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Re: Thai "holiday gf"? Anyone had something like this before?
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Originally Posted by cbk69
No yeah you're right bro. It could just be as simple as that. I'm likely overthinking it. I also haven't been truthful with her so I shouldn't expect her to be truthful with me as well.
Do you still have any such things going on, or you've stepped out from the scene?
I'll enjoy it while it lasts, going to Phuket with her this weekend!
Enjoy your Phuket fuckfest bro.
Make some memories, when you are older you will likely look back with some bittersweet feelings but you will also think, that the fucks were well worth it.
I rented a pool villa once with this girl, and I taught her how to swim over a few days. There were lots of breaks in between, I would get damn horny seeing her parade all day in swimwear and sometimes, in her birthday suit. I would then proceed to pump her full tank. Always raw, and always CIP.
She will shower, and cuddle me to sleep and give me a wakeup call and a BBBJ + CIM and sometimes CIP as well. We will then call housekeeping because the bedsheet would be stained with pussy juice and cum then proceed again with "swimming lessons". Evenings were mostly cuddling on the hotel sofa/daybed until she is horny enough then it would either be me eating her out till she came or her milking my balls dry.
Great memories.
I stepped out from the scene already, I have a stable 8-year relationship with someone who was also ex-nightlife. I plan to spend more time with my current girl and settle overseas, when my kids are independent.
Re: Thai "holiday gf"? Anyone had something like this before?
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Originally Posted by Josepere
Enjoy your trip bro! get a nice villa, fuck by the pool ! Just enjoy!
U damn fierce bro lol.
But I remember we were fooling around in the sea off the resort.. she got me so hard that I couldn't get out of the ocean back to the resort with the bulge in my swimming trunks... had to calm down for like 5 mins first. We laughed like mad haha
Wow, I really appreciate your reply bro. How long did your "relationship" last?
In my case, she really hardly texts me at all. Actually, we don't have much conversation topics at all, she speaks nearly 0 English and obviously me 0 Thai. How about your girl last time, did she speak some English?
It seems that we just enjoy each other's company and we are very affectionate towards each other both outside and in the bedroom, and we do activities together like walking around etc although she actually hates walking haha. She always surprises me with her hidden talents.. like when I brought her bowling and she freaking beat me in the 1st and only game even though it's her first time bowling (she can't be faking this haha, her grip and posture all wrong). And then at the resort I taught her table tennis and she was able to return shots quite consistently within 5 minutes. But I digress.
I agree with you, she probably does have a very pragmatic view of the relationship. She clearly doesn't see me as a BF (or she's waiting for me to say that I would like her to be my GF...), and when she finds someone eventually (quite sure it'd be a Thai person or at least Thai-speaking person), she'll likely cut me off. I guess I have to be prepared for that.
She did ask me about my background, and yeah I told her I'm single and free. But I'm actually married with a child, though I really live like a single person for the most part (leading a double life, yes).
I know I'm morally ambiguous/bad and that's probably why I am not going to blame her if she is also not going to be truthful about what she's doing.
Actually, on the last trip, after this girl went back home on Friday, I happened to get a proper no-nonsense massage at a proper place (those places with lots of tourists and real google reviews) - I was totally not expecting this kind of encounter because I've gotten so many massages at proper places before, and never ever got prepositioned before to meet after the session (but golden Q/HJ/boom-boom at the place itself, obviously very common la as you know).
But somehow this masseuse (quite cute actually) seemed really interested in me (kept giggling etc), asked where I was going/staying, and asked if she could stay with me for the night (not so directly but asked in a roundabout way). We exchanged contacts and she really showed up at my hotel. This is a full story for another day, but in summary, after some quick conversation we started making out heavily in the room, I got a little too heated and wanted to F her but she stopped me - she said she didn't mind giving me a HJ but she didn't want to F on the 1st time as it should not be the way. Not sure why but I rejected her HJ as I originally wanted to go all the way, and her actions gave me the idea that she wanted a good time herself (who the heck would suggest going to your hotel room otherwise? And she wasn't asking for money either).
