from F##k Service to Friendship, Possible ?

[evantoh]

Originally Posted by Matman36

Competition to be #1!

Highly likely!
They probably thinking....

I wanna be the number 1 sohai... sorry sorry, i mean i wanna be the number 1 knight in the wl's eyes!

[evantoh]

[QUOTE=Dignified69;25688561]

Originally Posted by evantoh

Hiaz, I was married before, but over time, the marriage reached a point where my ex-wife and I became worse than roommates. We barely talked, and I even dreaded going home.

Eventually, I decided it was best to call it quits for the sake of both of us. Sometimes, letting go is better than staying in a marriage where both people are no longer happy.


~x~


Believe me I know the roommate feeling....What a unique torture
Does not pain you from the outside but eats you from within

With work from home, I make it a point to be out on the days when she is in
As owner of SME I have this blessed freedom.

Till now the children are my excuse for not rocking the boat
Very quickly that excuse will not be there
I rationalise that any separation will harm my children
And they are blameless and have only given me joy

Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness
Whose happiness?
If I pursue my own happiness and spread unhappiness everywhere does that make me more happy

And then material possession of all that we have built together

Apologies for the rant
Too many things going through my head

Not easy i know. The 内耗 is draining you slowly. Pulling the plug is not easy too.

[Matman36]

Originally Posted by heroi111

Yes. Great advice.
After being hurted by prc wl who have left our shores, I dare not put in all my heart.
One standby is good lol.
Be ready to switch if wl play me out.
Mentally prepared and be less hurt the next round.

Yeah that's what I try to have, always get a second WL you like in case your #1 starts to mess with your head too much.

I was the boyfriend of a popular WL for like 8 months at some point. I was less used to it than now and it was a roller coaster. Great memories and we're still good friends, but it's easy to get hurt on both side in such situation. Having another girl kept me sane during low points and after she left.

I've dated a few WLs since then. I got a big crush few months back with one that reminded me my favorite, but we got into a stupid argument and didn't talk since then. Luckily, I had a standby again and didn't overthink it.

[heroi111]

Originally Posted by Matman36

Yeah that's what I try to have, always get a second WL you like in case your #1 starts to mess with your head too much.

I was the boyfriend of a popular WL for like 8 months at some point. I was less used to it than now and it was a roller coaster. Great memories and we're still good friends, but it's easy to get hurt on both side in such situation. Having another girl kept me sane during low points and after she left.

I've dated a few WLs since then. I got a big crush few months back with one that reminded me my favorite, but we got into a stupid argument and didn't talk since then. Luckily, I had a standby again and didn't overthink it.

I feel they choose boyfriend based on above average looks but no need to be like Chuando la.
Plus you cannot be too poor to see her like once a month lol.
Meet this criteria, they like your face.
You can be the boyfriend.
This is what I feel lol.

[electronics]

Originally Posted by evantoh

Somehow, I find that most ladies have this unique skill. And I’m not just talking about WL, ladies you meet outside display the same behaviour.

They receive a gift from 1 suitor, wear it when meeting another suitor, and then receive more gifts from more suitors. It’s like they know how to keep multiple options going while collecting gifts along the way.

If you can spot this kind of behaviour, my advice is simple: siam as far as you can.

When it comes to WL, it is more prominent because that is what they are here for. They are not herr to holiday, finding a lover is never on their list. So all these love and care and feeling, i say likely fake.

Sadly, sg guys needed many many TLC. So, it is easy to make them tio GONGTAO by sending some caring msg or calls.

Her house mate text me before asking

大哥已经在店里低成本的拥有过了。为什么还要花钱带她出去

Some WL also don’t understand some men

[Topper]

Originally Posted by CroveTapital

I went through this twice already like you, lol. Haven't gone to gl for two months liao. Luckily I found someone outside gl who’s much more worth keeping. Chill bro, gl is just for good sex and playing around. Think about it this way: you spent much less to fuck a daigor's gal and enjoyed some GFE, even if it didn't last forever. They are here to make money anyway.

Outside normal gal is a longer game which requires nurturing and lots of effort but chances are, will still not turn out well as most eventually do once the situation changes or once you discover more about each other's flaws or personality differences, which is how we ended up here in the first place.

