Keep in contact with previous WL

[unfit]

Good to maintain contact

Unless she willing to fuck you

Even married or with kids

Means she really likes you

But really quite rare

[happytree123]

When working in GL, it is called business relationship. The WL will still have some incentive to talk to you cos she can earn from RTF. Money always come first.

Once she leave GL, the incentive disappears.

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Some may be friendly and let you go find her which was the case for me. I went to her rented apartment. Looking back, she is kinda ordinary once she is bared face and she was approaching 30.

In fact, she dressed kinda conservative, she got a lot of normal jeans in her wardrobe. Dress sexy is really just for job.

But I also smart enough and we decided to stop talking over wechat. No common interest / topics. Hope she can find a nice guy to grab on.

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So after awhile, it is no longer socialising but is just palaver. It will really kill any remnants of the relationship you all have

[evantoh]

Originally Posted by unfit

Good to maintain contact

Unless she willing to fuck you

Even married or with kids

Means she really likes you

But really quite rare

Interesting.
I guess you are right.
LoL

[apache]

If the WL does not delete me and would reply, why not? I would continue to keep in contact

If she did not delete you, and you chance upon her Wechat a few years later, she could not remember you and you could not remember her.

[uglydog]

Originally Posted by happytree123

When working in GL, it is called business relationship. The WL will still have some incentive to talk to you cos she can earn from RTF. Money always come first.

Once she leave GL, the incentive disappears.

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Some may be friendly and let you go find her which was the case for me. I went to her rented apartment. Looking back, she is kinda ordinary once she is bared face and she was approaching 30.

In fact, she dressed kinda conservative, she got a lot of normal jeans in her wardrobe. Dress sexy is really just for job.

But I also smart enough and we decided to stop talking over wechat. No common interest / topics. Hope she can find a nice guy to grab on.

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So after awhile, it is no longer socialising but is just palaver. It will really kill any remnants of the relationship you all have

I agree with your perspective.. Even long distance relationships among couples very hard to survive, let alone WL + chiongster dynamic. Unless you are looking for "love" and plan to go there marry her, what's the point of keeping in contact? The time and effort you spend on her can be better spent on your actual friends and family in Sg.. Better to cut off and maintain the fond memories you have of her

And also, always remember. If she's still in touch with you after she ORD, you are definitely NOT the only one she's talking to. Wanting exclusivity with a WL/Ex WL is like wanting pigs to fly and will only happen in your dreams

[deltaman]

Originally Posted by uglydog

And also, always remember. If she's still in touch with you after she ORD, you are definitely NOT the only one she's talking to. Wanting exclusivity with a WL/Ex WL is like wanting pigs to fly and will only happen in your dreams

true true true

We are just one of her many others, we wont know how many

[evantoh]

Originally Posted by uglydog

I agree with your perspective.. Even long distance relationships among couples very hard to survive, let alone WL + chiongster dynamic. Unless you are looking for "love" and plan to go there marry her, what's the point of keeping in contact? The time and effort you spend on her can be better spent on your actual friends and family in Sg.. Better to cut off and maintain the fond memories you have of her

And also, always remember. If she's still in touch with you after she ORD, you are definitely NOT the only one she's talking to. Wanting exclusivity with a WL/Ex WL is like wanting pigs to fly and will only happen in your dreams

Yes, you are right.

Many WLs want a complete psychological and social separation from their past to start fresh. And maintaining contact risks exposing their past to new partners, family, or employers, which can compromise their safety or reputation.For most, the relationship was strictly business. Once the financial transaction ends, the mutual purpose of the relationship disappears.

So there is no reason to keep in contact for the wl. Even those who spents hundred thousands on them also kenna cut off.

So those still in contact can either be, their wechat is just their 2nd line, a dead obe, they wont check. Or there is certain financial arrangements, else i cant think of a better reason why a wl would spend time to maintain this relationship with a sg guy who paid to F her.

LoL

[niceguydiefirst]

Let's say I strike toto and got alot of money then I don't mind bao them for one month trip in china.

[Lucaspato]

Met one of my ex GL girls while in bkk, paid to fuck, went out for dinner. it was good to see her.

fucked a few times and then pretty much " forgot" about her. But it was good memories and this time she finally did a BBBJ ( GL dont allow)..