What does it take?

xenocacia · #1 06-02-2013, 08:12 AM

Being new here, would like some advice from everyone else please? What does it take for an average guy to attract a girl here? There are quite a lot guys here and competition is stiff (for some of you, perhaps literally), so how does one do it? Thanks in advance for any helpful replies.

DegenerationX · #2 06-02-2013, 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by xenocacia

Being new here, would like some advice from everyone else please? What does it take for an average guy to attract a girl here? There are quite a lot guys here and competition is stiff (for some of you, perhaps literally), so how does one do it? Thanks in advance for any helpful replies.

My advice is dun try here. go try in pubs/clubs/ktvs/kopitiam/swimming pool/mortuary. Anywhere but here.

jasdude · #3 06-02-2013, 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by xenocacia

Being new here, would like some advice from everyone else please? What does it take for an average guy to attract a girl here? There are quite a lot guys here and competition is stiff (for some of you, perhaps literally), so how does one do it? Thanks in advance for any helpful replies.

Yes there is lots of competition out in here. BUT when you don't try, opportunities come knocking. Be active in the forum and be open to all. Join in gatherings and make friends.

MSA21 · #4 06-02-2013, 10:04 AM

Bro if u are below 30, go pubs and chiong, many Local Flavor there

Unless u a old man like me

Meow^^ · #5 06-02-2013, 10:06 AM

When you want to try to get to know ladies here...you can read through the post and it will lead you to some clues on how stiff the competition is...is all about been true on your intentions make friends and be sensible...

Sucko · #6 06-02-2013, 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by xenocacia

Being new here, would like some advice from everyone else please? What does it take for an average guy to attract a girl here? There are quite a lot guys here and competition is stiff (for some of you, perhaps literally), so how does one do it? Thanks in advance for any helpful replies.

All you need is $$$

xenocacia · #7 06-02-2013, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by DegenerationX

My advice is dun try here. go try in pubs/clubs/ktvs/kopitiam/swimming pool/mortuary. Anywhere but here.

Mortuary may not have stiff competition, but everything else will be... in any case, Thanks for all the pointers! So are there a lot of posters here trying their luck in public venues as Well?

RelaySwitch · #8 06-02-2013, 06:35 PM

It'll be like striking lottery if you manage to get a girl here.

xenocacia · #9 07-02-2013, 08:22 AM

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Originally Posted by RelaySwitch

It'll be like striking lottery if you manage to get a girl here.

Really? From reading the other threads, seemed to me that guys scoring girls here was a frequent thing, which led me to wonder what was I missing. In some sad way I feel better now. Haha..

RelaySwitch · #10 07-02-2013, 08:29 PM

Yup, its the sad truth here. From which thread do you infer that guys score girls here frequently?

<<totally>> · #11 08-02-2013, 03:03 AM

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Originally Posted by xenocacia

Really? From reading the other threads, seemed to me that guys scoring girls here was a frequent thing, which led me to wonder what was I missing. In some sad way I feel better now. Haha..

When I saw the word "scoring", it somehow caused some discomfort somehow. Maybe a little pointer, try to increase the size of your vocabulary's database.

Scoring machiem sounded it as a game.

sane · #12 08-02-2013, 05:52 AM

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Originally Posted by jasdude

Yes there is lots of competition out in here. BUT when you don't try, opportunities come knocking

So u r actually hinting that opportunity keep knocking on u

TS, sometimes its not a good thing, it could be just a jinx in disguise causing pain and misery

xenocacia · #13 08-02-2013, 06:30 AM

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Originally Posted by <<totally>>

When I saw the word "scoring", it somehow caused some discomfort somehow. Maybe a little pointer, try to increase the size of your vocabulary's database.

Scoring machiem sounded it as a game.

Point taken, but other choices such as "picking up" or "hooking up with" didn't seem any better. Basically, it appears that the guys are more usually the ones vying for targets, yes? In any case, definitely no offence intended.

xenocacia · #14 08-02-2013, 07:00 AM

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Originally Posted by <<totally>>

When I saw the word "scoring", it somehow caused some discomfort somehow. Maybe a little pointer, try to increase the size of your vocabulary's database.

Scoring machiem sounded it as a game.

Point taken, but other choices such as "picking up" or "hooking up with" didn't seem any better. Basically, it appears that the guys are more usually the ones vying for targets, yes? In any case, definitely no offence intended.

jasdude · #15 08-02-2013, 07:37 AM

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Originally Posted by sane

So u r actually hinting that opportunity keep knocking on u

TS, sometimes its not a good thing, it could be just a jinx in disguise causing pain and misery

Faith plays with people. At times when you want certain things, you cannot find them. But when you least care about it, it comes in abundance.

I was just telling TS to have an open mind and make more friends my dear.