Hence, it is always good to have GL for standby when it ends or during those long periods of quarrel, cold treatment etc.

Whenever that happens, once 钱到账，be assured of guaranteed service from your regular WL saying for e.g., '哎哟喂，我的宝贝怎么啦？又被女朋友欺负了呀。没事的，让我好好伺候你吧。你想摸我哪里都行，随便摸。老 公，干我……啊！好爽！宝贝你好厉害哦。我来高潮了……宝贝来，累了吧，我帮你按摩'

Little did your gf know that not only are you not suffering but having a bonking good time

That is the advantage of being a man.

[Matman36]

Originally Posted by heroi111

I feel they choose boyfriend based on above average looks but no need to be like Chuando la.
Plus you cannot be too poor to see her like once a month lol.
Meet this criteria, they like your face.
You can be the boyfriend.
This is what I feel lol.

Something like that, weekly visit at the shop, good chemistry to chit chat and mutual attraction. It's quite easy to see if I'm their type or not from the start, they are often an open book when they like someone.

[OpPrime88]

end of the day bro
all you want is a fwb

there is no true friendship
its all about what you deliver to the table

the same time 100 others are eating at the same table bro

[chrix]

Originally Posted by electronics

She uses a bag from brother A, wear gold bracelet from brother B and went out with brother C for shopping trip.

Never quite understand why big spenders enjoy spending so much when she not exclusive.

Because they CAN.

Of cos normal logic says we should only spend on a local girl who is exclusive to us.

Why bro spend hundreds at restaurant when we can eat McDonald's.

Why drive Merz or BM when Honda and Toyota does the job.

Why wear Rolex and PP and AP when can wear Casio.

That's life. People like to do what they feel like doing and not what is the most logic thing to do.

[unfit]

Be it WL ML FL or any service provider

Once friendship kicks in

The sexual relationship gone

For me I rather maintain the service acquaintance relationship

Those introduced me to husband and kids one

All no more intercourse

Whereas those whenever I visit them

They would voluntarily excuse themselves from family

And spend quality vacation time with me

[evantoh]

Originally Posted by unfit

Be it WL ML FL or any service provider

Once friendship kicks in

The sexual relationship gone

For me I rather maintain the service acquaintance relationship

Those introduced me to husband and kids one

All no more intercourse

Whereas those whenever I visit them

They would voluntarily excuse themselves from family

And spend quality vacation time with me

Words from the wise one.
I better ask my wl to stop giving me a morning blowjob to wake me up whenever she sees my morning wood.

Must maintain service acquaintance status. Oh wait.... what is my current status now? Wahahhaha

[unfit]

Originally Posted by evantoh

Words from the wise one.
I better ask my wl to stop giving me a morning blowjob to wake me up whenever she sees my morning wood.

Must maintain service acquaintance status. Oh wait.... what is my current status now? Wahahhaha

yours is either FB or FWB

me prefer SP only

[niceguydiefirst]

Let's say if I'm rich enough, I can make babies with her, wl or ex escort that I really like, without marriage and pay her salary and provide house. So money is the one that can solve almost everything.

[evantoh]

Originally Posted by niceguydiefirst

Let's say if I'm rich enough, I can make babies with her, wl or ex escort that I really like, without marriage and pay her salary and provide house. So money is the one that can solve almost everything.

If have money, you can take your pick.
Many 小三out of job in china now. Need 接盘侠 to take over. Cos many sugar daddies also no money liao.

Quality consperm good good.
But, i cant support their lifestyle.

[niceguydiefirst]

Originally Posted by evantoh

If have money, you can take your pick.
Many 小三out of job in china now. Need 接盘侠 to take over. Cos many sugar daddies also no money liao.

Quality consperm good good.
But, i cant support their lifestyle.

Ya if I have money, I won't mind doing this. Ex prostitute has good sex skill then maintain as 小三 type by providing salary and housing. Then prc girls usually also want to have children unlike sg girls. I also can avoid the divorce proceedings.

What is the minimum amount to able to afford that? Now things getting expensive. I think net worth need to be around 5m sgd. Of cuz the more the merrier. Prc everything about money.