Lover or Fuck buddy

[In luv w Lust]

Wondering about Lover and Fuck buddy ...
Need a man view

[zidanetan]

For Lover, it should be long lasting relationship

For F**k, i think it would temporary needed oni. but don content of mean happiness.

[gilagila100]

Originally Posted by In luv w Lust

Wondering about Lover and Fuck buddy ...
Need a man view

Assuming that you are a female sbf member here ...

Anyway, in my vocab, there are distinct differences between gf, lover and fb ...

GF: The person that I am dating and hope to be my lover. Most of the time, there's no sex involved, yet ...

Lover: The person that I am dating and emotionally involved with. Very big possibility to make to the next stage which is marriage or at least a long-term relationship ...

Fuck buddy: For purely sexual reasons. For some reasons on either side, it could be either one of us is attached, or due to some personality issues that makes it difficult to be GF or Lover, we would have to stay on as fuck buddies. Basically, enjoys sex with each other with no other strings attached.

For most guys, I think it is easier to differentiate between sex and love. For women, I haven't really know any that managed to do that yet.

Most of the fb stories or experience I read in sbf involves older women. I guess older women are more matured and comfortable with their current lifestyles therefore they are no longer looking for a long-term relationship but maybe need a few good sex sessions every now and then to fulfill their desires.

Just my two cents ...

[soccersaint]

Originally Posted by gilagila100

Assuming that you are a female sbf member here ...

Anyway, in my vocab, there are distinct differences between gf, lover and fb ...

GF: The person that I am dating and hope to be my lover. Most of the time, there's no sex involved, yet ...

Lover: The person that I am dating and emotionally involved with. Very big possibility to make to the next stage which is marriage or at least a long-term relationship ...

Fuck buddy: For purely sexual reasons. For some reasons on either side, it could be either one of us is attached, or due to some personality issues that makes it difficult to be GF or Lover, we would have to stay on as fuck buddies. Basically, enjoys sex with each other with no other strings attached.

For most guys, I think it is easier to differentiate between sex and love. For women, I haven't really know any that managed to do that yet.

Most of the fb stories or experience I read in sbf involves older women. I guess older women are more matured and comfortable with their current lifestyles therefore they are no longer looking for a long-term relationship but maybe need a few good sex sessions every now and then to fulfill their desires.

Just my two cents ...

Great minds think alike bro

[lao_teeko]

most men can detatch sex with feelings...we dont need to have any feelings for the person we have sex with..

most females cannot....they must have feelings for the guy before they are willing to have sex..prostitutes and WLs not included..

men will usually only have 1 lover/gf..high cost to upkeep..

but men will wish for more fuck buddies..the more the merrier!

[fenwick]

Originally Posted by lao_teeko

most men can detatch sex with feelings...we dont need to have any feelings for the person we have sex with..

most females cannot....they must have feelings for the guy before they are willing to have sex..prostitutes and WLs not included..

men will usually only have 1 lover/gf..high cost to upkeep..

but men will wish for more fuck buddies..the more the merrier!

Totally agree with you bro !!!

[$|im]

who cares its lover or FB??

Important thing we get to enjoy at the end of the day!

[Bangster]

InLuvWLust,

you want a man view ah?

Come come, come my house I let you view gao gao. Anywhere, any part.



Aiyah you want to know the difference between a lover and a fuck buddy is it?

Ok lah, I tell you, from a man's point of view -

When a man shafts his cock into a woman's pussy, and tell her "I love you", she is the LOVER of that man.

When a man shafts his cock into a woman's pussy, give her that "Haha! I'm gonna have all the fun in this world tonight!!" look, she is the Fuck Buddy.

Either way, it hard to tell unless the man gets to shaft his cock inside. Arrrh, then it'll be alot easier.

[Criminalz]

I dunno...
cant tell the difference too...

but cant be bother.

[humpcheepang]

Originally Posted by In luv w Lust

Wondering about Lover and Fuck buddy ...
Need a man view

???

I f88k my FB, and I f88k my lover too! What is the difference?

[In luv w Lust]

ok...thk u for all reply...basically i understand all...but the most pratical is bangster one..coz most pratical..can immediately relate..though sound quite rude intitally...

ok some background...had someone ...involve emotionally n physically..
cnt be tog due to both have partners.. n even w/o commiments knoe we will not last... will nvr leave partners ..but care abt each other alot..
so was confused

[eastofsg]

hmm.....

FD, someone u fuck around with without any emotional attachment...
u fuck or let your fb fuck you with pure physical lust

Lover, someone u make out with sharing sense of emotional attachment...
u make love or your lover made love to you with passion and desire

Ideally, to have the best of both worlds, fuck like a lover and make out like a fb.

[In luv w Lust]

ok more..things was lusty in the beginning... then he pull back bcoz he do not want to continue..as this is wrong... but struggle with his emotions as see me cannot tahan ...heee...i was also struggling ...but i knoe i want him n in fact the more he resist the more i "like" him...after a year.. he give in to his emotions and we are tog... the thing is i was wondering whether it is possible to have each other as confidant...even try to help each other marriage by giving our views as opp sex n let each other understand our partners more..
both of us knoe FOR SURE we will not leave our commitments..n we are not really right for each other in terms of character..but despite that we still care for each other ...
ok...lets talk abt sex... sex is not even fanatastic ...but i think to him it is.. hahah... maybe bcoz i was too nervous..time n place is wrong..
wanted to leave him actually.. but cnt bear to...

[geckoSG]

Well, TS. I've been there and now out of my 3rd FLING (with EMOTION).
Trust me, dun go deep into anything EMOTIONAL, its very hurting for both
parties and may turn sour, not even friendship after that.

My suggestion is, remain as FRIEND. But those type that you feel comfy
to be with, happy to be with emotionally. No expectation, no demands.
If comfy on sex, just do it without regrets. I'm sure you will be able to last
long with such agreement on both parties.

I'm having that sort of Relationship now with my Fourth Fling, its better this
way. We meet, be comfy together, no expectation, no demands. SEX is great
for both of us.

[hippolover]

If you cant define the roles from an emotional friend to a fuck buddy...best is to distance yourself from him.

Fuck buddy should have feelings...but once that feeling goes beyond just wanting him physically, then its time to stop.