT abit, I salute you still have the mood to exppressively pen it down.
If it was me, I would have already down my 4th jug of beer in a very noisy pub. That is my weakness. I drown my sorrow.

Take care bro.

Common style of escapism.....
Face it, then drink to celebrate once you've recovered from it!
The more you escape, the longer the pain will affect you bro.....
Cheerios

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

If you need a drinking kaki this weekend, i'll be more than glad to celebrate salvation with you bro......

Bro, we might as well set up a Cheongsters' Broken Heart Club (to be called CBHC) and make this Saturday our inauguration drinking session. Haha.

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Bro, we might as well set up a Cheongsters' Broken Heart Club (to be called CBHC) and make this Saturday our inauguration drinking session. Haha.

we need lion dance and ribbon cutting

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Bro, we might as well set up a Cheongsters' Broken Heart Club (to be called CBHC) and make this Saturday our inauguration drinking session. Haha.

Sounds like a plan bro...i like the idea...
Colins????

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by ekemono

we need lion dance and ribbon cutting

This one confirm suan liao........
Nabrei~~~~~we need pom pom boys...bwahahahahaha & we nominate you bro hahahahaha

[colins]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Sounds like a plan bro...i like the idea...
Colins????

I've got issue with the name of the club, like the only sponsor we can ever get for our events will have to be some casket makers or caretakers.

Ok juz kidding...haha

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Bro, we might as well set up a Cheongsters' Broken Heart Club (to be called CBHC) and make this Saturday our inauguration drinking session. Haha.

hahaha... think i also can be member loh.. This week quite interesting, so many of us end the relationship this few days..

Maybe feng shui is changing for the better

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

hahaha... think i also can be member loh.. This week quite interesting, so many of us end the relationship this few days..

Maybe feng shui is changing for the better

Actually, i've had this tot for quite a while liao.
Like Colins and myself, many bros r lucky to be able to find solace here where when Colins and me were in this kinda shit, we're on our own...techincally lah though i still had an entourage of people by my side

But those poor dudes who aint here...wow...reckon we're only the tip of the iceberg.

As for the club thingy, hey, since azzarro's time till now, more and more are opening up to it...a good sign that it's really workin.
Looks like we gotta make it a point to have a real group drinking session real soon.......hmmmmmmmmm

[slider_72]

Maybe we can use this song as our club's theme song.