But anyway after we both calmed down, she said she was really sorry and had to go home as she still had to work the next day, but she promised to stay over the next time if I told her in advance and she would then pack her bag with sleeping clothes etc. I thought that would be the end of it because maybe I was a little too aggressive, but turns out she continued to text me and we're still texting quite a bit now (more than the 1st girl actually). She seems like a fun genuine girl but honestly, all these girls are confusing the hell out of me and I really have no idea if they are playing these games with 5 other guys to see who bites, or if they actually really like me.
Life is so complicated... I feel like maybe I'm not getting enough excitement in my life, that's why I'm letting these things happen to me.
BTW if anyone is interested in their photos, I'm happy to share here too. Both really look like very decent proper girls. Not super stunning but a bit of the GND look.
Re: Thai "holiday gf"? Anyone had something like this before?
Wah, your girl has very high drive. I think mine is nowhere near lol. Normally I have to start her engine going.
Yeah these are experiences that are likely hard to get normally.. I get conflicting feelings because it's actually pretty wrong in a way. You mentioned you have kids.. so you are/were married?
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Originally Posted by Penguin23
Enjoy your Phuket fuckfest bro.
Make some memories, when you are older you will likely look back with some bittersweet feelings but you will also think, that the fucks were well worth it.
I rented a pool villa once with this girl, and I taught her how to swim over a few days. There were lots of breaks in between, I would get damn horny seeing her parade all day in swimwear and sometimes, in her birthday suit. I would then proceed to pump her full tank. Always raw, and always CIP.
She will shower, and cuddle me to sleep and give me a wakeup call and a BBBJ + CIM and sometimes CIP as well. We will then call housekeeping because the bedsheet would be stained with pussy juice and cum then proceed again with "swimming lessons". Evenings were mostly cuddling on the hotel sofa/daybed until she is horny enough then it would either be me eating her out till she came or her milking my balls dry.
Great memories.
I stepped out from the scene already, I have a stable 8-year relationship with someone who was also ex-nightlife. I plan to spend more time with my current girl and settle overseas, when my kids are independent.
Re: Thai "holiday gf"? Anyone had something like this before?
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Originally Posted by cbk69
Wah, your girl has very high drive. I think mine is nowhere near lol. Normally I have to start her engine going.
Yeah these are experiences that are likely hard to get normally.. I get conflicting feelings because it's actually pretty wrong in a way. You mentioned you have kids.. so you are/were married?
I was married for 15 years, I am divorced and I have care and control of my 2 kids.
Yeah you are definitely playing her, but she's probably not stupid enough to think that you are single. Enjoy while it lasts bro. Many guys will say, don't ask don't tell. I have never been good at playing the field and fortunately I no longer need to.
Re: Thai "holiday gf"? Anyone had something like this before?
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Originally Posted by Penguin23
I was married for 15 years, I am divorced and I have care and control of my 2 kids.
Yeah you are definitely playing her, but she's probably not stupid enough to think that you are single. Enjoy while it lasts bro. Many guys will say, don't ask don't tell. I have never been good at playing the field and fortunately I no longer need to.
I see. Thanks for sharing. I'm not sure when I will stop my nonsense. What made you finally stop playing the field, if you don't mind me asking? I think I have something to learn from you.
And yeah, she did ask if I have a wife and kid last time (maybe a few times), and she clearly didn't buy it when I said I was single. She even said it's ok for me to say the truth.
Anyway, since she doesn't mind either way and she really doesn't ask much about my background, I guess I will keep it this way for now. On my way to meet her now!
Re: Thai "holiday gf"? Anyone had something like this before?
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Originally Posted by cbk69
I see. Thanks for sharing. I'm not sure when I will stop my nonsense. What made you finally stop playing the field, if you don't mind me asking? I think I have something to learn from you.
And yeah, she did ask if I have a wife and kid last time (maybe a few times), and she clearly didn't buy it when I said I was single. She even said it's ok for me to say the truth.
Anyway, since she doesn't mind either way and she really doesn't ask much about my background, I guess I will keep it this way for now. On my way to meet her now!
There usually comes a point in time, when the quality of a fuck matters so much more than the sheer quantity. I have some chiongster friends who are "forever young" always chasing pussy that are barely legal but I think, for most guys, we all lose the ability and desire to cum repeatedly into different pussies. We just want great sex, regularly and one that is alwsys delivered with real emotions.
