Woman ONS - blame who ?

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by Genbukan

Whao... reminds me of a typical woman.. blame the sky, the earth, the sea.. but not themselves.. IMHO ... since ONS.. I believe she shd know the risk liao .. how to blame???

this post for me is the post of the day... typical human behaviour!!! how sure is she to assert that he was the one who passed it to her and not the other way round??? i mean, was he the only man she ever had sex with???

i think she is just spurned by him and looking at his happy family and life, she is just trying to pull him down to her level of misery. really agree with bro/sis sherrry that the men who dumped her probably used it as a convenient excuse to dump her due to her self-centred character.

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by littleme

Read in the local papers about a 30-yr old woman. Had a ONS when she is 25 yrs old and contracted genital herpes. The symptoms appear once a month during her period and she blame the ONS guy for it....

For 5 years, she suffers the periodic outbreak and goes on to have sex with 6 more other guys.. the 6th guy is a foreigner in SGP.

She is hoping to find someone who can accept her condition and marry her. What do you guys think... will you marry her if you are approached.

littleme beginning to be like Doenitz79. Cheers.

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by _AXL_

bro/sis sherrry

Definitely a guy...if you read his FRs bro...

JWNY

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by JWNY

Definitely a guy...if you read his FRs bro...

JWNY

oh dear, ok. caught redhanded for being too lazy again...

sorry, bro sherrry...

me still old school lah, not too accustomed to the metrosexual thingy...

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Wanna play must be prepared to face the consequences,This is what i wanna say to her.

Originally Posted by littleme

... will you marry her if you are approached.

Of coz, because I have never been approached by a girl before

[littleme]

What was posted is the lady's statements to the newspaper. Here's a snapshot of her story:

a. At age 25, her bf dumped her, she did not say what reason.

b. She then had a ONS with a guy whom she claim she begin to have symptoms of genital herps (confirmed by doctor)

c. She had monthly ulcers on her mouth despite being treated and she thinks likely its hormones imbalance related

d. For 5 yrs, she had this "monthly attacks" which put off the 5 guys - each left when they see her ulcers. During this time, she met the ONS guy in a gym and found out he is happily married and the wife is pregnant. He denied he is the one passing GH to her but she think he may be cured already. She also said it is not fair he is happily married while she had to suffer.

e. The last guy is an angmo in SGP. He had past history of GH and she thought he would be "safe" even if she had GH. Later she found out that there are many variants of GH and the combination can be hazardous.

Lastly, she said she is attractive and have no problem finding a guy (which contradicts her own claims above) and she hope to find someone who can accept her GH and marry her.

Hope I describe the situation as clear as possible.

[dominion]

Originally Posted by littleme

What was posted is the lady's statements to the newspaper. Here's a snapshot of her story:

which newspaper you got it from?

[nacho]

All I could say to her is Good Luck

[asdfghjkl]

u mean this is a sort of terminal disease??

[Aegis-Mortis]

Gential herpes isn't terminal. I guess she's just pretty unlucky, and chances are she probably did it raw as well. If she wants to blame someone, she has to blame herself too.

If its monthly outbreaks, then she is damn suay la, probably got HSV2, and she was probably fucking the guy during his outbreak (then you could probably blame the asshole as well for being irresponsible for fucking during an outbreak).

I've read articles that if you have HSV2 (not sure about HSV1) and have unprotected sex during a non-outbreak period, the chances of spreading it is quite low.

[EvilInside]

I bet that any normal man who know her condition will want to marry her. Why should one in the right frame of mind do so???

[soberguy]

Originally Posted by Genbukan

Whao... reminds me of a typical woman.. blame the sky, the earth, the sea.. but not themselves.. IMHO ... since ONS.. I believe she shd know the risk liao .. how to blame???

Don't you know? The devil claming to be God all the time! Lol...

Originally Posted by littleme

Lastly, she said she is attractive and have no problem finding a guy (which contradicts her own claims above) and she hope to find someone who can accept her GH and marry her.

Hope I describe the situation as clear as possible.

Anyway...

If you ask that woman if she will accept a guy who has herpes while she is not, guess what will be her answer??

Since she is so attractive, why would she bother with a guy with herpes? Beside, this is atypical case of most women mindset of garnering sympathy as if they are the victim while at the same time, cannot admit their own failure. They simply think too highly of themselve like some princess. Won't you think so?

Of course, there some guys who seek to differ but they can't be a majority voice because they prolly do anything to find out what is under the skirt

You may say that I am biased in my opinion but there is no smoke without fire and I had seen quite a fair bit.

[dominion]

Originally Posted by EvilInside

I bet that any normal man who know her condition will want to marry her.

so if you are normal you will want to marry her?

Aiyah, how can she blame people for it. If you get into an ONS, you should be wary liao mah, meaning the other party also cheong like hell .... it could also have happen the other way round she passing to the man ... then who at fault... casual sex definitely has a risk everybody go into it with your eyes wide open, so cant blame people ...