from F##k Service to Friendship, Possible ?

[chrix]

The used bottles got 10 cent refund is a joke right? Did you go to her place to collect them ?

[evantoh]

Originally Posted by happytree123

speaking for this bao, have anyone manage to hear any latest updates from this story: There was some guy who bailed out a wl by offering 600K SGD and buy a condo for her (not sure is under her name or the guy name) in China.

However, they never sign marriage papers in the end despite being part of the deal offered (or at least this was the last news update)

Not sure if what i heard was the same, but the guy did sent some money to her, but stopped and disappeared. Ended up the wl regrtted big time.

Mine might be another case thou while the numbers tally.

[heroi111]

Originally Posted by happytree123

So i tried asking her out again which she agreed to. This time round went to eat fast food which she pay for herself again cos she knows I'm stingy as fuck hahaha. Next time need to go places which can scan WeChat Pay or use cash only. She see me keep the empty water bottle from her house, ask me whether I want go collect from her house, got a lot I can collect for the 10c refund

It was a quick one cos she knew I wanted to bring her go ECP to have some quiet time together.

Really cannot take the 乡巴佬 out of her from the way she smoke in public coupled with the oversized tee which make her look like those Vietbu KTV ladies during their off duty hours.

She seems very happy to be at the beach though, go walk on the sand and do some poses when I took photo for her. Again, hear her talk shit again.

Actually she once thought of trying to psycho her clients to splurge or try baoed her (cos her colleagues some got God of Fortunes already, got one is 4 hrs sessions straight just to smoke), but she just cannot force herself to 低声下气 and act 'cute' since she is a Ah Lian by nature. Also, she is wary of her colleagues who might to try to sabo her by tipping off the relevant parties involved.

As time goes by, her hand start to get more dirty, start to touch my dick and let me grab her boobs while we sitting at the bench. After that she sat on me to DFK before I realised got other people in next bench but she dgaf. Overall time quite short cos got curfew timing by boss. If not for curfew, she dm go hang out until morning and go back work straightaway.

Moving forward, she say actually if I really wanna hang out, just wechat her so long she is not dead tired. No need to go book her. I shall see things how it goes moving forward. She kept laughing at me for being cautious of her at times bo bian this kind of thing

All the best!
Your situation is good!
Don't need to buy gold, LV and iPhone is good lol!
Cheers!

[evantoh]

Originally Posted by happytree123

So i tried asking her out again which she agreed to. This time round went to eat fast food which she pay for herself again cos she knows I'm stingy as fuck hahaha. Next time need to go places which can scan WeChat Pay or use cash only. She see me keep the empty water bottle from her house, ask me whether I want go collect from her house, got a lot I can collect for the 10c refund

It was a quick one cos she knew I wanted to bring her go ECP to have some quiet time together.

Really cannot take the 乡巴佬 out of her from the way she smoke in public coupled with the oversized tee which make her look like those Vietbu KTV ladies during their off duty hours.

She seems very happy to be at the beach though, go walk on the sand and do some poses when I took photo for her. Again, hear her talk shit again.

Actually she once thought of trying to psycho her clients to splurge or try baoed her (cos her colleagues some got God of Fortunes already, got one is 4 hrs sessions straight just to smoke), but she just cannot force herself to 低声下气 and act 'cute' since she is a Ah Lian by nature. Also, she is wary of her colleagues who might to try to sabo her by tipping off the relevant parties involved.

As time goes by, her hand start to get more dirty, start to touch my dick and let me grab her boobs while we sitting at the bench. After that she sat on me to DFK before I realised got other people in next bench but she dgaf. Overall time quite short cos got curfew timing by boss. If not for curfew, she dm go hang out until morning and go back work straightaway.

Moving forward, she say actually if I really wanna hang out, just wechat her so long she is not dead tired. No need to go book her. I shall see things how it goes moving forward. She kept laughing at me for being cautious of her at times bo bian this kind of thing

If you are what you described. And she still wanna go out with you, at least she is comfortable with you. Of course, she went out with 1 or 2 others because of obligation cos they spent $2400 to book full day few times a week just so she can lepak and rest. This 1, no matter how much they dislike the guy, they also have to entertain.

