Help Needed with Decision with a Thai Girl

greener · #1 19-10-2008, 11:52 PM

Hi all,

I would like to get some advice here.

Recently i know this FL in her early 20s. She is from Thai, Bangkok. I was her only few customers in Singapore as she was here only for a few days.

We kept in contact still even though she is now back in Bangkok.

We chat on phone almost everyday. And its really nice to know that she really wants to maintain the contact. We mostly talk about how our days are and usually end up with the same topic ( because we only converse in her limited English, as i do not know thai at all ).

She would ask me whether i will go thailand to see her. It all sounds very genuine truly. Because we have been talking for more than 3 months now. And i am really glad that we are enjoying this long distance relationship.

Never once she ask me for any money or anything. She would at times sms me to ask me to call her as she misses me. Thats really all that she ask for.

I would like to ask for advice from all here who are reading this.

1) Should I start a relationship with her ?
2) From your experience do you think this will work out ?

I feel so guilty now because i cannot fufil my desire to want to visit her in Bangkok. When i see her sms i feel so down. I feel like i am not taking good care of her.

Please help . need advices.

aces68 · #2 20-10-2008, 12:00 AM

bro,

I think you need to ask yourself a very basic question first:-

What kind of relationship are you expecting with her ?

a) BF-GF ?
b) Fuck Buddy ?
c) Marriage ?

Without answering these questions to yourself truthfully, you will not know what to do next.

naemlo · #3 20-10-2008, 12:54 AM

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Originally Posted by greener

I feel like i am not taking good care of her.

Move on with life. A public toilet is for everyone to use.

justl00king · #4 20-10-2008, 01:07 AM

Bro TS,

She is laying the foundation for KC trap.

Be a smart boy and do the right thing.

greener · #5 20-10-2008, 01:18 AM

Hi All,

I feel that i am going for a

BF-Gf relationship.

She is now no longer working as FL. In fact she is not doing anything now. Guess she is just wasting her life away doing nothing in Bangkok.

I feel that she is sincere and truly want to develop a relationship. I feel the same way too.

The basis is

1) I do not mind her past as a FL ( for only a few days )
2) I would like to love her as a girl friend.

So i think this would more be like a question of whether i would like to have a long distance relationship with a thai yong girl.

my concern

1) I am married
2) Am i able to give her the love that she needs if this is long distance.

naemlo · #6 20-10-2008, 01:27 AM

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Originally Posted by greener

1) I am married
2) Am i able to give her the love that she needs if this is long distance.

Errrr r u going to divorce soon? R u able to visit her frequently? If not y bother finding out whether can u give her love???

U r a married man n I guess u r mature enough to think but with all these silly questions, I guess u r prepared to mess up your present marriage life.

aces68 · #7 20-10-2008, 01:40 AM

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Originally Posted by greener

Hi All,

I feel that i am going for a

BF-Gf relationship.

She is now no longer working as FL. In fact she is not doing anything now. Guess she is just wasting her life away doing nothing in Bangkok.

I feel that she is sincere and truly want to develop a relationship. I feel the same way too.

The basis is

1) I do not mind her past as a FL ( for only a few days )
2) I would like to love her as a girl friend.

So i think this would more be like a question of whether i would like to have a long distance relationship with a thai yong girl.

my concern

1) I am married
2) Am i able to give her the love that she needs if this is long distance.

I find it odd that you want a BF-GF long distance relationship with her while you are married. Get a grip, bro. Sort out your own life and marriage first.

greener · #8 20-10-2008, 01:42 AM

Thanks for the re-sounding advice against me doing anythig foolish.

U guys are right. I should not be lured.

I will re-think.

For no divorce ! i love my wife still.

I am greedy. Thats all.

Thanks to all .. really appreciate ur input.

Wooden_Handle · #9 20-10-2008, 01:59 AM

Bro,

How do you know she is not working?
And as you say she is not working so $$$ getting dry, then you will be the next ATM as hooked.

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She is now no longer working as FL. In fact she is not doing anything now. Guess she is just wasting her life away doing nothing in Bangkok.

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titan · #10 20-10-2008, 02:01 AM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Move on with life. A public toilet is for everyone to use.

i agreed 101% FLs are FPG... Fark, Pay and Go..

titan · #11 20-10-2008, 02:03 AM

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Originally Posted by greener

Thanks for the re-sounding advice against me doing anythig foolish.

U guys are right. I should not be lured.

I will re-think.

For no divorce ! i love my wife still.

I am greedy. Thats all.

Thanks to all .. really appreciate ur input.

bro, no need to think la.. keep yourself to your wife.. u love ur wife.. don't put your marriage at risk..

rocksoff · #12 20-10-2008, 02:38 AM

You can fark-pay-go but there's so much further you can go. Just depends if you will slip and lose everything. But that can happen anyway. Don't go imagining romance, just be honest and appreciate the experience. Be ready to walk away any time, and stay within your budget. Even in those constraints it's possible to share some things ..

And you know antidote is diluted poison, right?

Oh yeah and if you're married or have one GF already, just don't.

sammyboyfor · #13 20-10-2008, 03:06 AM

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Originally Posted by greener

Please help . need advices.

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "Advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) and take the test.

sammyboyfor · #14 20-10-2008, 03:08 AM

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Originally Posted by greener

1) Should I start a relationship with her ?
2) From your experience do you think this will work out ?

1) NO.
2) NO.

greener · #15 20-10-2008, 03:31 AM

Thanks again for the most truthful advice.

it is true that men just gets greedy and think they can handle one more relationship.

i wil stay away and just remain as friends with her. No stupid moves !

Thanks for making me a wiser person.

Appreciate all the truthful and blatant advices. it has been helpful for me. My turbulent mind is no longer turbulent.