The day you come to this realisation, is the day you evolve and seek stability above adventure and sheer quantity.
Maybe I can suggest, try being honest with your girl about your status. Apologise to her and see how she takes the news. If she accepts your apology, watch how the sex evolves. My guess is that it will become better, the kind of sex no amount of money can buy. Some ladies have simply given up on finding a marriageable guy, all they want is someone who loves them even though they know you cannot be theirs alone.
If your girl leaves after you tell her the truth, well you at least know what she was hoping for all along..
Re: Thai "holiday gf"? Anyone had something like this before?
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Originally Posted by Penguin23
I was married for 15 years, I am divorced and I have care and control of my 2 kids.
Yeah you are definitely playing her, but she's probably not stupid enough to think that you are single. Enjoy while it lasts bro. Many guys will say, don't ask don't tell. I have never been good at playing the field and fortunately I no longer need to.
Been following your post, thank you for sharing bro.
Re: Thai "holiday gf"? Anyone had something like this before?
Thanks again for sharing your experience bro.
I just returned from the Phuket trip with her and it was great - just a lovely time spent together exploring places, eating at different places and the usual morning and night aerobics. But I didn't build up the courage to tell her the truth.. I don't know if our sex can get any better to be honest, but I really didn't want to rock the boat. As usual though we seemed to have a "don't ask don't tell" approach to our current lives. I suspect at some point we might get bored of each other I guess, if this continues to go on in its current mode without any new developments or plans. It's the first time im in this situation so I'm not sure as well.
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Originally Posted by Penguin23
There usually comes a point in time, when the quality of a fuck matters so much more than the sheer quantity. I have some chiongster friends who are "forever young" always chasing pussy that are barely legal but I think, for most guys, we all lose the ability and desire to cum repeatedly into different pussies. We just want great sex, regularly and one that is alwsys delivered with real emotions.
The day you come to this realisation, is the day you evolve and seek stability above adventure and sheer quantity.
Maybe I can suggest, try being honest with your girl about your status. Apologise to her and see how she takes the news. If she accepts your apology, watch how the sex evolves. My guess is that it will become better, the kind of sex no amount of money can buy. Some ladies have simply given up on finding a marriageable guy, all they want is someone who loves them even though they know you cannot be theirs alone.
If your girl leaves after you tell her the truth, well you at least know what she was hoping for all along..
There usually comes a point in time, when the quality of a fuck matters so much more than the sheer quantity. I have some chiongster friends who are "forever young" always chasing pussy that are barely legal but I think, for most guys, we all lose the ability and desire to cum repeatedly into different pussies. We just want great sex, regularly and one that is alwsys delivered with real emotions.
The day you come to this realisation, is the day you evolve and seek stability above adventure and sheer quantity.
Maybe I can suggest, try being honest with your girl about your status. Apologise to her and see how she takes the news. If she accepts your apology, watch how the sex evolves. My guess is that it will become better, the kind of sex no amount of money can buy. Some ladies have simply given up on finding a marriageable guy, all they want is someone who loves them even though they know you cannot be theirs alone.
If your girl leaves after you tell her the truth, well you at least know what she was hoping for all along..
Have to be very careful. What if she suddenly use a pair of scissors and cut away your penis at night when you were sound asleep?? Better be careful my friend.
Re: Thai "holiday gf"? Anyone had something like this before?
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Originally Posted by BroRelax
Have to be very careful. What if she suddenly use a pair of scissors and cut away your penis at night when you were sound asleep?? Better be careful my friend.
This is why I advocate being honest, in all those stories where the guy loses his kkj, the girl always finds our from someone else
OP also runs the risk of being found out by both sides, not a great outcome no matter how small the risk is. When you are young, running this kind of risk seems exciting but when you get a bit older this kind of drama is simply unnecessary excitement.
Re: Thai "holiday gf"? Anyone had something like this before?
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Originally Posted by BroRelax
Have to be very careful. What if she suddenly use a pair of scissors and cut away your penis at night when you were sound asleep?? Better be careful my friend.
cut liao feed to the ducks..
seems like everyone has heart of these stories!
the worse i heard was they use the jaggard edges of the condense milk tin ( if u use the hand opener) to cut, like that cannot sew back!
07-09-2026, 04:29 PM
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