Well, at least you song song gao jurong.

[happytree123]

Originally Posted by chrix

The used bottles got 10 cent refund is a joke right? Did you go to her place to collect them ?

of cos no lah, she just happen to see me keep the bottle and asked me is it for the 10c refund She long time accepted I'm stingy as fuck and calculate every single cent.

the nett amount of money (120$) I spend bonking in her shop can't even buy the iPhone base model

[Topper]

Originally Posted by heroi111

Very well said.
I have learnt the hard way too.

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When any wl never ever use the love word on you, don't spend on her.
Waste of money..
Even when there is love, Evan is right.
They will not be keen to always use your money.
Once they ask for gold, LV and iphone 18PM...
Time to walk away before it is too late...

My last wl was $30k cash gone...

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This might be low for rich bros.
For average person, this is some cash.

I have downgraded from MBA to BYD for example...
Now wl will see me as poor man, not chop me anymore, I hope lol.

The next WL might siphon another $50K from you then you have to downgrade further to KIA lol, just kidding.

Once the WL start to demand money from you, it's a goner. You will know when the feelings are more real and sincere when the WL not only won't ask you for money but helps you to save money or give you gifts or even send you money instead. Of course you have to monitor them for consistency in case of pig butchering risks as usual lol.

So far I have receive small gifts from WL (one which I still hang in my car), some nicer ones even rejected my tips and one even sent me ￥520 thru Wechat as a love gesture during 20th May this year also to thank me for some help I gave her earlier (non-monetary kind) but I told her I can't receive as I don't have a bank account link to it lol.

With the exception of those PRC WLs who are 拜金势利眼的捞女 here on a desperate mission which you can easily detect once you are experienced enough in this cheonging game, some nicer PRC WLs have a deep sense of pride, know that money is hard to earn for normal customers, 谈钱伤感情，hence only want to earn monies thru hard work and their own effort thru fair exchange rather than trying to 抱大款 or to 一飞冲天入豪门. They actually detests the power of money over them which landed them here due to debts and wanted to search for more freedom and meaning in life rather than being enslaved by the power of money alone til...you try to trigger their dark side, make them gian, simp over them then of course they will take 不拿白不拿嘛 as they are still cheekons

End of day, it's always about an exchange of value, your personality, your charm, how you interact with them making them happy with joy and laughter which makes the difference. The value you provide to them should never be about throwing unnecessary monies but how you make them feel comfortable and grateful for your help or just your presence whenever you visit them

[heroi111]

Originally Posted by Topper

The next WL might siphon another $50K from you then you have to downgrade further to KIA lol, just kidding.

Once the WL start to demand money from you, it's a goner. You will know when the feelings are more real and sincere when the WL not only won't ask you for money but helps you to save money or give you gifts or even send you money instead. Of course you have to monitor them for consistency in case of pig butchering risks as usual lol.

So far I have receive small gifts from WL (one which I still hang in my car), some nicer ones even rejected my tips and one even sent me ￥520 thru Wechat as a love gesture during 5th May this year also to thank me for some help I gave her earlier (non-monetary kind) but I told her I can't receive as I don't have a bank account link to it lol.

With the exception of those PRC WLs who are 拜金势利眼的捞女 here on a desperate mission which you can easily detect once you are experienced enough in this cheonging game, some nicer PRC WLs have a deep sense of pride, know that money is hard to earn for normal customers, 谈钱伤感情，hence only want to earn monies thru hard work and their own effort thru fair exchange rather than trying to 抱大款 or to 一飞冲天入豪门. They actually detests the power of money over them which landed them here due to debts and wanted to search for more freedom and meaning in life rather than being enslaved by the power of money alone til...you try to trigger their dark side, make them gian, simp over them then of course they will take 不拿白不拿嘛 as they are still cheekons

End of day, it's always about an exchange of value, your personality, your charm, how you interact with them making them happy with joy and laughter which makes the difference. The value you provide to them should never be about throwing unnecessary monies but how you make them feel comfortable and grateful for your help or just your presence whenever you visit them

Yes. Another well said comments.
I learnt my lesson, will not anyhow give if I don't sense any love at all.
You are right about tips, they might not accept but the love of money is there la.
Most will accept happily lol.
Even the righteous one find it hard to reject one or two blue notes lol.
Yes. Good wl or wl that really loves you, spending is minimum.
If go to iphone, LV and gold,
Run away as we all said.
For bros new to prc wl tricks.
Cheers!

[niceguydiefirst]

Small tips can already dont need so much until heart pain. They come for the money.

[Dignified69]

Very correctly said - when the WL never ask money, tip or gifts from you, you know there is something genuine between the two of you.

When my sweety said that 'every day is the same here, no festival no nothing' then I arranged mid autumn festival celebration for her. Got her mooncakes, traditional snacks and pretty lantern set to assemble. When I sat on the bed and Was assembling parts of the lamp I caught the adoration in her eyes. She was happy, excited and at peace.

After this when we made out and piak piak it was love and not sex.

Till the last day she never asked for money and in fact gave me some small gifts. My heart should celebrate the beautiful times we had, but it is heavy with grief.

May all of you find real happiness in your life.

[Dignified69]

Beauty is truly in the beholders eye or more appropriately in the beholders heart.

When I see photos of my sweety then even I can say not very pretty or maybe plain from certain angles.

But it is the things she did for me which brought such such peace and joy to my heart. I then indeed find her to be very pretty and very beautiful.

I once told there that she has a heart of gold. Without a beautiful heart a beautiful face is truly incomplete. Sometimes I think bro has very pretty or beautiful wife but she never piak piak with him, how it must pain that bro's heart.

We have already said our goodbyes without tears. She is still in town for a few more days. I so much want to meet her again. But to what end?

How different was the romance of my youth from this romance today.....haizzzzzz

[heroi111]

Originally Posted by Dignified69

Beauty is truly in the beholders eye or more appropriately in the beholders heart.

When I see photos of my sweety then even I can say not very pretty or maybe plain from certain angles.

But it is the things she did for me which brought such such peace and joy to my heart. I then indeed find her to be very pretty and very beautiful.

I once told there that she has a heart of gold. Without a beautiful heart a beautiful face is truly incomplete. Sometimes I think bro has very pretty or beautiful wife but she never piak piak with him, how it must pain that bro's heart.

We have already said our goodbyes without tears. She is still in town for a few more days. I so much want to meet her again. But to what end?

How different was the romance of my youth from this romance today.....haizzzzzz

For my last wl, I visited her till her last working day.
Gave her small sum of money and took her out one day before her flight out of Singapore.
Not easy to face this.
It was painful also.
So all bros out there, if can don't start loving wl, the pain later is real. It doesn't go away in one or two days.
Some bros here after two years still cannot forget their wl....
Don't start is the best..
I am also in the midst of adjusting...
I got a new wl tot, it helps you to move on faster....
Hope this helps!

[unfit]

Used to send them off airport

Knn really can’t control myself

Weeping tearing at departure gate

Then faster buy ticket fly over

Then feel better already

[heroi111]

Originally Posted by unfit

Used to send them off airport

Knn really can’t control myself

Weeping tearing at departure gate

Then faster buy ticket fly over

Then feel better already

Even our creampie king has wept for wl...
Who can escape such pain..
The nights of crying alone on bed....
I am sure many bros here went through it....
Haiz...

[unfit]

Originally Posted by heroi111

Even our creampie king has wept for wl...
Who can escape such pain..
The nights of crying alone on bed....
I am sure many bros here went through it....
Haiz...

yes simply uncontrollable

[heroi111]

Originally Posted by unfit

yes simply uncontrollable

Hey bro.
You mean the creampie or the crying?
Both ya lol.
Cheers!